This is what I'm thinking.

[GoldenDelicious]

just a quiet voice from the sideline...calling people crazy/freaky/twisted for all to see is demeaning and quite hurtful, and if the person does have significant issues (being completely objective. everyone has issues. some big, some small, some significant, some not, at various phases in their life) it makes such comments even more so.

i would strongly suggest that everyone not directly involved in this drama frankly shut up and stay out of it. kak, i dont know what your motives were for posting your thread, and righteous or not, i cant see anything but hurt coming from this.

im not posting this message to add my 2 cents in my normal GoldenDelicious persona. im in health professional problem solver mode just now. a LOT of real world hurt is going to come from some very cheap comments made in this thread today. think about that before you press the "post reply" button. this isnt a game.

 

[Razorguns]

just a quiet voice from the sideline...calling people crazy/freaky/twisted for all to see is demeaning and quite hurtful, and if the person does have significant issues (being completely objective. everyone has issues. some big, some small, some significant, some not, at various phases in their life) it makes such comments even more so.

i would strongly suggest that everyone not directly involved in this drama frankly shut up and stay out of it. kak, i dont know what your motives were for posting your thread, and righteous or not, i cant see anything but hurt coming from this.

im not posting this message to add my 2 cents in my normal GoldenDelicious persona. im in health professional problem solver mode just now. a LOT of real world hurt is going to come from some very cheap comments made in this thread today. think about that before you press the "post reply" button. this isnt a game.

have you read his story??

damn - all i said about Raina - i take back. She's on the level of felons and thieves for me. I wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot pole. Karma is a funny thing in life. And Kak is a good bro to me too.

 

[pitbullstl]

Anybody making an emotional investment into any character on the internet needs to have their heads checked. No sympathy for hurt feeling here.


-BRR

Word. Furthermore, Raina is good peeps, as far as what happened here, I have no opinion, cause I could care less to find out what the shit it's about.

Here's what I do know (and this isn't directed at anyone, if you get offended check yo' drawers and make sure your balls aren't missing).........

Real men don't snivel and cry on the internet, real mean address their issues face to face. If someone got their balls busted by a girl........fuck it, it happens 9948817183813838183.73487 times a day all over the world.....grow a set, and move on.

 

[biteme]

But, again, the fatal flaw in this is assuming she will post. If we agree to what you are saying and she doesn't post a response, we are ultimately allowing Kak's words to never again be seen.

I'm a small fry out here, but I'm sure I'm speaking for a lot of EF out there by saying that's just too big of a loophole.

I really think it's none of our business.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

have you read his story??

damn - all i said about Raina - i take back. She's on the level of felons and thieves for me. I wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot pole. Karma is a funny thing in life. And Kak is a good bro to me too.

i deal with former drug addicts who prostituted themselves, their families, and their associates physically and socially, who stole, lied, cheated, assulted, raped their way through severeal years or decades of their lives, violated pretty well every social preconception of what is good and decent, on an almost daily basis. i am no stranger to ...extreme... personalities.

i am not a judge of anything other than what is good or bad for a persons holistic health. without ego i am highly socialised and have an excellent emotional IQ. and i say unreservedly: nothing good will come from this thread or most of the posts in it. for anyone. even were it their place to speak, or judge.

 

[biteme]

Word. Furthermore, Raina is good peeps, as far as what happened here, I have no opinion, cause I could care less to find out what the shit it's about.

Here's what I do know (and this isn't directed at anyone, if you get offended check yo' drawers and make sure your balls aren't missing).........

Real men don't snivel and cry on the internet, real mean address their issues face to face. If someone got their balls busted by a girl........fuck it, it happens 9948817183813838183.73487 times a day all over the world.....grow a set, and move on.

I have to disagree. If someone on this board fucked me over, by say.. ripping me off. I'd let it be known. This is a community. That's a fair comparison.

 

[Razorguns]

i deal with former drug addicts who prostituted themselves, their families, and their associates physically and socially, who stole, lied, cheated, assulted, raped their way through severeal years or decades of their lives, violated pretty well every social preconception of what is good and decent, on an almost daily basis. i am no stranger to ...extreme... personalities.

i am not a judge of anything other than what is good or bad for a persons holistic health. without ego i am highly socialised and have an excellent emotional IQ. and i say unreservedly: nothing good will come from this thread or most of the posts in it. for anyone. even were it their place to speak, or judge.

If kak wants to vent and blow off steam. he can. if Raina wants to. She can too. I think WE are idiots to even hypothesize and comment on them.

I don't give a shit. I've heard enough to NEVER trust or date Raina. As for me *talking* about it -- that's geigh. I wasn't there. I just heard enough for my tastes.

 

[Lestat]

golden:

So the issue here is really that people who have some of the more MAJOR issues in life, probably shouldn't practice behavior that makes those issues worth. Namely, developing an entire second life on an internet chat board.

 

[pitbullstl]

I have to disagree. If someone on this board fucked me over, by say.. ripping me off. I'd let it be known. This is a community. That's a fair comparison.

and.........all I said was real men handle their business face to face. Getting burned by a chick, or someone stealing from you.....it's your business handle it. It's a community alright.....of drama queens, and babies.

It sucks when people misrepresent themselves....which I'm guessing outside of a handful of people on this board...........EVERYONE here is guilty of.

I'm not sticking up for Raina at all......like I said I don't have the first clue of what happened. Don't know Kak.....and I think Killah is one witty sumbitch.......but for all I know everyone on this board is a 62 year old cross dressing, chainsaw wielding psycho.

It all boils down to my original statement, if you have a problem handle your business, don't make it everyone else's.

 

[HS Lifter]

and.........all I said was real men handle their business face to face. Getting burned by a chick, or someone stealing from you.....it's your business handle it. It's a community alright.....of drama queens, and babies.

It sucks when people misrepresent themselves....which I'm guessing outside of a handful of people on this board...........EVERYONE here is guilty of.

I'm not sticking up for Raina at all......like I said I don't have the first clue of what happened. Don't know Kak.....and I think Killah is one witty sumbitch.......but for all I know everyone on this board is a 62 year old cross dressing, chainsaw wielding psycho.

It all boils down to my original statement, if you have a problem handle your business, don't make it everyone else's.

Does this include being scammed by a source?(Or should people handle it on their own)

No offense intended.