The Wisdom of Socrates

[mrplunkey]

Hitting 18 does not separate you from the ex...it means you spend more money on schooling than child support....it never ends...I don't get why people say "I can't wait till my kids are 18" it doesn't change


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In some ways, it does.

Until they are 18, you are sending money to the mom. She can spend it on the kids -- or on herself. I was fortunate, and my ex spent that money on the kids.

After they're 18, you make payments (i.e. schooling) to the child, not the mom. It does shift the nature of the relationship because you don't have that third party involved in handling the cash.

 

[wootoom]

That's why you start saving when they're born. It you can't afford to save enough to send your child to college, you probably shouldn't have had one. This has me hard as fuck right now

Be hahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahah in dying


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[wootoom]

In some ways, it does.



Until they are 18, you are sending money to the mom. She can spend it on the kids -- or on herself. I was fortunate, and my ex spent that money on the kids.



After they're 18, you make payments (i.e. schooling) to the child, not the mom. It does shift the nature of the relationship because you don't have that third party involved in handling the cash.

I agree to some extent, but you are still tied to your ex. Might not be as bad, but you still have a tie.


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[bigbassturd]

A tie?

I won't wear one..

 

[bigbassturd]

18 is a grown man.

Shouldn't be getting any more handouts after 18

 

[Fitguy3030]

They shouldn't get anything sept a belt across their ass to toughen them up that's the problem here to many sissy boys askin for handouts

 

[gatemoney]

You'll be free eventually, once your kid hits 18 if nothing else. I haven't spoken a word to my ex in over a decade, and our son ended his relationship with him and cut off all communication more than six months ago. It's not always the bitches that are crazy, men can be head cases, too.

Nah, pretty sure bitches be crazy

 

[gatemoney]

Hitting 18 does not separate you from the ex...it means you spend more money on schooling than child support....it never ends...I don't get why people say "I can't wait till my kids are 18" it doesn't change


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My father paid back child support until I was 28 years old.
I lol'd so hard when I found out.

 

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[Mad Jasper]

Honestly, I'm not bitter towards marriage..I married the wrong person.


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I married two wrong persons.