Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below That's great! Thanks Anonymous! I'll get your addy or send to Mitch, whichever you'd like.
The point was so you could keep it. Lol
***The Official Help Jnevin out thread***
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The point was so you could keep it. Lol
Yep, I understand and I think this was a wonderful and generous gesture made by the donor. A great person, BTW.
did the whole retainer get raised? I didn't read the whole thing....jngr has multiple benefactors, cool deal 
money is still coming in. I don't have exact total yet, and probably won't til the first part of the week cuz some people (the old farts) don't have paypal and had to send snail mail.
We do however have enough to put the deposit on the retainer down to get the lawyer started. I'm pretty sure we'll have enough people contribute to cover the legal expenses.
We do however have enough to put the deposit on the retainer down to get the lawyer started. I'm pretty sure we'll have enough people contribute to cover the legal expenses.
cool...it needs to be straightened out
getting the kid legally
digimon7068
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shirl and i need to get something straight b/t us...none of your concern, manute.
haha...well that too!
jnevin
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Yeah, really. I guess the $$ takes a few days to go from paypal to my account, so as soon as that happens I'll be meeting with the atty. Her assistant told me they need payment before we can meet and have the docs drawn up. I'll be serving her at work, a sheriff will be doing it, and she'll be fucking pissed, but whatever.
I really can't believe how generous you all were. i can't thank you enough.
send a friend to take a pic of her expression when served 
pick3?
PICK3
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I've made a 360 degree change!
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lartinos
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Paypal and can make you wait a longtime sometimes get your money the first time. I would have asked him to take paypal first. Hopefully there is no issue.
jnevin
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I'm meeting with the atty Thursday morning. It's the only day I don't have Q, and I don't think that's something she needs to hear. I'm really stressed and nervous about the whole thing. School started yesterday and while I'm studying it just feels like I'm seeing print but it bounces off of my eyes back onto the page without being absorbed. I don't want it to get ugly, but I don't see how it couldn't be. When I made my appointment the atty sounded really calm and confident about everything and said as long as I'm telling the truth about everything and her family will be on my side if needed, I could probably get full custody if I pushed for it. Problem is, if I push for that as a dad in Utah it looks like I'm trying to take my daughter away from her mother and it looks bad for me. Even though she leaves her a lot, has overdosed her and left her in her vomit, etc.
I'm just really happy to be moving forward with it and I can't tell you how thankful I am for all you guys have done. I've been in such a miserable funk for the last 2+ years and this has restored my faith in a number of things. I've even stopped killing the homeless. I just mame them.
I'm just really happy to be moving forward with it and I can't tell you how thankful I am for all you guys have done. I've been in such a miserable funk for the last 2+ years and this has restored my faith in a number of things. I've even stopped killing the homeless. I just mame them.
jnevin
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What's strange is, if I already had sole custody the ex doesn't even have her the required legal amount she's be entitled to, which is every other weekend and I think one day per week. But if I push for full custody somehow it'd make me look bad in court? She doesn't a) seem to want her that much or b) have the ability to have her that much. I'll go over all of my options Thursday when I have my meeting.
I wish you all the luck bro. I've recently met with my atty as well about obtaining full custody. It's something that takes at least up to a year to complete and as you know can get pretty damn ugly. My baby momma doesn't sound as bad as yours but I know I could provide a much better home for her. I truly commend you on your fight for your daughter nev. Fathers that fight for time/custody are few and far between now a days and it's so refreshing to see another so passionate for parental involvement. PM me your addy and I'll mail u a check niglet. Bubba approves of this thread
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