I have noticed that the more unintersted you act the more interested they become. also most of the time when I am trying to be slightly mean, they seem to want me even more. example. met a girl in a bar, we had drinks and hung out for a few hours. she asked for my number, and I told her she didnt have to ask for it if she didnt want it. she asured me that she did infact want to call me and go out sometime. so I gave her my number. she never called. I saw her at the same bar 3 months later. at first she turned away, and acted like she didnt see me. a few mins later when I went to the bar to get a drink she said hi to me. I just looked at her and said "what ever" short pause, and she then says I am totally sorry I lost your number, can I have it again. I replied "sure", and got a permenant marker off the bar. asked her to hold the piece of paper for me, and then proceeded to write my phone number in huge numbers all the way across her forearm. I looked at her and said "now you cant say that you lost it" she laughed and thought it was the cutest thing ever lmao. my advice is to act like you dont care either way, and that you are more interested in just being friends with her. never make the first move unless they ask you to lol. this gives them the impression that either you are not interested in them, in which case they will persue you even further, or gives them the impression that you are more interested in them for who they are. either way, your in...freak