Jennifer Portnik is my hero!
I know this will make not the least impression on the person who posted it (nothing ever does), but for everyone else's edification:
but seriously, what women would want a personal trainer like that? shouldnt a personal trainer reflect the goals of being 'fit' and 'in shape' not some mcdonalds eating monkey ass looking fat slut?
I finally saw Jennifer Portnik's picture in a recent issue of People magazine. And was unpleasantly surprised at the negative tone with which some of you describe someone who is not even all that fat.
To hear you people talk she is as big as a house. I have news for you, in the overall size range of fat people she is almost as small as you can get and still be called "plus-size." This is about the amount of body fat that most of us overweight Americans have. This means she looks like the average Joe (or Josephine). If she can look the way she does and still do the amount of work that she can do, that ought to send a wake up call to those sitting around the house who look just like her, thinking they can't do stuff because they look fat. Telling people that no matter what they can achieve in terms of lifting a weight into the air or running any distance or speed, it is all meaningless unless they also LOOK LIKE YOU not only demoralizes people into doing absolutely nothing, it's just plain incorrect.
We have gotten to a point where "normal" is defined as a size 2-6. Has anyone really LOOKED at any size 2-6 clothing lately?? It's TEENTSY!! When we start defining a *healthy,* normal size 10 as "too fat," there is a big problem in this country. And then, of course, someone who looks like Jennifer gets labeled as being much fatter than she really is. Stop listening to Hollywood and get real.
To me, inches are cosmetic. Circumference is cosmetic. This bump, that ridge, that ripple, is something someone else is looking at. I feel no benefit from what someone else is looking at, whether they approve or disapprove. (Physically speaking, that is. Emotionally, when dealing with certain butt-heads, that is another matter.)
However, when I have the stamina to go faster on the treadmill, that directly benefits me. When I can pick up and move things I never used to be able to, I can feel that difference, and it is useful to me, inside my body, in MY life.
I don't care nearly as much what is cosmetically appealing to you as I care about how my body feels and works for me. As long as it works the way I want it to, it can look any way it wants, thank you. I am just grateful that I DO have a body that works as well as it does. In my condition, I could well be in the hospital, or curled up in pain for days out of every month.
A person who can teach hours of aerobics every week is a person who can teach hours of aerobics every week. She has to be fit in *some* way to be capable of doing this. It is not something that most people who look like her can do for even ten minutes, let alone earn their living at. This is heartening, because if she can do it, I can do it, too. Even if I NEVER look like whatever you stipulate I should look like.
Those who stipulate that it doesn't matter what something/someone can DO if it doesn't look the way you think it should have their priorities in the wrong place.
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Q: If the body works the way it is supposed to, who cares what it LOOKS like??
A: Somebody *shallow.*