Ever heard of Active Release Therapy? For short: ART, try going on line and looking it up, it may help. I go every couple weeks for my elbow. Going heavy on Skull Chrushers really hurt my elbow. Some people swear by it. Never bumped into anyone who didn't like it. PM me if you have an more questions about ART if you get stuck.
Good luck, and maybe hold off on the love life until the elbow is better.