Tell Her or Not To Tell Her ????

[mlomker]

My opinion is that if you can't talk to the one you're with then dump them. Do you really want to hang out with people that you have to lie to....much less marry them? I know my view may come across as simplistic but you have to have honesty in any meaningful relationship.

I'm not saying they have to like it (mine doesn't) but you shouldn't have to hide an important part of your life (lifting) from them.

 

[mikelong23]

dont worry about telling her, if she asks though always tell her the truth, if she means something to you. if she doesnt fuck her and dont tell her. but you act like she means something so i would go ahead and tell her

 

[The TEST of Truth]

If there is NO NEED to tell her, then why take the risk? Although, if you want a really strong relationship, you should not have any secrets kept from her. You have to play it by ear. You do also know that its one thing to say, "I take roids in my ass!" , and another thing to say, "I want to be as big and as sexy as possible, not only for myself, but also for you. That is why I have to talk to you about this....... (VERY LONG, EDUCATIONAL TALK)"
If you do tell her, make sure youre very careful in what you say. If you have never done them but are going to do them, why bother to tell her? Does she support your lifting? Does she support your getting biger? If so, then you have all the support you need!

 

[big4rt]

NEVER! unless you going to be married