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Alright guys I know the baby might not be mine and im waiting for the DNA test after he is born to see if Im the dad or not, BUT I wanna start preparing and doing everything I can for when she takes me to court. Like have a plan for the judge to see how Im gonna take care of him, pay for him, etc.
I KNOW that my ex is gonna try and fuck me over. She is gonna try and get every penny out of me I just know it. Her mom has been on welfare her whole life and i can tell my ex is gonna be the same way its pathetic and disgustingshes like a disgusting pig expect shes skinny
So I was wondering what the judge would want to see if he were to give me 50/50? And what does he not care about? Here is what i would think would be good for me
-going to school
-days i go to school, my parents are free to babysit
-I have 2 jobs at night, when my parents can also babysit
-Ill have some money in my savings
-Ill get 10 letters of reference
I can tell that my ex wil be throwing daggers my way. Saying i abused her, i didnt care about her when she was pregnant, blah blah blah. I want to be the one that just comes with a plan for the baby, has money for him, and is just the one staying positive and thinking about the baby and NOT bringing up anything negative about my ex.
She is about to get her car repo'd, she hasnt had a job since before she got pregnant, she hasnt gone to school in a year, and Im pretty sure it is gonna stay that way. Does that make her look bad at all? I just wanna do everything I can to get 50/50 or even 60/40. Shes a slob and if i go in there with a plan for the baby and financial support would that give me a better chance?
Im gonna talk to family law on monday but if anyone has experience in this id appreciate the comments. I know you guys think i dont listen to u guys but i really do and I come to EF first when i have a question or a problem
I KNOW that my ex is gonna try and fuck me over. She is gonna try and get every penny out of me I just know it. Her mom has been on welfare her whole life and i can tell my ex is gonna be the same way its pathetic and disgustingshes like a disgusting pig expect shes skinny
So I was wondering what the judge would want to see if he were to give me 50/50? And what does he not care about? Here is what i would think would be good for me
-going to school
-days i go to school, my parents are free to babysit
-I have 2 jobs at night, when my parents can also babysit
-Ill have some money in my savings
-Ill get 10 letters of reference
I can tell that my ex wil be throwing daggers my way. Saying i abused her, i didnt care about her when she was pregnant, blah blah blah. I want to be the one that just comes with a plan for the baby, has money for him, and is just the one staying positive and thinking about the baby and NOT bringing up anything negative about my ex.
She is about to get her car repo'd, she hasnt had a job since before she got pregnant, she hasnt gone to school in a year, and Im pretty sure it is gonna stay that way. Does that make her look bad at all? I just wanna do everything I can to get 50/50 or even 60/40. Shes a slob and if i go in there with a plan for the baby and financial support would that give me a better chance?
Im gonna talk to family law on monday but if anyone has experience in this id appreciate the comments. I know you guys think i dont listen to u guys but i really do and I come to EF first when i have a question or a problem
