Steroids and domestic violence

[MMAjake]

@Arabian just because of this one douche don't trash someone just because they're in the UFC and "violence prone". If he really did make it to the UFC he is at the pinnacle of his sport and you obviously have no idea what it takes to get there !

From my experience if someone is prone to violence or has a short temper steroids will make it worse. This doesn't happen to everyone though, they won't change a person.

 

[Arabian]

Well he is self employed but I'll be fine money wise, he's already state that any new male around the baby will be "taken care of"... I was looking more to see if it his environment that he grew up in or the steroids but I think I got my answer

Quit making excuses for the MMA punk and kick him OUT. MOVE ON take care of HIM....If you stay with him, you will be in a cycle of ongoing domestic violence and live a subpar life.. Find someone that has a real job and mature

 

[Hen0152]

There's no such thing as "roid rage" I can't stand when people talk about all of these side affects of steroid "abuse"! Lmfao. IMO he's probably a dick to begin with, then add in alcohol which is the biggest social disruption known to man and you have your problem. Steroids are a great tool both medically and recreationally.

 

[Youngmommy25]

Yea we aren't together and won't be ever but now I don't want him around my child and that's the main problem.

 

[Jbranken]

Yea we aren't together and won't be ever but now I don't want him around my child and that's the main problem.

His loss... He should have thought about that before he laid a hand on you. The child doesn't need an abusive influence in their life.

 

[ceo]

go to the courts. Him blaming steroids is an excuse. He'd be an asshole without the steroids. You want to know what made him the way he is? It's a combo of everything. But likely the least of that is due to steroids. Alcohol is a big one. He grew up with domestic violence? Well that is another major contributor.

Go to court. Get a restraining order or supervised visits. At some point he needs to be able to see his kid, unless he is a direct danger to her. Best of luck.

 

[Youngmommy25]

Yea I'm trying to get him to release his rights but he is refusing and I know it's my fault too I should have left before but I wanted so bad to change him and learned that can't be done.

 

[joeblow12345]

Yea I'm trying to get him to release his rights but he is refusing and I know it's my fault too I should have left before but I wanted so bad to change him and learned that can't be done.

No unfortunately once someone has crossed that line there's no going back. He may have been a product of his evironment, but he made the choice to be an abusive pussy. No real man would ever harm a woman, let alone one they claim to love. I've been on steroids for years and never come off them, and I've never once laid a finger on my wife in anger, or hurt one of my children. That is a bs copout to excuse his behavior. There's only two ways to fix someone like that, professional help or a bullet. The best thing you can do is keep you and your child far away from him until he gets help, or gets himself killed from being a tough guy. It would also be wise to get a restraining order. That will help ensure he doesn't get visitation with the baby and make getting full custody easier. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.

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