Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Sometimes being decent looking and somewhat in shape sucks ass
Burning_Inside said:
It just doesn't matter where i meet girls anymore. I'm just going to settle on the fact that until im much older, all I will be dealing with are highly, or slightly messed up females.
Depending on your age and the age of the type of girl youd like to be with, there are only a few options... there are 3 type of girls
the young ones (18-23)... shockingly they are the most "normal" ones, but they are young and they are not ready to settle down just yet.
the 24-29 yr olds which is broken up into 2 categories.
the single ones who are still single in the upper range 28/29 most likey has soem serious fucking issues to still be single at that age.
the single ones who have a kid or kids... which is also broken up into 2 categories.. the ones who are scorned and hate all men mostly because of their ex and pretty much fucks up and relationship she gets into because of her ex and the fact that the girl puts up a wall so its hard to get close to her... .....then there are the single moms 28/29/30 who are just "normal" so to say, but have a child, and the child keeps the girl home most of the time so shes not out partying and popping drugs like the rest of the crack addicts and the child gives the girl a sense of resonsibility. this, sadly isnt the most attractive package because of the child, but in the long run shes probably the best option because girls like her grow up real fast and know what responsibility is and have removed themselves from all their single friends of the same age who have no kids and still party their assess off and slepp all damn day long.
and then there are the 30+ girls, fun as hell in bed but at the same time if they are still single then why?head cases maybe? not sure. and if they have kids they most likely at that age were married already and dont want to get married again, they are fun to chill with but there is no long term potential there.
you need to find out from these girls you date how many long term relationships they had and the ones that tell you they had say a 3-4 yr relationship with a guy and havent had another serious relationship since then, STAY FAR AWAY from that type... because soemthing happened and something keeps her from being able to have another long term relationship.
There is no secret to this, but there are some small things to look for that should tell you to 100% avoid the girl, but even after avoiding those types, there is still shit that can happen with any girl you date.
Most girls on here will probably say that all these descriptions can in some way be applied to the single guys as well, but thats not true sorry. Women are usually the ones who carry the baggage or have been fucked in the head because of some asshole guy she dated. I mean sure tons of guys are just straight up assholes and players but the girls are no better.
Trial and error bro is what u need, that or meet a hot chic at church lol or meet a hot girl at a club one nite, you know the type of girl who says "this is the 1st time I have been out in months, I dont go clubbing a lot" that is the ONLY type of girl that you'd want to meet at a club, the rest are club chics, and thats all they are.