Sometimes being decent looking and somewhat in shape sucks ass

[Burning_Inside]

I'm the type of guy that loves the freak chicks. ya know, dyed hair and shit. I met up with this one girl online on match.com. She's 18, petite, freaky, cute in my opinon. We have all of the same interests and outlooks on life. Same music and religious values. Tons of shit in common.

However, she's obviously not feeling me because I'm 6'3" 180 and tan and I workout, and have normal hair and no tats or piercings. Chicks like these always want guys who look like they spent a year in chemotherapy. It seriously pisses me off.

Why would a girl NOT want someone who looks like I do (I'm not pulling an HI here or anything, I'm not saying I'm Mr. Alpha Male Omega or anything) as opposed to that kind of guy?

I understand everyone's got their own preference, but shit, come on. I mean hell I'D do any sort of chick i get along with and who is good looking no matter what she dresses like. Then again I'm a guy, and women aren't logical so....Guess I answered my own question.

 

[anabolicmd]

I know exactly what you mean. Strangely enough, a lot of girls go for the Perr Farrell type of guy, and thats ok. I've been there believe me. It boils down to one thing though, competition. Why compete with the Perry Farrels? You are better off starting out with girls who appreciate your type. Your odds of success are so much greater. Im 6-6 for example. I never approach girls who are too much under 5-9, 5-10 for example. Why bother competing with short guys? Taller girls have 90% less guys who are eligible for them based on height. So thats where I play, where my odds are best. Tall girls are my personal blackjack, or craps, you gamblers will know what Im talking about. Why bother with keno and or the slots, know what I mean?

 

[Burning_Inside]

bah i hate tall chicks

 

[Godzila]

I guess it is kind of the reverse of taking home a totally weird ass, gothic, tattoo, peirced up, Wiccan worshipping, vampire home to mom and Dad.
If she is that much into her self-image and lifestyle, then she would be embarrased to be seen with you-a normal guy. Remember she is young too, she more than likely doesn't realize that she is going to grow out of that look and want a normal guy in the end.....

 

[biteme]

I'm the type of guy that loves the freak chicks. ya know, dyed hair and shit. I met up with this one girl online on match.com. She's 18, petite, freaky, cute in my opinon. We have all of the same interests and outlooks on life. Same music and religious values. Tons of shit in common.

However, she's obviously not feeling me because I'm 6'3" 180 and tan and I workout, and have normal hair and no tats or piercings. Chicks like these always want guys who look like they spent a year in chemotherapy. It seriously pisses me off.

Why would a girl NOT want someone who looks like I do (I'm not pulling an HI here or anything, I'm not saying I'm Mr. Alpha Male Omega or anything) as opposed to that kind of guy?

I understand everyone's got their own preference, but shit, come on. I mean hell I'D do any sort of chick i get along with and who is good looking no matter what she dresses like. Then again I'm a guy, and women aren't logical so....Guess I answered my own question.

My buddy just got divorced and has been meeting women left and right off of match.com Most are psychos though, in other words, typical women.

 

[buttplug]

She is 18.

 

[Burning_Inside]

I guess it is kind of the reverse of taking home a totally weird ass, gothic, tattoo, peirced up, Wiccan worshipping, vampire home to mom and Dad.
If she is that much into her self-image and lifestyle, then she would be embarrased to be seen with you-a normal guy. Remember she is young too, she more than likely doesn't realize that she is going to grow out of that look and want a normal guy in the end.....

then when she grows out of the look, she will also most likely be a different person on the inside also, meaning I most likely wouldn't even be interested in her new self anyway.

 

[Heahy Minister]

Bro if she's not feeling you then she is not worth your while. You can't make someone be attracted to you.

However, with that being said I do know what you are saying though. Men in general are MUCH less picky when choosing a woman based on physical characteristics.

I can find the attractiveness in pretty much all women. No I'm not desperate (btw I have a girl already). Women, on the other hand, are more likely to have a mental list of preferences for certain haircolour, height, physical structure, etc etc etc and the list goes on and on.

 

[from zero]

I'm the type of guy that loves the freak chicks. ya know, dyed hair and shit. I met up with this one girl online on match.com. She's 18, petite, freaky, cute in my opinon. We have all of the same interests and outlooks on life. Same music and religious values. Tons of shit in common.

However, she's obviously not feeling me because I'm 6'3" 180 and tan and I workout, and have normal hair and no tats or piercings. Chicks like these always want guys who look like they spent a year in chemotherapy. It seriously pisses me off.

Why would a girl NOT want someone who looks like I do (I'm not pulling an HI here or anything, I'm not saying I'm Mr. Alpha Male Omega or anything) as opposed to that kind of guy?

I understand everyone's got their own preference, but shit, come on. I mean hell I'D do any sort of chick i get along with and who is good looking no matter what she dresses like. Then again I'm a guy, and women aren't logical so....Guess I answered my own question.

Were we separated at birth? I'm the same fn guy. With the exception of being 6'3.

 

[Burning_Inside]

Re: Re: Sometimes being decent looking and somewhat in shape sucks ass

Were we separated at birth? I'm the same fn guy. With the exception of being 6'3.

Well then i guess not, beings that being 6'3" makes me about 100000000000008986785783547xaaaai times better than you.