Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below well i have a girl comin up to school to see me tomorrow for a few days. so its obvious a good amount of sex is going to be involved. weve fucked before, but im asking u all for advice (probably ladies more than guys) on what sexual position generates the best orgasm for women, or your opinions on what do. i know going down on her can get her off and i always take pride in doing that to my best ability, but if shes gonna drive 3 hours to see me, i wanna give her a really good experience. any tips? K for replies.
some advice...K
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muscleboundman
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buy her jewelry, she'll cum in the store
ponyfitness
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You also have to figure out what she likes - most women are different. Some can have 8 orgasms, some only one really hard one. My advice is to take your time with the foreplay and get her off once or twice and then she'll think you are god and never want to leave the bedroom.
As for positions, a variety always works and usually she'll tell you what is working and what's not. I always notice that women like it in different places as well, like the bathroom sink after a shower or up against a wall or on a table right in the living/dining room.
As for positions, a variety always works and usually she'll tell you what is working and what's not. I always notice that women like it in different places as well, like the bathroom sink after a shower or up against a wall or on a table right in the living/dining room.
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jenscats5
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You can't really say that if you do X, she'll come X times......it varies woman to woman so much that you have to find out what exactly she likes....
bluetwistedsteel67
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Yeah, that's all part of the fun. For sex to be really great it's got to be fun and finding out what works for her is a great way to spend the time you are together. If you try to act like some casanova who knows what makes every woman tick you'll miss out. I think women want a man that is a great lover but also not a "know's it all already" type of lover. If you can laugh and play while your rolling around together you will be a memorable fuck for her. Years from now she may not remember the guy that made her cum the hardest but she'll remember the guy that she had the most fun fucking.................and she'll want to fuck you again, you can believe that.jenscats5 said:
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immortalis
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Wulfgar said:
god wulf... I applaud you
In all seriousness tho, I have only been with a couple of women who didnt like to have their legs thrown over my shoulders and let me go to town on them. Thats kinda like my finishing move when I am fucking my wife... I can make her cum in less than 30 seconds every time
But honestly if shes driving that far to see you... the last thing you really want is to just have her orgasm damn near immediately... at least thats the last thing I would want. I would want to slowly build her up to a seriously intense orgasm. Women love that a lot more than just a "quick nut", and feel a lot more emotional attachment with that, which is what most women are looking for anyway. Which is why I also agree with what Bee stated above.
Oh and as always... this thread is useless without followup pics
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jenscats5
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KillahBee said:
I agree with this statement as well....
bluetwistedsteel67
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I haven't laughed that hard in awhile. Thanks broWulfgar said:Fucking with thier mind= skull fucking them(i.e. lay them on the bed and pound thier mouth with your cock like u are pumping concrete)
works like a charm
KillahBee
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jenscats5 said:
I was with a girl a little bit back who had never had an orgasm before. She had some body issues (it's INSANE how thw SEXIEST ones have the esteem issues) and just was never comfortable. She had a BF for over a year and never friggin had one.
You know what I did? Created trust and a comfortable environment. It's that simple. Also, I teased her and implanted very sexual thoughts in her mind here and there. She couldn't help but be aroused mentally, and once I got her comfortable, she finally had one.
And, let me tell you, being part of giving a girl her first orgasm is one of the best feelings in the world. She actually made me stop and just laid there, as if she just saw God. "Do you realize what just happened?!" panting, sweating, trying to catch her breath. SPEECHLESS
KillahBee said:I was with a girl a little bit back who had never had an orgasm before. She had some body issues (it's INSANE how thw SEXIEST ones have the esteem issues) and just was never comfortable. She had a BF for over a year and never friggin had one.
You know what I did? Created trust and a comfortable environment. It's that simple. Also, I teased her and implanted very sexual thoughts in her mind here and there. She couldn't help but be aroused mentally, and once I got her comfortable, she finally had one.
And, let me tell you, being part of giving a girl her first orgasm is one of the best feelings in the world. She actually made me stop and just laid there, as if she just saw God. "Do you realize what just happened?!" panting, sweating, trying to catch her breath. SPEECHLESS
u r the master
I had a similar experience
except mine involved alchohol, X, K, roofies, porn, film crew, the magic blue pill and a really nice studio
well maybe thats not E-X-A-C-T-L-Y the same to the letter, but its pretty close
KillahBee
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Wulfgar said:u r the master
I had a similar experience
except mine involved alchohol, X, K, roofies, porn, film crew, the magic blue pill and a really nice studio
well maybe thats not E-X-A-C-T-L-Y the same to the letter, but its pretty close
NO, definitely not the master. just had a really good connection with this particular girl.
it's really not that hard - getting a girl into the right mindset. I just don't think most guys even consider it - that they would be better off making her believe you are the best fuck in the universe before you even slide it in as opposed to them trying to learn how to go down on a girl by tongueing the alphabet or some amateur move like that
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jenscats5
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KillahBee said:
No, you're right..... and a lot of these guys who probably don't do this are the ones complaining they ain't gettin' any....
how about tounging the CHINESE alphabet???KillahBee said:
thats striclty a master move if u ask me.
in all honesty i think the reason guys dont do that to girls is that they are afraid they cant live up to what they implant in the womans mind.
i mean honestly, Id feel like a complete asshole if I built a girl up ove the course of a month or so to think I had written a new upgrades edition of the Kama Sutra then when it got time to rock I slobbered on her snatch, stuck my tounge up her ass for a few minutes after a half assed massage cause I couldnt wait long enough to slide my tube steak in her for a good 3 minutes of piston action before erupting, getting a protein shake, calling her a cab and falling asleep.
u know?
megamania500
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Wulfgar said:
I think the reason is that they don't know how to. Many guys are too afraid of showing this side of them because they think that a woman would be uncomfortable or repulsed if they show any signs of their own sexuality. They act too "gentlemanly" and come of as too nice, or boring. On the other hand, some guys know that women don't mind, and even like, when a guy has the confidence to show this side of him. And I don't mean when a guy throws some cheesy line about sex at her like some bad moment on the TV show "Blind Date". If a guy thinks that saying, "Is that a keg in your pants? Because I'd like to tap that ass!" is going to get any normal woman into bed, he has no idea what he's doing.
But if he does what she expects him to do at the right time, a connection will be made. More specifically, if a woman is interested in a man, and they start to interact, she expects certain indicators from him to show her that he is interested in her, too. I'm not talking about "come-ons" or grabbing her ass like an octopus the first chance you get. I'm talking more about body language and other indications that he's interested. A woman can read body language WAY better than a man can. And if a man doesn't do what a woman expects him to do, (this is where a "nice guy" blows it because he's too intimidated to show this side of himself), he blows his chances with her. But if the guy gives indications of interest in her, she will throw some back, and these will go back and forth, getting stronger and more intense. Pretty soon a kiss happens, or whatever. And then it goes from there.
And its not about getting the woman to think that you are a Kama Sutra expert. That's not what its all about. A woman can think that you are a Kama Sutra expert, but if she's not attracted to YOU, it doesn't matter how much technique you have in bed because she won't be giving you any. What Bee says is right on. You can get a girl to get so crazy about wanting to be with you that when it does happen, you can be lousy in bed and she will still love it, because she wanted YOU and finally got you. Its not about your bedroom techniques, its about how she feels about YOU that turns her on.
Of course, knowing enough in the bedroom to not make silly mistakes will help once you get to the bed.
markshark said:
It all depends on the woman. Try them all and see which she prefers or do as I do...Come right out and ask them in a sexy masculine way. Women love that.
Ask her what she wants encourage her to talk to you before during and after sex. It will make it great for the both of you
megamania500
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Wulfgar said:
Not if it made her cum!
well it all happened. i cant really say how it went. we had sex a lot, we cuddled, we did foreplay for a long time but im not sure i left her off liking me more or anything. i like her a lot but i dont know what might happen in the future. she said thing like "you always do everything perfect and say every thing perfect" like right after making her cum and left me a letter when she left saying how much she liked bein with me and she cant wait to see me again, but i do think shes bullshitting. i dont think i opened up enough, like before coming up she was talking about doing it in the shower, but each time one of us would go to take a shower the other would never ask to join (which i should have stepped up and done). all in all, shes experienced, more than me, and i dont think i showed her or gave her a reason to believe that she would want to spend time with me again really. but everythings a learning experience. anyways thank u all for the posts. truly appreciated.
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