So uh, just found out I'm 5 weeks into being a dad.

[txbondsman]

I'm really unprepared for this.

so was I, but I found out later, boy was I wrong! What an undeserved blessing he is. I can't begin to explain the happiness and love that he has brought me and my family. I wasn't married at the time either....

 

[Tatyana]

Possibility/chances of mistake or error in test?

Possible, but rare now. depends on how they tested. Blood or urine, and if they used a wee machine in the office or sent it to the lab.

 

[jnevin]

so was I, but I found out later, boy was I wrong! What an undeserved blessing he is. I can't begin to explain the happiness and love that he has brought me and my family. I wasn't married at the time either....

Nice. That's a good looking kiddo.

 

[vixensghost]

I'm really unprepared for this.

Hon, you'll make it work cuz it's the type of man you ARE.




Panic is natural. My hubby had mega panic attacks when we finallllly got our news about Brianna coming into our lives. Hell, it's normal to panic even in "ideal" situations. We still panic-get use to it.

 

[txbondsman]

Nice. That's a good looking kiddo.

thanks Bro, just get though the first few weeks, you'll be fine....
best thing to ever happen to a man, ask Digi when he gets here, he'll tell ya too, and JH and and and and, they all say the same thing...
You've seen the posts before, we all kinda tear up when we talk about our kids....
Viven's right, so is Silverstar, both have great posts...

 

[Tatyana]

I'd say it's more panic that complaining. It's a human being I'll be responsible for. That's a big deal to me.

Ok, now I can say CONGRATS!!!!

It's normal to panic, that is a good sign.

 

[jackangel]

are you still in love with her?

 

[jnevin]

are you still in love with her?

That's part of what makes things so difficult.

 

[BNG]

I'd say it's more panic that complaining. It's a human being I'll be responsible for. That's a big deal to me.

That's a good way to look at it. You'll be fine. Just know that things can always be worked out. I think it's time for a big CONGRATS!!! personally.

 

[txbondsman]

That's part of what makes things so difficult.

just focus on one thing, that's all you have to do, one. What's best for the baby. If thta's together, great, If that's apart, so be it. You need to be Dad and that can be from another addy near by or the same house. Just be Dad, that's with a capital D, proper name. You'll find that to be the sweetest sound you've ever heard, I promise...