So Shes BLACKMAILING Me Now!

[DiamondCutCows]

You all the story with me, now the wife is blackmailing me. She has taken possession of my 3 bottles of gear Test/EQ and a handful of used pins.

She says if I leave or make her leave I will "regret it"

She's talking about going to the PD with my stuff and turning me in.

How do I handle this shit?

HELP

 

[Cutiebaby]

are you trying to leave her?

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Does she have all your stuff?

if so.. send her packing WITH IT!

 

[hotzie]

if it were me in that situation , i would act like i forgave her and that i wanted to fix things just long enough to get my gear back , then i would kick the bitch to the curb so fast her head would spin

 

[DiamondCutCows]

if it were me in that situation , i would act like i forgave her and that i wanted to fix things just long enough to get my gear back , then i would kick the bitch to the curb so fast her head would spin

this has crossed my mind.

Angel, do a search for my posts. I have a long one describing my life recently

 

[Lestat]

if it were me in that situation , i would act like i forgave her and that i wanted to fix things just long enough to get my gear back , then i would kick the bitch to the curb so fast her head would spin

that sounds good.

 

[Cutiebaby]

well the best advice is get rid of her ass and then if she does have the balls to take the stuff to the pd act like you know nothing about it..you kicked her out and she found some other guy got the shit and is trying to get you in trouble cause you left her!!!!!

 

[bran987]

if it were me in that situation , i would act like i forgave her and that i wanted to fix things just long enough to get my gear back , then i would kick the bitch to the curb so fast her head would spin

yes, this is a modified version of the hail mary

 

[DiamondCutCows]

well the best advice is get rid of her ass and then if she does have the balls to take the stuff to the pd act like you know nothing about it..you kicked her out and she found some other guy got the shit and is trying to get you in trouble cause you left her!!!!!

Wouldnt the used pins prove its mine? She watches Law & Order. Thats actually why she got the pins

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Wouldnt the used pins prove its mine? She watches Law & Order. Thats actually why she got the pins

she has your used pins?

You can't be talking about enough stuff for them to get that deep proving that the pins were yours are you?

 

[Raina]

Gosh, with her acting like that I can see how you'd want to be around....people love being threatened to stay in relationships.

Can she even prove that it's all yours and that she didn't plant it in your home to make you look bad?

Otherwise I'd say play nice for a bit and get it back. It sounds mean to do but that's just insanity for anyone to do to someone.

 

[Y_lifter]

Call the Cops and report HER as a Steroids user
unless she's Calista Flockhart Skinny..

 

[DiamondCutCows]

she has your used pins?

You can't be talking about enough stuff for them to get that deep proving that the pins were yours are you?

I dont see how amount would matter. Does it? Maybe they wouldnt investigate it, is that what you mean?

Its only about 25mls of stuff altogether, plus I have pins I have to dump this weekend.

She has maybe 10 pins I used to inject with (one shot per pin) and a the vials.

 

[Bruce]

bro, do u know how much trouble she can get in for black mailing you. tell her you have spoken with a lawyer and are prepared for that and that she will do time. there is no way to prove you will use those vials or that they are yours. they don't have your dna on file do they. so they are not going to be able to match the pins. they won't even waste their time with that honestly. u think they are gonna start an investigation requiring dna testing because some girl brought in some gear and pins. shit call the po po on her. black mail is a no no

 

[Mr. Black]

Call the Cops and report HER as a Steroids user
unless she's Calista Flockhart Skinny..

Then sneak up on the bitch when she's not looking and and jab 1 cc of test in her ass. Now you got her DNA on a pin

 

[DiamondCutCows]

bro, do u know how much trouble she can get in for black mailing you. tell her you have spoken with a lawyer and are prepared for that and that she will do time. there is no way to prove you will use those vials or that they are yours. they don't have your dna on file do they. so they are not going to be able to match the pins. they won't even waste their time with that honestly. u think they are gonna start an investigation requiring dna testing because some girl brought in some gear and pins. shit call the po po on her. black mail is a no no

Maybe I will call a lawyer and get some advice.

I really just want her to leave my apt and get a restraining order on her and move on with my life...

 

[Evil_Frisky]

I dont see how amount would matter. Does it? Maybe they wouldnt investigate it, is that what you mean?

Its only about 25mls of stuff altogether, plus I have pins I have to dump this weekend.

She has maybe 10 pins I used to inject with (one shot per pin) and a the vials.

doubtful she can prove its yours esp if its in her possession... (dumb on her part)

turn it around on her... and then do what Mr. black said.. LOL tell her that law and order shit doesn't work...

 

[Bruce]

yep bro, shes in possesion. talk with a lawyer you are fine though. she is bluffin in my opinion anyway. it takes balls to walk into a police station with dreaded steroids right now and some pins. they are gonna want to know why and what will be her answer. once u tell them she is crazy and you want a restraining order the will know she is not doing this to look out for u but to keep u

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Maybe I will call a lawyer and get some advice.

I really just want her to leave my apt and get a restraining order on her and move on with my life...

So .. get the restraining order and make sure you say she's threatening you... you don't have to say with what but have it on record that she's trying to stop you from leaving and she will do what ever it takes...

This way its on record before she even goes that route... Be one step ahead at all times.

 

[Bruce]

So .. get the restraining order and make sure you say she's threatening you... you don't have to say with what but have it on record that she's trying to stop you from leaving and she will do what ever it takes...

This way its on record before she even goes that route... Be one step ahead at all times.

i agree get the order. then your safe if she goes in. she will only reinforce what you have said about her in getting a restraining order. remember also this woman lived with steroids in her home knowingly, she was breaking the law as well.

 

[stfuhr]

bro, do u know how much trouble she can get in for black mailing you. tell her you have spoken with a lawyer and are prepared for that and that she will do time. there is no way to prove you will use those vials or that they are yours. they don't have your dna on file do they. so they are not going to be able to match the pins. they won't even waste their time with that honestly. u think they are gonna start an investigation requiring dna testing because some girl brought in some gear and pins. shit call the po po on her. black mail is a no no

DNA Testing is very expensive. Not sure anyone would even bother for 25ml, maybe for 1000 amps. Bruce is right too, blackmale is a no-no, much worse than a personal amount of gear. You are on the right track to talk to a lawyer. Maybe try to get some advice from Rick Collins. Hope it all works out for you.

 

[slickdadd]

So .. get the restraining order and make sure you say she's threatening you... you don't have to say with what but have it on record that she's trying to stop you from leaving and she will do what ever it takes...

This way its on record before she even goes that route... Be one step ahead at all times.

awesome idea.

 

[jrlex]

You all the story with me, now the wife is blackmailing me. She has taken possession of my 3 bottles of gear Test/EQ and a handful of used pins.

She says if I leave or make her leave I will "regret it"

She's talking about going to the PD with my stuff and turning me in.

How do I handle this shit?

HELP

This sounds like a job for Testosterone boy

 

[Dial_tone]

I say call her bluff. Get rid of anything else you have. How can she can prove it was yours? So what if the needles have your dang dna on them? They can't charge you with possession IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANY LEFT. By the time it got anywhere near a court they'd be out out of your system, so again, what do they charge you with? Intent to distribute? 3 whole bottles? big time dealer you are.

 

[bw1]

Call her bluff. She full of shit.

 

[Eringobraugh]

yes, this is a modified version of the hail mary

lol, now this is a scenario where it does fit

 

[GoldenDelicious]

used pins with your cells and gear residue doesnt mean you injected gear - you can say you were using bare pins to drain an abscess or something and that she ran gear through the used pins to make it look like you were using, and blackmail you. after you tell her that, call her bluff

 

[mountain muscle]

Dump all you have at a friend's house and erase any trace. Then turn her in for possesion and attempted bribery. Lay it out for the cops about how she tried to bribe you. Stay clean in case they decide to do an overly-expensive test for stuff. They won't.

P.S. dont have anything to to do with psycho women, this includes marriage and yes, severely limits your options

 

[genarr3]

DNA testing? Unless you're a MLB player no one is going to go this far to charge you with possession of something you no longer possess.
This is fucking silly.

 

[Mammoth2500]

Yea thats just silly indeed. Get on the horn and get that dealt with so you can move on with your life rather than contemplating it.

 

[genarr3]

You don't say where you live, but if you live in California it's legal there to kill your gf/wife. You might explore that option.

 

[Forge]

Sorry to hear it bro, some good advice in this thread. Good luck.

 

[PolfaJelfa]

You don't say where you live, but if you live in California it's legal there to kill your gf/wife. You might explore that option.

I was thinking the same thing.

 

[john937]

Threatening to tell the police about a crime is not legally considered blackmail.
The best thing going for you is the cops won't care about the amount
if she says you're using....now if she said you were selling....that's another matter.

I think your best bet is to talk to her.....say..."hey...listen to yourself....
hear the hate in your threats?" Why would she even want to stay with someone
if the only way she can make it happen is to threaten?

 

[Dial_tone]

As long as you don't have anything else this case goes nowhere. I don't see any cop getting a promotion for a $200 steroid bust.

 

[AristotleBC]

what a bitch

 

[AristotleBC]

**Do this**

Blackmail/extortion is illegal.

Likely more illegal than gear.

Get her on tape, never admit to usage (though fingerprinting might be a problem)

and let her know that you have proof she is trying to blackmail you and that should take care of things.

May want to consult with a lawyer for sure though because I am not one

 

[Bruce]

Re: **Do this**

Blackmail/extortion is illegal.

Likely more illegal than gear.

Get her on tape, never admit to usage (though fingerprinting might be a problem)

and let her know that you have proof she is trying to blackmail you and that should take care of things.

May want to consult with a lawyer for sure though because I am not one

ah yes diamondcutcows, this man is quite right. if she is crazy enough to be threatening like that you can likely record it. once that happens bye bye beatch, gear or no gear. stand up for your rights man, play some marley if you gotta. i wanna hear you come back in a few weeks and tell us how u handled this bitch like gravey. good luck bro

 

[canadianhitman]

She's got NOTHING that'd hold up in court. Toss her the fuck out.