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So I asked this broad out this morning.

from zero

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I'll see her around, and if we see each other, she'll always keep her eyes on me. First couple times I've spoken with her, she was very friendly and seemed really interested in me. So, I ask her out, and, again, a very interested positive reply. But, then, she goes, "Is this 'as friends,' ... because I do have a boyfriend ..."

Man, WTF.

This one of those situations where I'm gonna be the guy on the back burner in case her current relationship falls through?

In any event, I have her number, so maybe I'll just go out with her as friends. If I get a bad feeling, I can always just blow her off.
 
Why not be the side action? Do you know the boyfriend? If not, then hit that shit bor. No girl gets hit on and agrees to go out just as friends. She needs some cak. Give her tha cak, bro, give her the cak.
 
Exactly...

I know my g/f isn't agreeing to 'go-out' with any guys.... but then clarifies... 'just as friends, right? 'cause I have a b/f"

WTF? Nah... she wants something....

On the other hand... if she was my g/f and was pulling this tricky shit.... I'd be pissed...
 
I wouldnt bother if she has a bf. If she can date other guys while in a relationship then she can do the same with you if you end up togheter.
 
MrMuscle said:
I wouldnt bother if she has a bf. If she can date other guys while in a relationship then she can do the same with you if you end up togheter.


Exactly. Hence, "give her the cak", not "give her the heart". This seems like the type of girl to bang, not date.
 
An 56 yr. old guy hit on me about a month ago. From the moment he asked me if he could buy me a drink I told him I wasn't interested. I made it clear in the 10 min. conversation that night that I had a boyfriend. He even saw me with my boyfriend later on that night at this event we met at. He invited me out next month to a strip club. I told him I would go, just as friends though. He's never been with a girl before and he knows I've gone with my boyfriend.

My boyfriend knows all about him and has known about him since the night he hit on me. Everytime we correspond, via email these days, I mention something about my boyfriend. He won't be getting any. Nor do I have any interest in him. But I'll hang out with him as friends.
 
nvrbuffenuff_girl said:
An 56 yr. old guy hit on me about a month ago. From the moment he asked me if he could buy me a drink I told him I wasn't interested. I made it clear in the 10 min. conversation that night that I had a boyfriend. He even saw me with my boyfriend later on that night at this event we met at. He invited me out next month to a strip club. I told him I would go, just as friends though. He's never been with a girl before and he knows I've gone with my boyfriend.

My boyfriend knows all about him and has known about him since the night he hit on me. Everytime we correspond, via email these days, I mention something about my boyfriend. He won't be getting any. Nor do I have any interest in him. But I'll hang out with him as friends.

What you are missing is that, no matter how many times you tell him you are just friends and you love your boyfriend, he thinks he can hit it. As long as you talk to him and hang with him, there is a chance - that is how men operate.
 
KillahBee said:
What you are missing is that, no matter how many times you tell him you are just friends and you love your boyfriend, he thinks he can hit it. As long as you talk to him and hang with him, there is a chance - that is how men operate.

Word.

nvrbuff = cocktease.
 
KillahBee said:
What you are missing is that, no matter how many times you tell him you are just friends and you love your boyfriend, he thinks he can hit it. As long as you talk to him and hang with him, there is a chance - that is how men operate.


I don't plan on going out with him weekly or anything. I'm sure I won't hang out with him again this year after next month. Besides we live in two different countries. I haven't talked to him for almost a week now. He's 56 years old! That's be like sleeping with my dad! :worried:
 
nvrbuffenuff_girl said:
I don't plan on going out with him weekly or anything. I'm sure I won't hang out with him again this year after next month. Besides we live in two different countries. I haven't talked to him for almost a week now. He's 56 years old! That's be like sleeping with my dad! :worried:

Doesn't matter to him. Girl talks to guy = guy thinks he can hit it. This is the case most of the time.
 
nvrbuffenuff_girl said:
My boyfriend knows all about him and has known about him since the night he hit on me. Everytime we correspond, via email these days, I mention something about my boyfriend. He won't be getting any. Nor do I have any interest in him. But I'll hang out with him as friends.


And your bf is OK with this???
 
PS - please explain, in detail, the making of that avatarf. And do it slowly - I don't want to "go" to quick. THanks
 
From Zero said:
Word.

nvrbuff = cocktease.

I'm not teasing him or leading him on. I told him flat out that I am not into him in any way whatsoever. Aside the 10 minute conversation we had the night we met I've never talked to him face-to-face, or on the telephone. I told him he is old enough to be my father. When I told him I was only 21 he thought I was kidding then told me his grandchild is 20.
 
Forge said:
And your bf is OK with this???

My boyfriend already deals with the fact that 100% of my friends are males. He knows I'm not interested in this guy. He knows I would never cheat on him. He knows he has no reason to worry.

He has girl friends that he hangs out with. I treat him the same way in regards to his female friends. Most of them I've met and are really cool chicks. One is really hot and I want her but she isn't into girls, unfortunately.
 
KillahBee said:
PS - please explain, in detail, the making of that avatarf. And do it slowly - I don't want to "go" to quick. THanks

It's a picture from a night where I asked to be tied up and "beaten". Not literally beaten but just spanked...
 
KillahBee said:
More detail please. :rose:


Isn't it self explanatory? You see a handprint on my ass. It's my boyfriend handprint from spanking me so hard. The mark stayed on my ass for about 10 minutes.

I don't know what else you want to know.
 
From Zero said:
Stop hijacking my thread, jerkface.

Good call - I would rather hear about your pathetic dating life than hear more about a sexy chick who likes being tied up and slapped on the ass...
 
KillahBee said:
Good call - I would rather hear about your pathetic dating life than hear more about a sexy chick who likes being tied up and slapped on the ass...

lol

I hate you. And your mother for having you.
 
nvrbuffenuff_girl said:
Isn't it self explanatory? You see a handprint on my ass. It's my boyfriend handprint from spanking me so hard. The mark stayed on my ass for about 10 minutes.

I don't know what else you want to know.


I am calling bullshit. I have slapped many an ass in my day and never once have I left such a perfect hand print - each finger is equidistant to the next! Kudos to your man if that is for real.
 
KillahBee said:
I am calling bullshit. I have slapped many an ass in my day and never once have I left such a perfect hand print - each finger is equidistant to the next! Kudos to your man if that is for real.


It's real. It didn't look like that at first. It's a result of many, many spankings. In the larger version it doesn't look quite so perfect.
 
nvrbuffenuff_girl said:
It's real. It didn't look like that at first. It's a result of many, many spankings. In the larger version it doesn't look quite so perfect.

either you have a small ass or he has a BIG hand. Cuz that looks crazy.
 
When will dames learn that guys and girls cannot just be friends?
 
nvrbuffenuff_girl said:
I told him he is old enough to be my father. When I told him I was only 21 he thought I was kidding then told me his grandchild is 20.


LOL

What, did he do, start breeding in high school?
Or did his own kid?
 
velvett said:
LOL

What, did he do, start breeding in high school?
Or did his own kid?


I don't know. He has two daughters. One doesn't speak to him at all. The other one does. The one that doesn't speak to him since her mother and him divorced is the one who has a child.

My dad is only 7 years older than this man and has a 17 year old grandchild.
 
Smurfy said:
FZ, your first mistake, as Project mentioned, is referring to any woman as a "broad". Stop using that term, maybe you'll get a date, orb.

I agree. Dishrag Whore is better.
 
They also prefer:
Bitch
Ho
Dame
Cockhole.
 
From Zero said:
This one of those situations where I'm gonna be the guy on the back burner in case her current relationship falls through?.
Yup, pretty much.

It means you've peaked her interest, has no real good reason to break up with her boyfriend but she doesn't want to loose contact with you so she'll try and string you along as long as possible - just in case.
 
velvett said:
Yup, pretty much.

It means you've peaked her interest, has no real good reason to break up with her boyfriend but she doesn't want to loose contact with you so she'll try and string you along as long as possible - just in case.

Eh.

I ain't got anything else going for me right now. Maybe I'll hang with her for a bit, just for the hell of it. Won't get my hopes up or anything.


And I didn't call her a broad to her face, you weiners.
 
From Zero said:
I ain't got anything else going for me right now. Maybe I'll hang with her for a bit, just for the hell of it. Won't get my hopes up or anything.

Why frustrate yourself?
 
From Zero said:
I ain't got anything else going for me right now. Maybe I'll hang with her for a bit, just for the hell of it. Won't get my hopes up or anything.


Don't let yourself get all attached and stuff, play it cool, you'll be fine.

Maybe she had to throw in the part about "as friends" just to ease her conscience or something.
 
If my girl agrees to go out with some dude "as friends" when I'm a cleary established boyfriend, than I have a problem with that.



I'm not a jealous guy but that's just suspicious as shit.
 
velvett said:
HAHAHHAHAHA

It's true.


You don't think a man and a woman can just be friends?

Or specifically in this case, her intentions be innocent?
 
JerseyArt said:
You don't think a man and a woman can just be friends?

No.
Velvett and I both agree that men & broads cannto be friends.
 
nvrbuffenuff_girl said:
An 56 yr. old guy hit on me about a month ago. From the moment he asked me if he could buy me a drink I told him I wasn't interested. I made it clear in the 10 min. conversation that night that I had a boyfriend. He even saw me with my boyfriend later on that night at this event we met at. He invited me out next month to a strip club. I told him I would go, just as friends though. He's never been with a girl before and he knows I've gone with my boyfriend.

My boyfriend knows all about him and has known about him since the night he hit on me. Everytime we correspond, via email these days, I mention something about my boyfriend. He won't be getting any. Nor do I have any interest in him. But I'll hang out with him as friends.

Whats up with you attracting guys 20-30 years older?
 
JerseyArt said:
You don't think a man and a woman can just be friends?

Or specifically in this case, her intentions be innocent?


I used to.
I don't anymore.
You can be friendly but not just friends

Not entirely - I already posted what thought.

It means you've peaked her interest, has no real good reason to break up with her boyfriend but she doesn't want to loose contact with you so she'll try and string you along as long as possible - just in case.


Of course all situations differ and outcomes will not always be the same for each and every event but.... yahda yahda - you get what I'm saying.
 
I've never been friends with chicks. Any time that I was, I'd be faking the whole thing and secretely be trying to bang them. If I couldn't get in their pants within 2 weeks I'd start making excuses whenever they wanted to hang out. This would sometimes lead to them wanting me and then I'd be in like flint.
 
strangebrew said:
I've never been friends with chicks. Any time that I was, I'd be faking the whole thing and secretely be trying to bang them. If I couldn't get in their pants within 2 weeks I'd start making excuses whenever they wanted to hang out. This would sometimes lead to them wanting me and then I'd be in like flint.


We were friends weren't we?
 
strangebrew said:
I've never been friends with chicks. Any time that I was, I'd be faking the whole thing and secretely be trying to bang them. If I couldn't get in their pants within 2 weeks I'd start making excuses whenever they wanted to hang out. This would sometimes lead to them wanting me and then I'd be in like flint.

Words to live by my friend. I have never dated a girl - just made friends into sexmates. I cannot imagine being a friend with a gilr without wanting to touch her private parts.
 
Et al

So no one here has unattractive friends of the opposite sex:)

Seriously, I think it gets much easier as you get older. Time also helps dull whatever initial attraction might have existed. Men and women I think , at least this is true of me, have a set period of time in which something happens or it doesnt. Very short. Then that person gets placed permanently in the "just friends" category
 
just because maybe she's interested doesn't mean you should go out with her.......

in fact, if you think she's interested at all, I would certainly say you changed your mind and NOT go out with her, because it will make her more interested....

don't brown-nose dude....it will get you nowhere
 
She is just saying that about her bf so she doesn't feel as guilty hangin with you. Work your way in there, and if her current relationship isn't good for her, she will turn to you.
 
chaos mage said:
I'm pretty sure this means, "I want my velvety warm pinkness coiled around your growing manhood"

Or...this dude who asked me out is gay and can help me pick out the new curtains I have been meaning to purchase.
 
superdave said:
Whats up with you attracting guys 20-30 years older?


My boyfriend isn't 20+ years older than me. He's only 18 years older than me. When I met him, I wasn't even looking for a significant other. We became friends and later we developed feelings towards each other. At first I had no idea he was 18 years older than me. He didn't look old. I thought he was only 5-7 years older than me.

The oldest guy that has ever hit on me was 61. An extremely wealthy Yugoslavian man in Canada. In the states, men this old don't hit on me. It has only happens in Canada.


It's interesting though because some people think I look 18 while others say 25 or more. Who knows.
 
KillahBee said:
Doesn't matter to him. Girl talks to guy = guy thinks he can hit it. This is the case most of the time.


I talked to the 56 yr old last night on MSN. I decided to show him what I posted here about him and your responses. He said you guys were right. Then the conversation turned into some kind of sexual discussion which I quickly ended. I told him I felt it was best we didn't hang out, not even as friends, if he had some intentions ofsomehow someway one day getting some from me. He then tried to remove his large foot from his mouth to no avail.

One bad thing, he knows when I'll be in his town next. He knows where I hang out when I'm there. Chances are he'll show up and try to talk to me.
 
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