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Stefka

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you find out that he is really small.

I mean REALLY small. So small that when you see/feel it you have to take a minute to reevaluate the situation/relationship. So small that "dissapointed" does not beging to express your feelings. So small that your hand instantly recoils, your stomach instantly turns. What do you do? Do you stop and get the hell out of there (even if you like the guy) or do you stick it out and see what he has to offer?
 
Stefka said:
you find out that he is really small.

I mean REALLY small. So small that when you see/feel it you have to take a minute to reevaluate the situation/relationship. So small that "dissapointed" does not beging to express your feelings. So small that your hand instantly recoils, your stomach instantly turns. What do you do? Do you stop and get the hell out of there (even if you like the guy) or do you stick it out and see what he has to offer?
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Okay, let's establish something, first, is it a teeny weeney peeny when it's hard, or are we talking flaccid? Little when flaccid is absolutely NO indication of eventual dimensions.
 
Teeny weeny when fully hard. We're talking - oh, I didnt know there were 30-year-olds who haven't gone through puberty yet - small.
 
musclemom said:
Okay, let's establish something, first, is it a teeny weeney peeny when it's hard, or are we talking flaccid? Little when flaccid is absolutely NO indication of eventual dimensions.
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dame right I will be the first to admit my cock looks small when not hard,but as we have all seen when I get hard its a monster.why I dont know but thats just the way it it.I have always waited till I got hard to wip it out for this reason.and my cock is 8 inch or more on a good hard day..
 
Stefka said:
Teeny weeny when fully hard. We're talking - oh, I didnt know there were 30-year-olds who haven't gone through puberty yet - small.
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Teeny weeny when hard :worried: Poor man.

The question is, will this be an issue you will never be able to let go of? If this is going to bother the hell out of you, his penis is going to become the reason for a LOT of problems -- and the poor thing probably is blamed for tons of shit already.
 
I know!

The truth is I gave it a shot and it was a disaster.
He was great, a very sweet and smart guy.
The sex wasn't bad - he was great at oral.
But I really was not attracted to his member.
I just didnt want to acknowledge it.
That tended to kill the sexual vibe.
It only lasted a couple of months.

I was wondering what the other girls would have done.
Do most women just walk away?
 
I also think all tiny breasted women and women with big ugly vaginas should be barred from having sex.

Or make them screw the small dick guys.
 
BigRupe said:
I also think all tiny breasted women and women with big ugly vaginas should be barred from having sex.

Or make them screw the small dick guys.
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Not a bad idea...
Maybe when meeting a prospective partner we should exchange cards with pictures and measurements of our genitalia. That would most definitely prevent some rather awkward situations later.
 
BigRupe said:
I also think all tiny breasted women and women with big ugly vaginas should be barred from having sex.

Or make them screw the small dick guys.
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haha how true
 
Stefka said:
you find out that he is really small.

I think the right answer would come from looking at the reciprocal of this situation. Lets suppose that a woman in this case you had an abnormally large vulva and loose fitting vaginal opening, and he felt no friction at all due to your size becuase he was of an average endowment.

Sure Kegals can help, but naturally tight is best, and there is something to be said for the asthetics of large sized punanay. Women are far less willing or able to talk openly about how their size affects the sexual equation, but none the less women control one half of the variables in the sexual compatiblitity equation.

How would you want to be treated and dealt with when you are the one being looked at as being sexually insuffient or abnormal? If you can look yourself in the mirror and honestly answer that you treated this guy with human decency and respect and that you handled this sitauiton the way that you would want to be treated, then you have done the right thing.

If you can't do this, you may need to do some self examination as to why you operated using a double standard.
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Stefka said:
Not a bad idea...
Maybe when meeting a prospective partner we should exchange cards with pictures and measurements of our genitalia. That would most definitely prevent some rather awkward situations later.
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Fuck yah, lets not even talk! Give me some pics and if I approve follow me to the sac! Are YOU SURE YOU DO NOT HAVE A DICK?
 
Stryker1992 said:
Fuck yah, lets not even talk! Give me some pics and if I approve follow me to the sac! Are YOU SURE YOU DO NOT HAVE A DICK?
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Nope - no dick.
I'm just a girl who is sick of wasting her time.
 
Stefka said:
Nope - no dick.
I'm just a girl who is sick of wasting her time.
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call me, I will send the pics and I need some good ass! I doubt you will have the same experience with me! :p
 
5150guy said:
Stefka said:
you find out that he is really small.

I think the right answer would come from looking at the reciprocal of this situation. Lets suppose that a woman in this case you had an abnormally large vulva and loose fitting vaginal opening, and he felt no friction at all due to your size becuase he was of an average endowment.

Sure Kegals can help, but naturally tight is best, and there is something to be said for the asthetics of large sized punanay. Women are far less willing or able to talk openly about how their size affects the sexual equation, but none the less women control one half of the variables in the sexual compatiblitity equation.

How would you want to be treated and dealt with when you are the one being looked at as being sexually insuffient or abnormal? If you can look yourself in the mirror and honestly answer that you treated this guy with human decency and respect and that you handled this sitauiton the way that you would want to be treated, then you have done the right thing.

If you can't do this, you may need to do some self examination as to why you operated using a double standard.
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I dont think I have a double standard. If a guy finds that he is just not sexually compatible with a woman because she is to loose then there is nothing wrong with him ending things. Sexual compatability is very important.

This was my first experience with this type of thing. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and it just didn't work. I wasn't in love, maybe it would have been different if I was - but I doubt it.

I just wanted to know what other girls do when faced with a similar situation. But apparently the guys are more interested in this topic.
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A girl ALWAYS will have in her mind the curiosity and fantasy to fill herself inside with a big cock. Size DOES matters. Maybe most of them feel better with an average but the curiosity to grab, suck and sit over a big one will always be there.
 
DJ_UFO said:
A girl ALWAYS will have in her mind the curiosity and fantasy to fill herself inside with a big cock. Size DOES matters. Maybe most of them feel better with an average but the curiosity to grab, suck and sit over a big one will always be there.
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No curiosity left for this girl.
I've had a big one.
It was nice - but sometimes just too big (even after 5 years).
After some trial and error I know what size is perfect for me.
I dont need a 9 incher - but 3.5, come on
 
Stefka said:
No curiosity left for this girl.
I've had a big one.
It was nice - but sometimes just too big (even after 5 years).
After some trial and error I know what size is perfect for me.
I dont need a 9 incher - but 3.5, come on
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lmao, whatever happened to all the good religious girls?

all we're left with these days are girls who choose their men like dildo shoppers
 
I am going to gently bring this up again. You did not answer the question. Did you treat him(the man with the small penis) as you would have wanted to be treated were the situation reversed (ie you had an abnormally large vulva and loose vagina)?

I dont know why more of the EF ladies have not responded to your question either. It would be interesting to hear some frank honest answers from the other EF women as to how they would handle this kind of a situation. As general rule there are substantially more men who post on BTS than women.

As for each gender measuring their gentials and brinking a "stat card", while pragmantic, it could be a good idea. However, I doubt most women would go along with it. Men on the other hand have just grown used to being measured up and graded by women for their penis size as a fact of life. Women by and large struggle with being honest, open and comfortable disussing the size, appearance and natural tightness of thier punnani relative to how they "measure up" in that area.

If i had that small of a penis as the guy you mentioned, I would do the best could with what life had dealt me, and hope some how to find a woman who would accept me for my little wee wee. Hearing your account calls to mind the famous quote,"there but for the grace of God go I", and I would imagine that many men are thinking similar when they read your story. I would hope women have that same attitude as well. However, if in his shoes, I would be praying for the day when having penis enlargment was as far advanced and as relatively safe as having a good boob job.
 
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Stefka said:
I dont think I have a double standard. If a guy finds that he is just not sexually compatible with a woman because she is to loose then there is nothing wrong with him ending things. Sexual compatability is very important.

This was my first experience with this type of thing. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and it just didn't work. I wasn't in love, maybe it would have been different if I was - but I doubt it.

I just wanted to know what other girls do when faced with a similar situation. But apparently the guys are more interested in this topic.
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Don't second guess yourself. You made an honest decision for yourself.
You are exactly right, sexual cpmpatibility is very important. I tried to stay in a relationship where there wasn't any. I told myself that I just didn't like sex that much. All that did was get me deeper into a bad situation. Now things are a lot worse than they would have been if I would have handled it then. And by the way, I love sex now. Be proud of yourself for making an honest decision and go out and find what makes you happy. :p
 
I think I treated him decently. I gave it a shot - it wasn’t working for me - I ended things civilly.
And (perhaps most importantly) I have never told anyone irl about his size.
But if this type of thing ever happens again I wont sleep with the guy in the first place.
 
Stefka said:
I think I treated him decently. I gave it a shot - it wasn’t working for me - I ended things civilly.
And (perhaps most importantly) I have never told anyone irl about his size.
But if this type of thing ever happens again I wont sleep with the guy in the first place.
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Do you not feel a bit shallow choosing someone based on the size of their member?
 
Oceano said:
Do you not feel a bit shallow choosing someone based on the size of their member?
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Are you saying that it is shallow to break up with someone because the sex just isnt doing it for you?
 
Stefka said:
Are you saying that it is shallow to break up with someone because the sex just isnt doing it for you?
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given that sex is 75% mental and 25% physical and you want to concentrate on the physical portion (more specifically the size of his member) then yes, its pretty shallow
 
Sex isn’t always 25% physical and 75% mental. There are a lot of factors that come into play - like how long you have been with the other person, what you are looking for relationship wise.
Like I said earlier - maybe if I was in love it would have been different.
I think the physical part is very important, especially in a new relationship.
There is no reason to stay in an unsatisfying relationship, regardless of whether the cause of the dissatisfaction is mental or physical.
 
Stefka said:
Sex isn’t always 25% physical and 75% mental. There are a lot of factors that come into play - like how long you have been with the other person, what you are looking for relationship wise.
Like I said earlier - maybe if I was in love it would have been different.
I think the physical part is very important, especially in a new relationship.
There is no reason to stay in an unsatisfying relationship, regardless of whether the cause of the dissatisfaction is mental or physical.
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could it be that this guy just didn't turn you on period?

the dick thing seems like a cop out
 
Oceano said:
could it be that this guy just didn't turn you on period?

the dick thing seems like a cop out
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The "dick thing" was a problem.
Would I have liked him better if he was better endowed? Who knows. Perhaps I was initially turned off by his size and didnt allow myself to get that into him.
Human attraction is complicated.
 
Stefka said:
I think I treated him decently. I gave it a shot - it wasn’t working for me - I ended things civilly.
And (perhaps most importantly) I have never told anyone irl about his size.
But if this type of thing ever happens again I wont sleep with the guy in the first place.
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Stefka:

Glad to hear that you treated him decently and did not humiliate him. Postive Karma will be returned to you. Not all women would have shown as much respect/class as you did. Women can be pretty cruel about that sort of thing.

I say this because I got labled as being gay and being a teeny weenie man by a woman who got pist at me when I found out about her history of cheating and I refused to have sex with her. I did not want that drama in my life, and why would I want to date a woman who continues to cheat on her men.

While neither of her accusatsions are true(straight as an arrow and just your average joe in the penis department), she spread that stuff among her family and friends, and once you get that label in the female community when you live in a less populated area, it gets around pretty fast and it is not fun to deal with.

At any rate, Kudos to you for showing respect and maturity.
 
5150guy said:
Stefka:

Glad to hear that you treated him decently and did not humiliate him. Postive Karma will be returned to you. Not all women would have shown as much respect/class as you did. Women can be pretty cruel about that sort of thing.

I say this because I got labled as being gay and being a teeny weenie man by a woman who got pist at me when I found out about her history of cheating and I refused to have sex with her. I did not want that drama in my life, and why would I want to date a woman who continues to cheat on her men.

While neither of her accusatsions are true(straight as an arrow and just your average joe in the penis department), she spread that stuff among her family and friends, and once you get that label in the female community when you live in a less populated area, it gets around pretty fast and it is not fun to deal with.

At any rate, Kudos to you for showing respect and maturity.
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go vindicate yourself with a girl who can't keep her mouth shut. She'll tell everyone your good to go. Woman love gossip and it can work both ways.
 
Stefka said:
I know!

The truth is I gave it a shot and it was a disaster.
He was great, a very sweet and smart guy.
The sex wasn't bad - he was great at oral.
But I really was not attracted to his member.
I just didnt want to acknowledge it.
That tended to kill the sexual vibe.
It only lasted a couple of months.

I was wondering what the other girls would have done.
Do most women just walk away?
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Ummmmmm....i suppose I'm a big jerk, but I've had that happen twice in my lifetime. Both times it was the last time that I had sex with the guy. I just wasn't into lying there and pretending that I could feel that they were inside. Bleh. I just knew I could not be long term with someone who I couldn't make love to.
 
Stefka said:
No curiosity left for this girl.
I've had a big one.
It was nice - but sometimes just too big (even after 5 years).
After some trial and error I know what size is perfect for me.
I dont need a 9 incher - but 3.5, come on
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sad thing is there may be a woman or two who likes a small pee pee. my college roomie used to like girls with a big furry box so there is someone for everyone out there haha

oh and I am not saying i am hung like a bumble bee either!!! :artist:
 
I bet he was either Asian or Middle Eastern? Those guys are hung like toothpicks.

I think a lot of guys are self conscious in that area. I have a big dick ( just a smidgen under 8" ) but its crooked ( bends kinds down instead of up about 20 degrees ) so that always gives me stress the first time with a girl. Most girls its not a problem at all, but a couple it was painful for both of us. Actually my current girl says it rubs against her clit more so in that case its good! :)

With both of those girls I had pain with I was glad not to have to fuck them again and Im sure they felt the same way.

This small 3.5 guy you dated probably wished he had a tighter girl the whole time and was probably off in search of a tighter pussy the instant you broke up.
 
heatherrae said:
Ummmmmm....i suppose I'm a big jerk, but I've had that happen twice in my lifetime. Both times it was the last time that I had sex with the guy. I just wasn't into lying there and pretending that I could feel that they were inside. Bleh. I just knew I could not be long term with someone who I couldn't make love to.
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Heather just so us guys know where we would stand with you how big where these slongs?
 
i'd shoot myself if i only had a 3.5" cawk... why would he even get into bed with a chick, he has to know what he has and the fact that 99.999% of women arent going to like his smurf cawk
 
jochensa said:
sad thing is there may be a woman or two who likes a small pee pee. my college roomie used to like girls with a big furry box so there is someone for everyone out there haha
oh and I am not saying i am hung like a bumble bee either!!! :artist:
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NO TRUER WORDS WERE EVER SPOKEN!!!

I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone, and your paths WILL cross when the time is right.
 
You can't really blame the girl for gettin turned off by a 3.5 inch cock..thats like the size of musclemoms avatar!
Its just a sad reality for the guy
 
Stefka said:
We're probably talking like 3.5 inches max.
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I didn't know dicks came that small! Who has seen a hard 3.5" cawk here? I wanna know....
 
needtogetaas said:
dame right I will be the first to admit my cock looks small when not hard,but as we have all seen when I get hard its a monster.why I dont know but thats just the way it it.I have always waited till I got hard to wip it out for this reason.and my cock is 8 inch or more on a good hard day..
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Dude..get over yourself..my cock is also 8+ in, and I wouldn't call it a monster.
 
Stefka said:
Not a bad idea...
Maybe when meeting a prospective partner we should exchange cards with pictures and measurements of our genitalia. That would most definitely prevent some rather awkward situations later.
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Great idea about the cards, but then we'd need a verification system and so on. LOL

BTW I was above normal, now it's just plain huge. In case you were wondering.
:)
 
youngbull said:
Heather just so us guys know where we would stand with you how big where these slongs?
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Miniscule. Probably somewhere around 4 inches.
 
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