Now you say they know you are dating others - was this because you spoke about it clearly or assumed this is general unspoken and known practice? (No flame - just asking I swear.)
Now how do you go about "disengaging" the exclusive date uh, contract so to speak?
DO you take time off - *get your space* or do you break it off clean and permanent?
I stated it to them VERY CLEARLY that I did not want, nor was I ready for a "relationship". And that I wanted to be free to meet & date other women. But you would think I was speaking some language from another palnet, 99% of them wanted to date exclusively or wanted a relationship within like 2 or 3 weeks! They were written off faster than their panties came off.
Disengaging, easy, if something isnt working out, you tell them so. No *get my own space* here, that can only send mixed signals. Im not about games, I tell ya like it is and move on.