I think big is when you become a freak. If you look freaky and your 220plus your big. Its relative to what some call big. 200 Lbs aint big to me or any of my gym buddies. Big is something you are. And once you hit freak status, you have already went through the am i big , or do you work out phase. Big shirts do not cover it nothing does. I went to BushGardens yesterday, and i am 5'10 255lbs and i looked like a side show walking through the park. Here is one more way to tell your a freak. One ride i went on the Gauzi, i had to sit almost side ways in it to fit in, all the while i see people laughing. On the MOntu my daughter and wife grab the V shaped saftey apparatus that goes over your head and chest and pulled it down, while it goes down you can here it click each time it goes further. Theres cliked like 10 times. You know how many mine clicked ? Once. On an inverted rollarcoaster the only thing keeping my ass from falling out 100 feet and 75 miles per hr was 1 click! YOu here more bad comments then good. Grose, or thats too much, or look at the way he walks. Yesterday i heard it all , and if i didnt my wife and kids heard it. I am ok with it i chose this life style.