Shy Men...

[b fold the truth]

Well...most of the posts on here embarass me anyway...but I will go ahead and post my question on here and try not to look like a fool.

I am very very shy with women, always have been and always will be. Very very shy. I can not make the first move either. Well...I guess that I did kiss Night Fly first huh?

Anyway...I get embarassed very easily if someone says something a little wild, crazy, or does anything in the same. Do women not like this? I believe that Night Fly does sometimes...says that it is cute to see a shy 285lb guy...but really.

When you get a guy in an intimate situation and you notice that he is embarassed...what do/would you do?

Thoughts...

B True

 

[wonderstanding]

different strokes for different folks man...

some girls out there would have nothing to do with you, but others would find you very endearing...

just be yourself and good things will come your way!

Forrest

 

[HumorMe]

Well...most of the posts on here embarass me anyway...but I will go ahead and post my question on here and try not to look like a fool.

I am very very shy with women, always have been and always will be. Very very shy. I can not make the first move either. Well...I guess that I did kiss Night Fly first huh?

Anyway...I get embarassed very easily if someone says something a little wild, crazy, or does anything in the same. Do women not like this? I believe that Night Fly does sometimes...says that it is cute to see a shy 285lb guy...but really.

When you get a guy in an intimate situation and you notice that he is embarassed...what do/would you do?

Thoughts...

B True

b fold

I think it has everything to do with being with the right woman! As wonderstanding said, different strokes. The right woman can make the shyness go away. I'm 40 and at one point in my earlier years I was the same way. I think being spontaneous is what a lot of woman like. At least for my wife that is what she likes! When I was first dating my wife, I was the perfect gentleman and never would think about doing crazy stuff with her. I think the first time I pinched her boob in public(I think we were walking in the mall), she was just about as shocked as I was but she thought it was cute after she knocked the breath out me....LOL!(she liked it but she didn't hit me)
Don't be embarrassed, being shy is not a bad thing unless you never grow out of it around the right girl. Reading what Night Fly writes and seeing her pictures, I bet she is a very nice person and she looks like she is a lot of fun. You take care of her!

 

[Cindy99]

depends on what we want. if i want someone for a quickie, i'm not going to waste my time and effort on a shy guy, it'll just take too long. i suppose if i wanted a relationship, i would find it endearing - i just never want a relationship, so i think if the guy doesn't have the guts to talk to me just because i look the way i do, then its going to take a lot of effort on my part to make contact with him, and there are plenty of other guys out there, why waste my time. just my $.02 - lots of women love shy guys...

 

[Mad_maxx18]

depends on what we want. if i want someone for a quickie, i'm not going to waste my time and effort on a shy guy, it'll just take too long. i suppose if i wanted a relationship, i would find it endearing - i just never want a relationship, so i think if the guy doesn't have the guts to talk to me just because i look the way i do, then its going to take a lot of effort on my part to make contact with him, and there are plenty of other guys out there, why waste my time. just my $.02 - lots of women love shy guys...

Heres a few websites you should look into.

www.iamawhore.com
www.usemeforaidsresearch.com
www.forgettherelationshipjustshoveadickupmyass.com

Im sorry to flame you but im quiet around girls as well. Sad to say but every girl i meet growing up...had the same shallow mentality as yourself. You sicken me.

 

[wonderstanding]

that's the difference between girls and women...

I'm not a necessarily quiet/reserved person around women I like, but I'm very reserved with how much of my true self I'll let them see... they have to work for it... they have to work HARD for it...

Forrest

 

[Taps]

I don't think there's anything wrong with being shy at all. Opposites attract, right? That kind of dynamic can be really fun in a relationship -- one person helps bring balance to the other.

I always find myself attracted to girls with a bit of a wild streak....you sound the same. Enjoy it.

 

[wonderstanding]

BINGO!

my girlfriend is an angel, I'm a little devil... she's very shy/reserved in public, I'm a "big" personality... I'm very reserved emotionally, she's far from it... we balance out...

on the other side of the coin... my sister's boyfriend is VERY quiet/shy/etc. she's loud/boisterous to the point of annoyance sometimes (but she's my sis... gotta love her! LOL!) she's scared of things that go bump in the night, he's not, etc. etc. they balance out...

"hunting" for the right woman never works IMHO... just be yourself and have an open mind and be ready to accept whoever the universe throws at you... go out and enjoy life... there is no aphrodesiac like a genuine, confident smile that says "life is good"!

Forrest

 

[Night Fly]

It's all about being compatible. I truly believe that most of the time opposites attract! I am very patient when I need to be...but you also know I can be the complete opposite sometimes!

You know how I deal with it...so I don't think I need to explain that!

Humor Me...thank you for the kind words!!! You seem like such a great guy. I bet you are wonderful to your wife!

 

[Burncycle360]

It's funny when two people who never would have gotten together are put into a situation where they're forced to work together, and at the end it turns out they're perfect for each other.

Shown in the movies all the time

Happens in real life rarely

I'm shy sometimes- I've moved alot and I've had to change my personality a little each time to "fit in" (thought not completely changing myself) but now I don't know quite how to act myself. Sometimes I'm funny as hell, sometimes I'm serious, other times I just don't care.

When I'm hanging out with a girl she's just a friend, but when I'm alone around her and we know we like each other it's kind of awkward, because I go from flirty/hanging out to not quite sure what to do.

I just know that I'll find a great girl but I'll screw it up because I did the wrong thing at the wrong time (funny when I should have been serious, etc.). Probably a bad way to look at it, but I don't know how to look at it any other way. I'm not some guy after pussy, I'm a guy after a girl. Its hard to make that disctinction when your not shy at all, though I suppose it could be done.

But don't get me wrong, I'm not after these picture perfect relationships with only angels. If she happens to be one, fine, but I want a little devlish side at least

ah well...

 

[Bigsatan13]

I know it's hard to believe, but I'm the complete opposite of shy.

 

[Fastball]

there is no aphrodesiac like a genuine, confident smile that says "life is good"!

truer words have never been spoken