Thanks Guys,
Dabuffguy - You will never ever find me doing heavy weights without it. I always use lighter weights but make the muscles work more.
I used to bench 160kgs for 3-4 reps struggling but later found my better workouts and more damage was done to my chest with 40kgs and isolating as much as possible the chest.
Extramile, that was taken after a workout and when they are tense, not when they hang down the side of my arm.
Here is what I currently do:
Seated military press to the front not neck:
10KGs + the bar for a 30 rep warm up, slow focused motion
15kgs + the bar for a 20 rep warm up, slow focused motion
20kgs + the bar for 20 reps, slow focused motion
25kgs + the bar for 20 reps, slow focused motion
30kgs + the bar for a 15 reps, slow focused motion
40kgs + the bar for a 12 reps, slow focused motion
10kg plate - grab on to each side and do front raises 25 reps
15kg plate - grab on to each side and do front raises 20 reps
20kg plate - grab on to each side and do front raises 15 reps
Dumbbell raises:
Using light weights (15 - 20 lbs ) I will do one front raise, one side raise with one arm, then repeat with the other
Start off with 20lbs and do about 20 reps, then switch straight over to the 15lbs and do some more reps until failure
Then I break and start again with the 15lbs and when I reach failure will do so with 10lbs.
All my sets are done to failure and I come out of the gym with a painfull pump and find it hard to move my shoulders