i said no because i was married and he had several other chicks and may as well have been married to the bitchs and i will never forget how unwanted and used i felt - like i was raped and robbed of something special!!!
Marriage is something meant for a couple only not one man and a ton of wives.
my opinion is just my own but from my own past ugly experiences i hold that and will never let that happen to me again. if my true love is really that then he will respect my wishes as well.