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Should I call her out about this situation? (17 year old Im seeing)

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Ive got a situation with her and dont know whether to makea big deal about it or not. First of all she moved from Arkansas so she has a lot of friends there, one of whom is a guy that is coming here to town and staying with her at her parents house. The guy visiting some people here or something but has nowhere to stay so she offered for him to stay at her place and I guess its ok with her folks for some odd reason. She said all of this on the phone in front of me like it was no big deal, and I got the feeling it wasnt a big deal or she would have tried to keep it a secret. It still seems odd because he is staying the weekend with her. So Ive played it cool and went to a movie with a female friend then went to same female's house, and let the 17 year old know it since we were text messaging back and forth about our night.
I know ultimately me and her wont last but currently we fit the definition of boyfriend/girlfriend, so that why it struck me as odd that she would have another guy stay the weekend overnight at her place, even if it is her parents place.
Do I call her out on this since she is only 17 or let it slide?
 
2Thick said:
That would not slide we any self-respecting man.

She is your female and no man should be that close to her.

call me a caveman but I would not take that from any woman (let alone a 17-year old).
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1st time I've ever agreed with 2thick.
 
Im going to call her out on it tomorrow. What surprises me the most is that her parents dont care.
 
I'm kinda of in the same boat as you. My girl is kinda tomboyish and has alot of guy friends including one she's going to Australia with next in January. Number 1 - I know she don't sleep around me and Number 2) I refuse to sweat some punk 15 yrs younger than me. Ain't nobody hittin it like I do and that's the bottom line.
I just can't see her letting some guy stay over though; she wouldn't do me like that.
 
In your situation I would just back away from her and perhaps let her know why, in a matter-of-fact way. She's definitely not deserving of girlfriend status.
 
Dial_tone said:
I'm kinda of in the same boat as you. My girl is kinda tomboyish and has alot of guy friends including one she's going to Australia with next in January. Number 1 - I know she don't sleep around me and Number 2) I refuse to sweat some punk 15 yrs younger than me. Ain't nobody hittin it like I do and that's the bottom line.
I just can't see her letting some guy stay over though; she wouldn't do me like that.
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Im going to turn the tables on her and say I stayed overnight at that girls house. But the thing is I think the only thing she would say is "cool, did you have fun?"
 
I remember back in those days girls actually had guy friends that were only friends. Then after a few years i remember they just started fucking everybody, so you have to ask yourself is she at that point yet?
 
Jimsbbc said:
I remember back in those days girls actually had guy friends that were only friends. Then after a few years i remember they just started fucking everybody, so you have to ask yourself is she at that point yet?
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I think she actually has guys that are just friends and my gut tells me she isnt to the point of fucking everybody. This might be one of those things that teens do and there is no big deal. Ive never had a girl do this so thats why it made me curious. But then again Ive never gotten involved with someone ths much younger than me so I should probably expect different things LOL.
I think Im just going to play Joe Cool about the whole relationship unless she does something blatant and I catch her. It isnt worth a misunderstanding and losing this extremely hot piece of ass Ive got here.
 
superdave said:
Im going to call her out on it tomorrow. What surprises me the most is that her parents dont care.
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do you know this for a fact? because for all you know, she could have just said that if her parents will be away for the weekend. doh.
 
If the parents really are there then they must be pretty sure nothing is going to happen.
If she spots that you're trying to make her jealous you'll blow your sophisticated older man image in a hearbeat. You want her to think you're the one with options, not her. I say let it go until you find out for sure.
 
Dial_tone said:
If the parents really are there then they must be pretty sure nothing is going to happen.
If she spots that you're trying to make her jealous you'll blow your sophisticated older man image in a hearbeat. You want her to think you're the one with options, not her. I say let it go until you find out for sure.
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Thats what I was thinking also. By the way she just sent me a text message showing a million kisses symbol, and its 1:30 in the morning so I think everything might be ok here.
 
Dial_tone said:
If the parents really are there then they must be pretty sure nothing is going to happen.
If she spots that you're trying to make her jealous you'll blow your sophisticated older man image in a hearbeat. You want her to think you're the one with options, not her. I say let it go until you find out for sure.
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Spoken like a true lady's man.
 
superdave said:
Im going to call her out on it tomorrow. What surprises me the most is that her parents dont care.
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it was her parents idea in the first place, they dont like the idea of their little girl going out with an old man

they are hoping these two hook it up and then dump you

they will encourage him to sleep in the same room with her, anything to get you two apart
 
what she is doing is disrespecting tell her you don't want him staying over or she can hit the road.
enjoy the excitement of a FRESH one
 
superdave said:
Im going to call her out on it tomorrow. What surprises me the most is that her parents dont care.
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Geez its her parents house........it isnt like she is living alone and there is only one bed in her place.

Ok so I just read your latest posts........seems like you played in right after all :)
 
superdave said:

currently we fit the definition of boyfriend/girlfriend
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Do you know that for sure? Does she think you're boyfriend and girlfriend? If not, it can be dangerous to assume this. You need to know exactly what level your relationship is on before you decide what to expect.

Not a flame at all, but sometimes both men and women set themselves up for big disappointments by assuming their relationship is more serious than it actually is.
 
Re: Re: Should I call her out about this situation? (17 year old Im seeing)

DeepZenPill said:


Do you know that for sure? Does she think you're boyfriend and girlfriend? If not, it can be dangerous to assume this. You need to know exactly what level your relationship is on before you decide what to expect.

Not a flame at all, but sometimes both men and women set themselves up for big disappointments by assuming their relationship is more serious than it actually is.
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Thats why I said "we fit the description of bf/gf". If I was to tell you how we are with each other you would probably say she is my girlfriend, but it doesnt mean I feel that way.
 
shit fo brains said:



it was her parents idea in the first place, they dont like the idea of their little girl going out with an old man

they are hoping these two hook it up and then dump you

they will encourage him to sleep in the same room with her, anything to get you two apart
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agreed
 
def. dont try and reverse the tables and say you're gona sleep at some females house...that will only escalate the problem...you are so much older and have maturity on ur side...u both are aware of this, but by you playing this game, u will lose the maturity advantage! play on playa!
 
There is probably going to be some hanky panky going on there. Even if the parents are going to be home, the guy will still be with her all the time cause I'm sure he won't want to be hanging with the folks.

He's a young horny teenage kid, so of course he's going to try to get some pudding pie.

You're the older one, you should show her who has the power in the relationship. She, being only 17, is the one in the power position, and that is quite sad.
 
who cares if he does nail it??? he's going right back to arkansa anyway, right?

if super dave does'nt like it, he can go right back to being the non-pussy getting fucker he was before
 
last girl i know that stayed with a "longtime friend", ended up with his baby. random stuff like this happens, throw immaturity in it and you are asking to be pissed off.
 
shit fo brains said:
who cares if he does nail it??? he's going right back to arkansa anyway, right?

if super dave does'nt like it, he can go right back to being the non-pussy getting fucker he was before
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You seem to be living up to your handle.
 
super dave, please go back to banging plumpers, instead of 17 year olds...at least then I could have a laugh - you were an "internet plumper player"...now, to be honest, I just feel sorry for you. I mean, please, you are my age, and you are getting jealous over a 17 year old girl....

btw, if you think that by him staying at her parents place will deter them from getting it on, come on. I had alot of action when i was around that age whilst the parents were asleep in the next room.
 
Yea youre probably right. She was supposed to call me this afternoon to get together and didnt. I knew all the risks in the beginning. Oh well, that was fun while it lasted.
 
Looks like the mental instability has shifted from the immature teenager to the cradle robbing adult!!
 
Nevermind, she called and came over and fucked my brains out. Redemption!
 
She takin it in the butt yet? No, Seriously.
:)
 
BonerBoy said:


Well then what did she do with her bf?

leave him at home???
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I have no idea, that a good fucking question. Never occured to me to ask since I was too busy rat-a-tap-tapping.
 
He's home playing Monopoly with the folks.
 
Her friend is probably chilling at home thinking "Hey I wonder where (insert her name here) is, oh wait I don't care I already fucked her."

That's my bet.
 
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