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Ok guys and gals I have this girl that has never had a orgasm from a dick and I really wanna be the guy to give it to her but its proving to be pretty hard. I want to give her a g spot orgasm since I know that will work rather then the deep penetration because she claims that just hurts. I read the best way to do it is a version of doggy but she says there is to must pressure so fuck i dont know.

I am just asking for some people to chime in and float some wisdom. But toys are not a option so dont suggest, Im not having some toy get all the fun. Lube is ok though, so what do you guys think because if I can get her to have one then I will look like God it her eyes.
 
Fuck her anally, and at the same time rub her g-spot with your fingers. If you know where is the g-spot and how to play with it, she will end up squirting gallons like a water fountain all across the room.

And tape that shit.
 
See thats the thing I can make her cum using her clit or g spot using my fingers but I want to use my dick and have her cum. And if you can tell me how I can get her to do anal then I will but she is not for that.
 
cuthroat said:
Sounds like the chick im with. Fuck....With my luck it would be the same chick lol.
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LMFAO!!!

Hey pip88, is very hard for a girl to cum just with the cawk going in and out. It all depends on her. I mean, you gotta do your part, have a good size, good movement, touch her, talk to her, be gentle, but she has to concentrate, and/or find her position on top of you or whatever.

They don't function like we do. We need a whore in front, or a good porn, and just rubbing the flute we shoot milk. They don't; for them is a mix of a lot of things. Certainly, she can train herself if she is a freak like a pornstar or a stripper. That is awesome.
 
And about anal, if she was raised in a conservative community and family, forget it. Don't waste your time. She will say that anal is wrong and cannot be done because somebody said so. Girls like that is like if they came with a pre-programmed chip on a ROM that cannot be re-written. If she has never done it but has the curiosity, God bless you.
 
i think the best answer to your issue bro is the whole talking kindness wanting approach . think about it sex is 99% in the mind 1% body . she'll cum more and better if you fuck her mind as well as her body you'll get her to cum like crazy. Tell you what the next time your up in her try this as your doing your actions hit it from diffrent angles pitch your hips low and burrow up to her g-spot pushing deep inside her then on your out stroke pick a side and slide out on that wall then on the thrust in reverse walls and lift up and burrow down to the deepest part of her vag. just like lifting try to hit every angle inside of her and once you hit that one part her body really reacts focuse on that point in a revolving fashion with your stroke and watch the thick warm cum gush out of her. oh yeah try to line up your pubic bone with her clit and when your doing that deep grinding multi angle shit give your hips some motion and watch her react. but remember you have to get in her head let her know it's ok she can just relax and let her body talk to you and don't whatever you do stress her cumming that's a sure way to kill any idea of her cumming for you bro. it's all in the mind and your hips bro make sure you get them both in order and stroke that sexy out of her mind! Hey try this pick a day and from sun up to sundown talk here out of her bra and panties all day long make her feel like her pussy is the only one you need and want. let her know you will want her long as she will have you! don't go over board keep it low key I.E. stand behind her and without touching her body to body just reach down and kiss the nap of her neck and /or just leave your breath on the back of her neck. She just my cum right there for you lol Good luck bro and long as you get her mind on board her body will react!! keep me posted bro. FMT
 
A little education guys. There are they say about 30% I'm not sure if it's that high, that cannot have an orgasm through penetration no matter how determined you are. They just aren't going to have one. So let her just enjoy her oral orgasms.
 
captainahole said:
A little education guys. There are they say about 30% I'm not sure if it's that high, that cannot have an orgasm through penetration no matter how determined you are. They just aren't going to have one. So let her just enjoy her oral orgasms.
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Thank god a man said it, you people never believe women when they say our bodies don't work the same as yours. This is the correct answer. It makes both the woman feel badly if you push the whole "intercourse only" orgasm. You're dealing with anatomy here, i.e., not all clits are in the optimum location to make contact during intercourse and that's what makes orgasms.

If you really want her to have an orgasm during the act, have her touch herself :)

While the anal idea can work, it's not for beginners, it has drawbacks, mainly, not everyone is comfortable or willing to do that and sometimes it's too distracting to be enjoyable.
 
Musclemom is right.
Have her touch her self while you fuck her.
Get her a pocket rocket (clit vibrator) and she will cume like a faucet while you fuck her.

Its not that easy for many women to have an Gspot orgasm so dont count on it.

Just take your time and talk to her about this.
 
musclemom said:
Thank god a man said it, you people never believe women when they say our bodies don't work the same as yours. This is the correct answer. It makes both the woman feel badly if you push the whole "intercourse only" orgasm. You're dealing with anatomy here, i.e., not all clits are in the optimum location to make contact during intercourse and that's what makes orgasms.

If you really want her to have an orgasm during the act, have her touch herself :)

While the anal idea can work, it's not for beginners, it has drawbacks, mainly, not everyone is comfortable or willing to do that and sometimes it's too distracting to be enjoyable.
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Yes I was aware that some women simply dont come that way. But since I know she can be stimulated for both clit and g spot I didnt see why I couldnt find a way to have her have a orgasm from my dick hitting her g spot. And yea anal isnt totally out of the question I mean maybe with a little alcohol persuasion but besides that I dont even know how I could cleverly suggest it without being shut down.

I have had her touch herself while we have sex and that does work since she is stimulating her clit so basically it is bound to work I just want to climax with out touching herself.

But its coming apparent that I am just going to have to except all women are different from each other.

Still open for suggestion in case anyone has some tips and tricks up there sleeves.
 
MorganKane said:
Musclemom is right.
Have her touch her self while you fuck her.
Get her a pocket rocket (clit vibrator) and she will cume like a faucet while you fuck her.

Its not that easy for many women to have an Gspot orgasm so dont count on it.

Just take your time and talk to her about this.
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I will think of getting the vibrator I dont know though. I mean Im not totally against her helping herself have a orgasm but to have a third party toy helping to is just hard for my ego to accept.
 
Just think about the look on her face when she feels the buzz... that should be enough to put your ego to rest.

Also, if she is willing, she may want to try Kegel exercises. I would recommend a exerciser or a dildo can be used. By strenghting the kegel muscles most women experience more sensitivity and sensation. This helps many women understand and own their own orgasm. It really isn't your responsibility. You could also try a cock ring that stimulates the clitoris. Although it is a foreign device, it is still you doing the work if you must ;-)

All that said, the majority of women (yes, the majority) need clitoral and vaginal stimulation to orgasm. It is musch easier to let her control the stimulation on her clit. You can watch her and take over from time to time but you guys should really work together to get the orgasm.

Also talk with her about it. Sometimes women need the same stimulation at the same pace for a long period of time before they can orgasm. It is rare for men to be able to do this or even know they should. Find out what really feels good. The goal is to have an amazing orgasm, together.

Last little thing - I bet she would find it amazingly attractive if you wanted to watch her or encourage her to touch her own body or use her own toys to stimulate the sensations she wants.
 
ironwings said:
Just think about the look on her face when she feels the buzz... that should be enough to put your ego to rest.

Also, if she is willing, she may want to try Kegel exercises. I would recommend a exerciser or a dildo can be used. By strenghting the kegel muscles most women experience more sensitivity and sensation. This helps many women understand and own their own orgasm. It really isn't your responsibility. You could also try a cock ring that stimulates the clitoris. Although it is a foreign device, it is still you doing the work if you must ;-)

All that said, the majority of women (yes, the majority) need clitoral and vaginal stimulation to orgasm. It is musch easier to let her control the stimulation on her clit. You can watch her and take over from time to time but you guys should really work together to get the orgasm.

Also talk with her about it. Sometimes women need the same stimulation at the same pace for a long period of time before they can orgasm. It is rare for men to be able to do this or even know they should. Find out what really feels good. The goal is to have an amazing orgasm, together.

Last little thing - I bet she would find it amazingly attractive if you wanted to watch her or encourage her to touch her own body or use her own toys to stimulate the sensations she wants.
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Not sure if someone already said this but a position you can try with no toys or self stimulation is a modified missionary position (sounds like she might like that). She lays on her back with her legs semi straight. You lay on top in between her legs and instead of thrusting your hips up and down you push in deep and rock back and forth. With this style you are stimulating her labia, G Spot, Cervix (if she'll let you go that deep), and clitoris. That may just do it.

Remember that all a lot of what comes with an orgasm is what others have said : in the mind. A women can control her orgasm and it would be wise for her to experiment on her own and find out what makes her tic. Some women like to be talked to or fantasize during sex - does she fantasize about you with another women or about her having several men?

I wish you guys the best of luck. This is really important.
 
pip88 said:
I will think of getting the vibrator I dont know though. I mean Im not totally against her helping herself have a orgasm but to have a third party toy helping to is just hard for my ego to accept.
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WTF?
You are more concerned about your ego then her pleasure.
No wonder she is having hard time cuming.

Get over yourself.

You must be 16 years old or something.
 
MorganKane said:
WTF?
You are more concerned about your ego then her pleasure.
No wonder she is having hard time cuming.

Get over yourself.

You must be 16 years old or something.
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Yea im more concerned about my ego over her pleasure which is why I started a thread on the internet to talk to strangers about my problem. Shut the Fuck Up and get the Fuck out of here.

Some people just dont like toys. I dont like having a toy do my job maybe it makes me feel like less of a man. So you can judge me. Dumbass
 
pip88 said:
Yea im more concerned about my ego over her pleasure which is why I started a thread on the internet to talk to strangers about my problem. Shut the Fuck Up and get the Fuck out of here.

Some people just dont like toys. I dont like having a toy do my job maybe it makes me feel like less of a man. So you can judge me. Dumbass
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You shouldn't look at it like that. Think of it as a naughty "extra" that slightly alters the experience for both of you (you can feel the vibrations too). You know you can get her off, you know you don't NEED the toy, but it kinks things up a little bit.
 
pip88 said:
Yea im more concerned about my ego over her pleasure which is why I started a thread on the internet to talk to strangers about my problem. Shut the Fuck Up and get the Fuck out of here.

Some people just dont like toys. I dont like having a toy do my job maybe it makes me feel like less of a man. So you can judge me. Dumbass
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You can't do your job if you did you wouldnt have started the thread.

so just admit to yourself that you can't get her off and get the help she needs..

Shut the fuck up and do what I say.
 
pip88 said:
Some people just dont like toys. I dont like having a toy do my job maybe it makes me feel like less of a man. So you can judge me. Dumbass
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Please, please don't go thinking that you are more or less of a man based on how your lover orgasms, seriously. I've been with guys who got this mindset and it really, really made me feel like a fucking (literally) failure.

If this is something you want to achieve for funsies, go for it but don't turn it into an obsession.

I'm one of those girls that can't through straight intercourse, the ONLY thing that's ever worked for me (a grand total of three times in 26 years of sexual activity) is plain old me on top, but not sitting straight up, I had to be snuggled up, chest to chest with him (there's really only one way for you to move in that position and you get clitoral contact with penetration) and I really had to be uh, revved, if you know what I mean.
 
MorganKane said:
You can't do your job if you did you wouldnt have started the thread.

so just admit to yourself that you can't get her off and get the help she needs..

Shut the fuck up and do what I say.
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Let's be respectful please. EF is a place for people to come and ask anything they want without retribution. It isn't any different in the Between the Sheets Forum.

Pip88 - I think we all understand your concern and it is extremely common. I think that if you continue to work on it and communicate with her it will happen. Toys or no toys.
 
MorganKane said:
You can't do your job if you did you wouldnt have started the thread.

so just admit to yourself that you can't get her off and get the help she needs..

Shut the fuck up and do what I say.
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Lol once again you dont know shit. SHE HAS NEVER HAD A ORGASM. I havent been with this girl her whole life she has had other partners. A dick just doesnt do it for her.

Now you can go ahead and leave because I know you dont have anything else to say. Stop being a problem

This is more about a job its me trying to have a meaning sexual experience with someone.
 
nefertiti said:
You shouldn't look at it like that. Think of it as a naughty "extra" that slightly alters the experience for both of you (you can feel the vibrations too). You know you can get her off, you know you don't NEED the toy, but it kinks things up a little bit.
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Lol I just dont know if Im at that level of naughtyness yet. But, then again Im saying that now with no stimulate. If I was in bed and we were getting busy and it was laying there we probably would use it. Ill talk to her thanks for helping.
 
musclemom said:
Please, please don't go thinking that you are more or less of a man based on how your lover orgasms, seriously. I've been with guys who got this mindset and it really, really made me feel like a fucking (literally) failure.

If this is something you want to achieve for funsies, go for it but don't turn it into an obsession.

I'm one of those girls that can't through straight intercourse, the ONLY thing that's ever worked for me (a grand total of three times in 26 years of sexual activity) is plain old me on top, but not sitting straight up, I had to be snuggled up, chest to chest with him (there's really only one way for you to move in that position and you get clitoral contact with penetration) and I really had to be uh, revved, if you know what I mean.
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Well I will make a effort to change my mind set. As long as I stay involved then a toy idea wouldn't be that bad but if im on the sidelines because she just has to finish herself off then no sir. I guess I see it more as a distraction then anything but this girl is worth it so I will manage.

Lol yea she like to be on top and ride so she can rub her on me as well as having actual sex at the same time. Ill see if we can stay in that position longer because to be honest we go through alot of them, especially if Im really horny.
 
ironwings said:
Let's be respectful please. EF is a place for people to come and ask anything they want without retribution. It isn't any different in the Between the Sheets Forum.

Pip88 - I think we all understand your concern and it is extremely common. I think that if you continue to work on it and communicate with her it will happen. Toys or no toys.
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Hopefully so I really want to get this taken care of. But you have to know she wants to feel normal like other women and just want to have a orgasm from me alone. The toy idea is more of a last resort for her. That is something she will have to work her self out with but never the less she is happy im trying.
 
pip88 said:
Well I will make a effort to change my mind set. As long as I stay involved then a toy idea wouldn't be that bad but if im on the sidelines because she just has to finish herself off then no sir. I guess I see it more as a distraction then anything but this girl is worth it so I will manage.

Lol yea she like to be on top and ride so she can rub her on me as well as having actual sex at the same time. Ill see if we can stay in that position longer because to be honest we go through alot of them, especially if Im really horny.
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Bingo....longer. Stay longer. Let her decide when to switch ;-)
 
pip88 said:
Hopefully so I really want to get this taken care of. But you have to know she wants to feel normal like other women and just want to have a orgasm from me alone. The toy idea is more of a last resort for her. That is something she will have to work her self out with but never the less she is happy im trying.
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Well that's just the thing...it's far more normal to be unable to come from penatration alone.

Here's how you need to look at things - How can I create the most intense mindblowing sensations for the both of us? The orgasm is the cherry on top, but the journey there should be just as fun! The more ways you can change up that journey, the more fun you'll have.
 
nefertiti said:
Well that's just the thing...it's far more normal to be unable to come from penatration alone.

Here's how you need to look at things - How can I create the most intense mindblowing sensations for the both of us? The orgasm is the cherry on top, but the journey there should be just as fun! The more ways you can change up that journey, the more fun you'll have.
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So im assuming that this journey would be what your trying to tell me right now? Just in case im missing any other hints
 
dude.. it is not your responsibility to fix her.. and it might be some physical, it may be mental.. it may be that her mom messed with her head soo much she may never experience that feeling..

maybe she's a he?? or maybe.. she's just not that into you..

maybe maybe maybe.. move on.. life is short..

good luck.. best i can offer to ya..
 
SpyWizard said:
dude.. it is not your responsibility to fix her.. and it might be some physical, it may be mental.. it may be that her mom messed with her head soo much she may never experience that feeling..

maybe she's a he?? or maybe.. she's just not that into you..

maybe maybe maybe.. move on.. life is short..

good luck.. best i can offer to ya..
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Who says she needs to be fixed?

pip....sorry I'm talking in metaphors. What i'm trying to tell you is that you're putting way too much focus on the big O. Using toys doesn't have to be about orgasming...but it can be about experiencing different and new sensations.
 
nefertiti said:
Who says she needs to be fixed?

pip....sorry I'm talking in metaphors. What i'm trying to tell you is that you're putting way too much focus on the big O. Using toys doesn't have to be about orgasming...but it can be about experiencing different and new sensations.
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The original poster.. and your advice is spot on.. but I think this poster is young and the young lady has some issues that need to be address.. not to mention his perceptions..

So there we have it.. 2 avenues to go.. stay or go..
 
SpyWizard said:
dude.. it is not your responsibility to fix her.. and it might be some physical, it may be mental.. it may be that her mom messed with her head soo much she may never experience that feeling..

maybe she's a he?? or maybe.. she's just not that into you..

maybe maybe maybe.. move on.. life is short..

good luck.. best i can offer to ya..
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lol a hear where your coming from and got your jokes :laugh2:
 
nefertiti said:
Who says she needs to be fixed?

pip....sorry I'm talking in metaphors. What i'm trying to tell you is that you're putting way too much focus on the big O. Using toys doesn't have to be about orgasming...but it can be about experiencing different and new sensations.
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True I mean she says she like having sex and it feels good to her so I guess an orgasm would be more or less a big ass cherry on top of the already delicious ice cream.
 
SpyWizard said:
The original poster.. and your advice is spot on.. but I think this poster is young and the young lady has some issues that need to be address.. not to mention his perceptions..

So there we have it.. 2 avenues to go.. stay or go..
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yea im 21 I guess thats a little young which is why I am posting on here for some wisdom because I have never ran into this before.
 
pip88 said:
True I mean she says she like having sex and it feels good to her so I guess an orgasm would be more or less a big ass cherry on top of the already delicious ice cream.
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Exactly!

Now whenever you think about expanding your boundaries instead of worrying about that cherry, just think of it like you're trying a new flavor of ice cream.
 
Here is another....have her on her stomach and you are on top of her - chest to back thrusting away. Lay close on top of her and reach around under her to rub her clit while you continue penetration.

Oh and one more: sit almost indian style (whatever is comfortable) and have her sit towards you with her legs wrapped around you. Start to move however you would naturally but as you spice things up a bit grab under her arms and push her straight up and let her "fall" back down on you (you stay in the whole time - don't come out unless you are a pro!). You have to be pretty strong for this one. The pressure of falling stimulates the clit.

How is it going by the way?
 
ironwings said:
Here is another....have her on her stomach and you are on top of her - chest to back thrusting away. Lay close on top of her and reach around under her to rub her clit while you continue penetration.

Oh and one more: sit almost indian style (whatever is comfortable) and have her sit towards you with her legs wrapped around you. Start to move however you would naturally but as you spice things up a bit grab under her arms and push her straight up and let her "fall" back down on you (you stay in the whole time - don't come out unless you are a pro!). You have to be pretty strong for this one. The pressure of falling stimulates the clit.

How is it going by the way?
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Its been going pretty go she says she is feeling different types of pleasures and we have tried the one where she lays on her stomach but i never reached underneath to stimulate her. But alot of positions she says she feels alot of pressure i mean i dont have a mandingo dick but im not sure if its my size or what. But things are going slow but a steady exploration.
 
Well here's another one it might have been said b4 but didnt want to read every post....put a couple pillows under her butt to angle her g spot at more acheivable angle. Gently put pressure just above her pubic bone to futher expose her g spot for stimulation. Penetrate slowly and not all the way, just tease the g spot, also tell her a nasty story!! Get in her mind and dont be afraid to use your hands all over her non sexual parts as well. The more comfortable she feels with her body, your chemistry, etc the more proned she will be to let go. Dont be afraid of toys in this position either, a little vibration on the clit can go a long way to push her over the edge. Cant strss enough about the mind enough though. The position is only an easier way to hit her spot not a full proof plan...

Good luck and happy intercourse!!!! lol
 
ive had a girl that i couldnt even fuck for more then a minute or 2 before she starts orgasming...have her cum so many times she looks high and cant moves
 
sflanagan said:
Well here's another one it might have been said b4 but didnt want to read every post....put a couple pillows under her butt to angle her g spot at more acheivable angle. Gently put pressure just above her pubic bone to futher expose her g spot for stimulation. Penetrate slowly and not all the way, just tease the g spot, also tell her a nasty story!! Get in her mind and dont be afraid to use your hands all over her non sexual parts as well. The more comfortable she feels with her body, your chemistry, etc the more proned she will be to let go. Dont be afraid of toys in this position either, a little vibration on the clit can go a long way to push her over the edge. Cant strss enough about the mind enough though. The position is only an easier way to hit her spot not a full proof plan...

Good luck and happy intercourse!!!! lol
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Tried the pillows part but didn't actually push down on her pubic bone will try that.
 
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