She asked me to open the car door for her

[big4life]

Older men are HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Us old folks know a thing or two.

 

[Q Modo]

You do know that its curtousy to open the door for your lady, just as it is to stand up when a lady sits down at your table, remove your jacket it and use it to warm her when she's cold, drap it over puddles. It follows a knights code of honor with a nobles code respect. The old world values of the strong lost on the modern generations (and indeed they were strong, wield chainmail, plate armor over it, and a greatsword and shield and see if one thinks they were puny back then.)

This is so far off the mark it`s sick.

It`s one thing to give her your jacket(just to borrow D@mmit!), if she`s cold. It`s another thing to throw it in a puddle so she can walk on it. IMO this custom was from a time when women wore gowns that dragged on the ground. Putting your jacket on the mud would save her dress. I`d do that, but I`m not about to throw it in a puddle just to keep the bottom of her shoes dry. And, for the most part, we don`t even have the same dirt roads we used to. If there is a puddle, she can walk around it!

I wouldn`t open a car door for her everytime we go somewhere. Quite frankly, I find it a stupid thing to do. It`s not because I`m not being polite. It`s not because I`m too lazy to walk around the car to open it for her. It`s because she is more than able to do it by herself. More often than not, my jumping in and saying " Wait, let me open it for you." is a waste of time. Sure it`s a nice thing to do every now and then, and I would. Not doing it all the time, shows that when I do, it`s not out of habit.
I`d only make this a regular thing for someone I actually think needs, or could use the help. That`s being polite. If she thinks I SHOULD open the door for her everytime, then she is not someone I would bother with.

 

[gwl9dta4]

No, no baby .... that is YOUR insecurity. Please do not project on people who are older and wiser than you.

Older? Yes, Much older, propably. Wiser? That's a leap. I can personally gurantee you that is not the case. No matter, think of yourself as you do, it will help you cope.

Just because a man or a woman chooses to take care of themselves it does NOT MEAN that they are desperate. It only means that they have respect for thier bodies and like to feel good about how they look AND FEEL. This has nothing to do with age.

you are a full of shit. I know how women react to age and the little lines that form on their foreheds and cheeks. Sound familiar? It breeds desperation, afterall who will want to tip and date a wrinkled stripper with saggy breasts? See the desperation and it's relevance to age? Vanity and respect for one's body are NOT the same. You are to shallow to see that.

do YOU weight train? Are you a professional bodybuilder or do ever REALLY think that you will be?

I train for health and vanity. Health first and foremost, vanity a close second. But you see, i will not sit here and give you a writeup on how i respect my body and blah blah blah. Vanity, there i said it. I admit it will you?

Please stop now before you make yourself look worse than you already have.

Suuuuurrreeeee! Miss botox, i have to fix my eyebrows with my fingers because they sometimes go up without me knowing, LOL!!! remember that one?

 

[Puddles]

Cardio?!?! Sheez, no cardio here. Opening doors is bad if your bulking.

You know the toilet seat thing is annoying. The polite thing to do is for a man to put it down after he uses it, so you guys don't fall in as looking before you sit is too difficult. You need it up, we need it down. So be a sweetheart and put it up after YOU finish with it.

Ahh yes just like training a dog. Heh, whoof!

Obviously i may sound bitter to some but alas, i am not.

LOL! I gotta remember the bulking stuff...I will carry hubby up the stairs next time he's bulking...thanks for the info. But the toilet thing...well...he doesn't lift the seat anymore...he's got perfect aim! Besides, there are always more girls here than guys, so we win...majority rules here!

 

[KAYNE]

GUYS, JUST STOP ACTING MACHO AND DO SOMETHING NICE FOR THE CHICKS. ITS THE NICE THING TO DO.

WHEN YOU DO NICE SHIT FOR THE GIRL, THEY USUALLY RETURN THE FAVOR. ITS RECIPROCATED QUITE NICELY MOST OF THE TIME.



KAYNE

 

[casavant]

GUYS, JUST STOP ACTING MACHO AND DO SOMETHING NICE FOR THE CHICKS. ITS THE NICE THING TO DO.

WHEN YOU DO NICE SHIT FOR THE GIRL, THEY USUALLY RETURN THE FAVOR. ITS RECIPROCATED QUITE NICELY MOST OF THE TIME.



KAYNE

I still don't open no stinking car doors.

 

[gwl9dta4]

GUYS, JUST STOP ACTING MACHO AND DO SOMETHING NICE FOR THE CHICKS. ITS THE NICE THING TO DO.

WHEN YOU DO NICE SHIT FOR THE GIRL, THEY USUALLY RETURN THE FAVOR. ITS RECIPROCATED QUITE NICELY MOST OF THE TIME.



KAYNE

Yep, i let them play my xbox.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Sure.... sure. If it makes you feel better.

And as for the botox, if you are going to quote me then get it right. I had botox on my forehead ONCE last summer because I was still modeling at the time.

I PUT IT IN PRINT that I was more than happy with how I look in real life, but the camera is not so kind as it magnifies some things, while minimizes others.

Odd how you remembered the one side that I was HONEST ABOUT (that only occured while the botox was still in effect), but negated the precursor to the information that I was providing for others who were asking about botox.

Vanity? I don't recall EVER saying that I did not care about my appearance. For goodness sake if I didn't then I wouldn't brush my hair or bother to wash my face if I didn't. What is your point?

I was only pointing out to you the flaw in your thinking. You know, the part about people doing THE SAME things that you do based on "the fact" that "time is slipping. See, this may be the motivating factor for your time spent in the gym. For me it is not.

I have been in a gym since I was 17. Was time slipping for me then too? Oh no. Then it MUST HAVE BEEN because I NEEDED to get a man.

I am THIRTY-FIVE YEARS OLD and I have had four children. Am I all that and a bag of chips. To my girls? HELL YES. To every other person that walks the earth. I think not and that is groovy with me.

I know exactly who I am and what I am all about. I am a flawed human being that is struggling to find their way in the world. Someone that is doing their best to earn thier children's love and respect daily and someone who tries to make most people that she meets smile, even if it is only for a moment in time.

When the day is done I hope that I will be just a bit better than when the day started.

You can project all you like. It matters not to me.

But if you honestly think that EVERYONE who is even a moment older than you IS DESPERATE because of some perception of ticking time then I think you need to reconsider why it is that you are still alive. I mean, I honestly think that you should die young. You will leave a much better corpse.

For me, I will be satisfied to be wrinkled and pruny and saggy.... Maybe when I get to be like 101!

In any event. Do I LOVE the fact that my face is not as youthful in appearance as it was when I was say 22? No, I won't lie about that. But would I want TO BE 22?!

HELL FUCKING NO.

It was nice when I was there, but I have zero interest in revisiting it.

 

[casavant]

Yep, i let them play my xbox.

So, in effect, you two swap boxes?

 

[gwl9dta4]

So, in effect, you two swap boxes?

lol! Exactly!