self-esteem question for the guys

[georgie24]

what do you do or dont do to maintain or boost your self esteem? i noticed there are things i do that take away from my esteem.

 

[fallenangel]

dunno i have no self esteem

 

[georgie24]

what is self-esteem anyone????

 

[beastboy]

Hey...HG Pennypacker wants to know if you got poisoned or not...?

 

[saint808]

what is this self esteem thing that you speak of?

 

[bullett]

I usually try to go out of my way to do something for someone. That works wonders. That and closing a big deal at work....

Really anything excellent, like having a monster workout, a good run, working in my yard until its spotless, etc... helps me feel like I have done my best, and/or I'm improving.

 

[bullett]

ONE VERY IMPORTANT POINT

you can't tie who you are, or your self esteem to a result. You absolutely have to tie it to the PROCESS... did you give your best, did you prepare properly, did you work your plan. There will always be something or someone who can kick your ass, thats not important. What is important is you commiting fully to a process, and working hard at it. Allow the results to take care of themselves. Take pride in your effort.

 

[Frackal]

Must constantly improve yourself.

 

[Bullit]

Hey...HG Pennypacker wants to know if you got poisoned or not...?

Word!

Whats the poison status georgie?

You got youself a true sweetheart of a gal m'boy.

 

[georgie24]

im not dead yet lol, im making plans to leave her, alot of my stuff is laying around her crib

 

[velvett]

Buy new stuff!

 

[Citruscide]

I have no problems with my self-esteem... I think highly of myself.

C-ditty

 

[georgie24]

I have no problems with my self-esteem... I think highly of myself.

C-ditty

you have bi-polar desease thats why

 

[big_bad_buff]

beating women, picking on smaller people, sucker punches, ripping people off, coke, stuff like that usually gives me a quick self-esteem boost

 

[Citruscide]

you have bi-polar desease thats why

No I don't! Well, maybe I do... but NO I DON'T ... well... maybe I do...

C-ditty

 

[PolishHammer1977]

what do you do or dont do to maintain or boost your self esteem? i noticed there are things i do that take away from my esteem.

Georgie,

Citrus, Bullet, & Frackal all made valid points.

It is very simple with me. I know that there will always be people stronger, better looking, more intelligent, more courteous, and have more to give than me.

But noone can take my heart and who I am as a person. Noone can take away the feeling I get when I give to someone I care about. Noone can knock me down because I know who I am.

 

[Bullit]

Re: Re: self-esteem question for the guys

I know that there will always be people stronger, better looking, more intelligent, more courteous, and have more to give than me.

And HI is those people.
But you spell better.

 

[theoak01]

Working out is a big one

but I think the most important is when my friends come to me for advice

not only does this makes me feel wanted but I feel as though they look up to me

and in the end feeling wanted accounts for alot

 

[hardrock]

beating women, picking on smaller people, sucker punches, ripping people off, coke, stuff like that usually gives me a quick self-esteem boost

Aren't you forgetting stealing candy from a baby?

 

[The Shadow]

what do you do or dont do to maintain or boost your self esteem? i noticed there are things i do that take away from my esteem.

...well.....I guess I try to go out of my way to do something generous or thoughtfull for someone else.....make me feel better.

 

[Citruscide]

Re: Re: self-esteem question for the guys

...well.....I guess I try to go out of my way to do something generous or thoughtfull for someone else.....make me feel better.

Usually, when I see someone who is down.. I get the sharpee out of my sock and autograph their forehead. Then I flex for them... it usually makes them feel better, and if it doesn't, it makes me feel better for helping someone.

C-ditty

 

[biteme]

I usually try to go out of my way to do something for someone. That works wonders. That and closing a big deal at work....

Really anything excellent, like having a monster workout, a good run, working in my yard until its spotless, etc... helps me feel like I have done my best, and/or I'm improving.

This can't be the Bullit that I'm accustomed to on here. I've never heard him do anything but tear people down.

 

[vinylgroover]

Without self belief, it's hard to ever gain or regain self esteem.

My job, my group of friends, my ability on the dancefloor, lol all contribute to my self esteem, but without self belief, none of that is possible.