seems like every woman i've met has either been raped or was abused as a child

[heatherrae]

Here you are fervently speaking out against rape / molestation, yet you practically advocating, justifying and rationalizing not reporting legitimate assaults - because, OMG, you have to tell someone about it?

The fact that I am a man and most likey will never have to worry about that happening to me has nothing to to with it. Most women will never experience this either. As a man I am more likely to be the victim of a very violent crime, and you can bet your ass I would report it. That is part of reporting a crime - telling the story.. sometimes over and over and over and over - and yes, some people may be scepticle of your story. So what? That's part of it.

The people that question the stories of the fakes are the champions of the real victims, who's experiences of horror are dilluted by fakes that cry wolf. These are crimes that have to be prosecuted, the facts have to be discovered, these people have to ask the tough quesitons.

You should be advocating courage, not cowardess... that's just pathetic.

You should also hate the liars as much as the perpertrators.

I didn't say I advocate non-reporting. I said that as things stand in my life right now, I probably would not report because it isn't worth what a victim has to go through.

 

[jh1]

I didn't say I advocate non-reporting. I said that as things stand in my life right now, I probably would not report because it isn't worth what a victim has to go through.

Lame.

 

[notanalter]

I didn't say I advocate non-reporting. I said that as things stand in my life right now, I probably would not report because it isn't worth what a victim has to go through.

but you will tell on a site with a half a million online users publically that your Ex beat you. I'm confused, can you illiterate


how do you spell E Ten shion simpathy

 

[blueta2]

I didn't say I advocate non-reporting. I said that as things stand in my life right now, I probably would not report because it isn't worth what a victim has to go through.

I'm not sure how it is in the Us, but in Canada, abuse is taken VERY seriously. No cop or lawyer would ever tear a victim apart.

 

[H_T_]

I didn't say I advocate non-reporting. I said that as things stand in my life right now, I probably would not report because it isn't worth what a victim has to go through.

it's true. multiple court appearances. reciting the story ad nauseum. having to re-degrade yourself with every person that hears or finds out about it. the skeptics, etc...

 

[blueta2]

it's true. multiple court appearances. reciting the story ad nauseum. having to re-degrade yourself with every person that hears or finds out about it. the skeptics, etc...

maybe, but that is certainly no reason not to report it! Life is a fucking struggle, if someone violates you, you fight, and fight like a bitch!

 

[heatherrae]

but you will tell on a site with a half a million online users publically that your Ex beat you. I'm confused, can you illiterate


how do you spell E Ten shion simpathy

Can I "illiterate?" No, you have the market cornered on illiteracy, TR.

I think you mean "elaborate." I take back everything I said about your criminal record keeping you out of law school. Your illiteracy has that locked up, regardless.

 

[jh1]

maybe, but that is certainly no reason not to report it! Life is a fucking struggle, if someone violates you, you fight, and fight like a bitch!

Words to live by.

 

[heatherrae]

it's true. multiple court appearances. reciting the story ad nauseum. having to re-degrade yourself with every person that hears or finds out about it. the skeptics, etc...

I think HT gets it because he has walked a mile in those shoes.

 

[notanalter]

Can I "illiterate?" No, you have the market cornered on illiteracy, TR.

I think you mean "elaborate." I take back everything I said about your criminal record keeping you out of law school. Your illiteracy has that locked up, regardless.

well than elaborate heather, tell us why you talk about your Ex hubby beating your ass coming home drunk to everyone but you won't go to the police if you got raped?


i'm sure everyone here can figure that out