Raina said:He wasn't my type when we met. I fell for him pretty hard though and things were good for a while. Then he started treating me really bad. I broke up with him for that and other reasons. We got back together and things were good for a while. Then they got progressively worse until we were just used to the misery and thought it was normal.
So we got married and mostly did so because of nonrefundable deposits and guilt. Then we played some "fake it til you make it" again while things spiraled downhill. Now I live in situation similar to a warzone with "roommates" who are married and scream that they hate each other all the time. Every day when I get home from work I wonder if he'll have moved out.
Rockin' good fun. lol
Raina said:Oh I'm not anti marriage. Nor am I a depressed miserable creature. Things have a way of working out and someday my happily ever after will be paid for with all of this pain.

I find this very hard to believe. Based on what we see on here I cannot believe anyone would not be totally enamored of you. Have your S.O. checked for brain damage.Raina said:Now I live in situation similar to a warzone with "roommates" who are married and scream that they hate each other all the time. Every day when I get home from work I wonder if he'll have moved out. Rockin' good fun. lol
Raina said:...and 10 months post wedding everyone is telling me they all wondered why we got married when we clearly didn't like each other. Too bad nobody mentioned it before. Not sure we'd have listened though.
gonelifting said:My wife knew she wanted to marry me the night we met. I knew shortly after that night. (A man's gotta get laid first) lol jk
Humorme has a good story. I must admit, my wife is also unselfish to a great degree. OMG we're married to the same woman!!! jk again. She's almost "too good" for me, but is'nt that how love is supposed to feel like? She says that about me as well. Is she physically the perfect woman? No. Is she the smartest? No. But she's mine and we're in love. There will ALWAYS be hotter women/men out there that may "treat you better" if you go out with them for a week, a month... several months, but you can't just hop on another train just because it has free donuts.
gonelifting said:We've been married 8 years now.
anthrax said:But love is blind, and lovers cannot see
The pretty follies that themselves commit
~~ William Shakespeare
Raina said:All I want right now is to close this chapter of my life out and go.
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