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Did you think your significant other was the *best* partner you could dream of when you first meet her/him?
Do you still think so?

In other words, do you think your SO is simply the best or is she/he's the best you could possibly have?
 
this is weird: I always used to tell my mom that I'm gonna get married to a guy with green eyes and black hair that has a lot of muscles.....I got him, well, except the black hair (its brown)
 
He wasn't my type when we met. I fell for him pretty hard though and things were good for a while. Then he started treating me really bad. I broke up with him for that and other reasons. We got back together and things were good for a while. Then they got progressively worse until we were just used to the misery and thought it was normal.

So we got married and mostly did so because of nonrefundable deposits and guilt. Then we played some "fake it til you make it" again while things spiraled downhill. Now I live in situation similar to a warzone with "roommates" who are married and scream that they hate each other all the time. Every day when I get home from work I wonder if he'll have moved out.

Rockin' good fun. lol
 
...and 10 months post wedding everyone is telling me they all wondered why we got married when we clearly didn't like each other. Too bad nobody mentioned it before. Not sure we'd have listened though.
 
Raina said:
He wasn't my type when we met. I fell for him pretty hard though and things were good for a while. Then he started treating me really bad. I broke up with him for that and other reasons. We got back together and things were good for a while. Then they got progressively worse until we were just used to the misery and thought it was normal.

So we got married and mostly did so because of nonrefundable deposits and guilt. Then we played some "fake it til you make it" again while things spiraled downhill. Now I live in situation similar to a warzone with "roommates" who are married and scream that they hate each other all the time. Every day when I get home from work I wonder if he'll have moved out.

Rockin' good fun. lol


Damn! That's a shame.

Sorry you feel like you made a big mistake.

My wife and I have been married for 18 years. We dated for 6 years. Before that, we dated and broke up for 2 years and hated each other.

She is the best person for me and probably the most unselfish human being I have ever known. Never puts herself first. She is a jewel.:)
 
Oh I'm not anti marriage. Nor am I a depressed miserable creature. Things have a way of working out and someday my happily ever after will be paid for with all of this pain.
 
Raina said:
Oh I'm not anti marriage. Nor am I a depressed miserable creature. Things have a way of working out and someday my happily ever after will be paid for with all of this pain.


Wow obviously your man has NO idea what a awesome person you are.


What a shame.......I can offer my humble but simple


:rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose: :rose:
 
Raina said:
Now I live in situation similar to a warzone with "roommates" who are married and scream that they hate each other all the time. Every day when I get home from work I wonder if he'll have moved out. Rockin' good fun. lol
I find this very hard to believe. Based on what we see on here I cannot believe anyone would not be totally enamored of you. Have your S.O. checked for brain damage.
 
...and I've managed to hijack a thread a whole new way.

All I want right now is to close this chapter of my life out and go.
 
My wife is perfect for me. I realize she is not perfect & that is what makes her so attractive to me.
Honestly, when we first fell in love, I thought I loved her. Compared to what I feel now, that was just a childish crush.
I'm so lucky we made it. Married 22 yrs.
 
Raina said:
...and 10 months post wedding everyone is telling me they all wondered why we got married when we clearly didn't like each other. Too bad nobody mentioned it before. Not sure we'd have listened though.


I love you dearly but your stubborn like that
 
My wife knew she wanted to marry me the night we met. I knew shortly after that night. (A man's gotta get laid first) lol jk

Humorme has a good story. I must admit, my wife is also unselfish to a great degree. OMG we're married to the same woman!!! jk again. She's almost "too good" for me, but is'nt that how love is supposed to feel like? She says that about me as well. Is she physically the perfect woman? No. Is she the smartest? No. But she's mine and we're in love. There will ALWAYS be hotter women/men out there that may "treat you better" if you go out with them for a week, a month... several months, but you can't just hop on another train just because it has free donuts.

We've been married 8 years now.
 
gonelifting said:
My wife knew she wanted to marry me the night we met. I knew shortly after that night. (A man's gotta get laid first) lol jk

Humorme has a good story. I must admit, my wife is also unselfish to a great degree. OMG we're married to the same woman!!! jk again. She's almost "too good" for me, but is'nt that how love is supposed to feel like? She says that about me as well. Is she physically the perfect woman? No. Is she the smartest? No. But she's mine and we're in love. There will ALWAYS be hotter women/men out there that may "treat you better" if you go out with them for a week, a month... several months, but you can't just hop on another train just because it has free donuts.

Couldn't agree with you more. Good post.:)

gonelifting said:
We've been married 8 years now.

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Re: S.O.

But love is blind, and lovers cannot see
The pretty follies that themselves commit

~~ William Shakespeare
 
Re: S.O.

anthrax said:
But love is blind, and lovers cannot see
The pretty follies that themselves commit

~~ William Shakespeare


Oh, I see, but overlook.... and so does my wife. Nobody's perfect. If that's what someone's looking for, good luck.
 
I know my wife is perfect for me - she has made me a better person, and I hope I have done the same for her.
 
I know my wife is perfect for me - she has made me a better person, and I hope I have done the same for her.
 
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