4 A - Quality of food
4 B - Selection of food dishes
3 C - Presentation of food
4 D - Overall restaurant ambience
4 E - Wait staff function
2 F - Wait staff appearance
3 G - Seating arrangement
4 H - Type of seating and comfort
My g/f and I started going to a new restaurant every other week together...our husbands like to eat at the same old places which is fine, but we like to venture out so it works out well that we do it together. It's our girls night out, it usually starts out with a stop at Starbucks, then off for some shopping, and finally dinner.
You left off one very important part here...the bar area and martini menu! We usually spend a good 3 hrs. having our dinner so comfortable seating is really important. She's nearly vegetarian so above average quality and selection of foods are a must. My food doesn't normally have to be fussed over presentation wise, but if it's a higher end place, then it should really be better than average. We like different atmospheres...sometimes we'll pick a quiet dark place where we can just hide out and other times we want a lively atmosphere and will spend time at the bar. I don't like inattentive staff, but I don't want someone to be watching my every bite either. Their appearance doesn't matter much as long as they're clean!