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Really flirty chicks...

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Whats up with chicks who are really flirty to other guys even when they're out with you?

Killah...
 
Smurfy said:
OMG what's with the insecure guys?????
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I'm secure as fuck.

Was hanging out with blondie last night, she's just got a flirty personality in general...I'm still the one making out with her and takin her home so it doesnt matter at all to me.

wondering if its a red flag though...
 
lol.

that was my sticking point for a LOOOOONG time. I'd get pissed cause I felt disrespected (was never a jealousy thing) and tried to talk logically to them and explain it.

That went over well.

Now I just enjoy it...or at least try to. It ain't easy for the ol ego, but once you understand that it's just what they do, it's no big deal
 
Oh, and it's only a red flag if she does it ALL THE TIME...AND if she gets pissed at you whjen you do it with other chicks.
 
hyper-insecurity - a constant need for affirmation that they are desirable.

you're on a date with them, so your chit is already in the plus column. now she needs to rack up more chits.
 
KillahBee said:
lol.

that was my sticking point for a LOOOOONG time. I'd get pissed cause I felt disrespected (was never a jealousy thing) and tried to talk logically to them and explain it.

That went over well.

Now I just enjoy it...or at least try to. It ain't easy for the ol ego, but once you understand that it's just what they do, it's no big deal
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yeah thats what I was thinking - I really could care less, unless I saw an ass grab or something..
 
UA_Iron said:
I'm secure as fuck.

Was hanging out with blondie last night, she's just got a flirty personality in general...I'm still the one making out with her and takin her home so it doesnt matter at all to me.

wondering if its a red flag though...
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You're worried about it. You said she has a flirty personality. IS she ignoring you to focus on other people? or is she flirty with them while you're standing there?

If it doesnt matter at all to you - then dont worry about it.

People in general are insecure when it comes to this kind of thing. It's normal when it's throwin in your face.

You could confront her and ask her about it. Or you could reserve judgment. Id vote for reserving judgment. If you bring attention to it, that may encourage it from her end. Ignore that behavior and you may find it ceases.
 
UA_Iron said:
yeah thats what I was thinking - I really could care less, unless I saw an ass grab or something..
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Don't get me wrong, the chances she is going to get dick elsewhere are much higher due to this activity, but it is certainly not the nail in the coffin.

Fuck it, let those guys stroke her ego while you have fun and take her home later that night
 
and yes, its a red flag. if she's doing this at the start of a "relationship" when everyones suppossed to be on their best behavior, and when there's still so much to explore yet about YOU, imagine what she'll be doing when the relationship is 1 year 2 years 3 years old.

its all about her. if you're looking for a longterm relationship RUN AWAY. If you want a fuckbuddy, an insecure chaos queen is the way to go so enjoy lol.
 
KillahBee said:
Oh, and it's only a red flag if she does it ALL THE TIME...AND if she gets pissed at you whjen you do it with other chicks.
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nah she wouldnt care if I was flirty with other chicks.

This guy she knew was graduating UofA and leaving Tucson pretty much forever so she talked a lot to him last night - but she'd come over and make out with me. Like I said, I wasnt too worried about it, I was talking to my old roommate who's in Florida now.

She was like 2" taller than me in her heels last night, it was hot.
 
UA_Iron said:
nah she wouldnt care if I was flirty with other chicks.

This guy she knew was graduating UofA and leaving Tucson pretty much forever so she talked a lot to him last night - but she'd come over and make out with me. Like I said, I wasnt too worried about it, I was talking to my old roommate who's in Florida now.

She was like 2" taller than me in her heels last night, it was hot.
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I started something with a girl recently who is probably 2 inches my junior without heels. I normally HATE tall girls, just aren't into em. This may be my first foray into the tall girl world. I wonder how it is to hit that shit....loong legs
 
KillahBee said:
I started something with a girl recently who is probably 2 inches my junior without heels. I normally HATE tall girls, just aren't into em. This may be my first foray into the tall girl world. I wonder how it is to hit that shit....loong legs
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other dudes were fucken jealous last night, I tell ya hwut. It was friday and empty out, sausage fest. They're not about to start anythign with me though.

laying down the height difference doesnt even matter - unless she's a foot taller than you.
 
She is trying to get you to commit to a relationship..

If you bring up the flirting she will immediatly go into a tirade about how she didn't know what was with you two and figured the field was open for play..

Only in an attempt to get you to say you want more.
 
JH1 said:
She is trying to get you to commit to a relationship..

If you bring up the flirting she will immediatly go into a tirade about how she didn't know what was with you two and figured the field was open for play..

Only in an attempt to get you to say you want more.
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oh I'm not gonna bring it up. We've been hanging out a lot.

She drives a new acura and makes 60+k/year.

She can be my suga momma.
 
KillahBee said:
I wonder how it is to hit that shit....loong legs
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one of my buddies (who used ot run a strip club) coined the perfect phrase for this

"theyre all the same height...when theyre on their backs :evil: "

hes a funny bastard, i have to say :lmao:

anyway to the original poster, it one fo a couple of things - it could be validation seeking behaviour secondary to some sort of insecurity, or it could be one of the modes by which she manipulates the men around her.

as for whether or not its a red flag, well, depends on what you like, and what yorue after - insecure girls are generally easier to dominate (if yorue into that, im not personally, i hate weak women), and as for the manipulative ones, well, it depends on their core personality - if theyre calculating, selfish bitches then its a black flag, but if theyre just regular, socially savvy girls making their way in the world, then in some ways i find that to be a positive personality trait

at the end of the day, imo, if you gotta worry about your girl, then she isnt your girl...so play her for what shes worth and thats that, since acting needy/insecure about her flirting is just going to blow you out anyway

cheerios
 
GoldenDelicious said:
one of my buddies (who used ot run a strip club) coined the perfect phrase for this

"theyre all the same height...when theyre on their backs :evil: "

hes a funny bastard, i have to say :lmao:

anyway to the original poster, it one fo a couple of things - it could be validation seeking behaviour secondary to some sort of insecurity, or it could be one of the modes by which she manipulates the men around her.

as for whether or not its a red flag, well, depends on what you like, and what yorue after - insecure girls are generally easier to dominate (if yorue into that, im not personally, i hate weak women), and as for the manipulative ones, well, it depends on their core personality - if theyre calculating, selfish bitches then its a black flag, but if theyre just regular, socially savvy girls making their way in the world, then in some ways i find that to be a positive personality trait

at the end of the day, imo, if you gotta worry about your girl, then she isnt your girl...so play her for what shes worth and thats that, since acting needy/insecure about her flirting is just going to blow you out anyway

cheerios
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4 words for you = The Cube is AMAZING
 
GoldenDelicious said:
one of my buddies (who used ot run a strip club) coined the perfect phrase for this

"theyre all the same height...when theyre on their backs :evil: "

hes a funny bastard, i have to say :lmao:

anyway to the original poster, it one fo a couple of things - it could be validation seeking behaviour secondary to some sort of insecurity, or it could be one of the modes by which she manipulates the men around her.

as for whether or not its a red flag, well, depends on what you like, and what yorue after - insecure girls are generally easier to dominate (if yorue into that, im not personally, i hate weak women), and as for the manipulative ones, well, it depends on their core personality - if theyre calculating, selfish bitches then its a black flag, but if theyre just regular, socially savvy girls making their way in the world, then in some ways i find that to be a positive personality trait

at the end of the day, imo, if you gotta worry about your girl, then she isnt your girl...so play her for what shes worth and thats that, since acting needy/insecure about her flirting is just going to blow you out anyway

cheerios
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I already have it planned out to have her go around a bar and get me as many free drinks as possible. We're gonna see how drunk I can get for free. haha.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
my runic palm reading aces your cube like paper does to rock

that being said, ive never tried the cube, will do tonight :evil:
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My friend, try it. Cause it's absolutely AMAZING the effect it has. wait til you're in C tho. that shit can be dangerous it's so good.

a nice tall blonde rated me 10 of 10 in my accuracy in reading her using the cube the other night, :qt:
 
KillahBee said:
My friend, try it. Cause it's absolutely AMAZING the effect it has. wait til you're in C tho. that shit can be dangerous it's so good.

a nice tall blonde rated me 10 of 10 in my accuracy in reading her using the cube the other night, :qt:
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whats this cube shit?
 
As some of you may no I am pretty flirty but only when single or just dating someone. Once it is serious I only flirt with my boo.
 
superqt4u2nv said:
As some of you may no I am pretty flirty but only when single or just dating someone. Once it is serious I only flirt with my boo.
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I think thats kind of it too right now, we're both just having fun.
 
I think I got this girl pretty much.

She was showing pics of me to her mom today...
 
UA_Iron said:
I think I got this girl pretty much.

She was showing pics of me to her mom today...
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Correction: She's got you.

You're looking at pics of momma with her?
 
JH1 said:
Correction: She's got you.

You're looking at pics of momma with her?
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she was showing me to her mom

"she says you look like a roid monkey"
 
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