Real swingers poll, no BS

[manny78]

Well for those who tried it. Did you like that experience ? How was it ? Did you have sex both couples in the same room or in a diff. one ? Did it affect your relationship ? Also any advices ? Would like to hear from you swingers, doesn't matter how many times you did it. Just tell us the good and the bad.

 

[needsize]

I'd love to hear this as well, how many have had the guts to try it or to admit that they did it?

 

[Barbg8]

I do

I go to a swing club about 5 or 6 times a year. Plus house parties and meeting guys on the internet.

For real!

 

[manny78]

Re: I do

I go to a swing club about 5 or 6 times a year. Plus house parties and meeting guys on the internet.

For real!

how old are you ? are you in couple ? how are the people at the swing club ?

 

[Barbg8]

I am 41. Look 30. We are a couple but I meet guys also on my own. There are 50-100 couples on a good Saturday night. People are nice but some nights are MUCH better than others.

 

[needsize]

I am 41. Look 30. We are a couple but I meet guys also on my own. There are 50-100 couples on a good Saturday night. People are nice but some nights are MUCH better than others.

That's really cool, my wife and I have discussed the idea somewhat but wondering how many actually are able to do it successfully.

 

[sheez_ripped]

We've done it...no regrets....lots of fun....

and hasn't screwed up our marriage....married 9 yrs almost....have a 6 yr old....

did a few MFM threesomes....what i like best...being "double-teamed".....have done the couple swap thing in same room....didn't like that...he's been with about 3 other gurls...but not his thing.... rather see me with another guy....and i've been with several gurls....very...very niiiiiccccceeeee! yum....

we go to a alternative club to dance....see...and be seen....but definitely not to pick up anyone....it's a young, hot crowd....with mostly bi-chick action....lots of x going around....

anyone we've been with has been with a relationship that evolved into more....for example....did a 3-some with one of his good friends who had a big crush on me....it was so HOT....

not something we do that often....but we know we can...and it keeps us on our toes relationship wise....knowing your partner is still hot and attractive...

you just have to be secure in your relationship....we absolutely know that we each are THE ONE for the other....and any of this type stuff is just fun....purely sex....no emotional ties....and we've not had any jealousy problems....but then neither of us have ever been that way....

and we know its not something we will always do...but now...while we still look good and have good bods....gotta enjoy life!

 

[manny78]

bump

 

[smokinghawk]

Done it three times. We are a "soft swing" couple--my wife has a partner while I abstain. But I am present during the whole thing. It's been wonderful--I'd do it again happily, but it's hard to find just the right kind of guy. Blonde, polite, clean, muscular, and classy but direct.

I don't mind, and even quite enjoy watching. We're both totally straight, so there's none of that weird dynamic or anything, but we've rented hot tub suites in Dallas for our meetings, and enjoyed them.

 

[needsize]

Glad to hear that there are some couples on here who are able to do this sucessfully