Tsk, tsk, tsk, don't get your bustle in a twist. I love it when people tell me I take things too seriously. Hello, I'm the out of the closet pagan
Anyway, this place is my entertainment, I don't take anything seriously around here, that's what the LOG OUT or IGNORE feature are for.
All I'm pointing out to you, as kindly as I know how, is that you should get to know folks before you start in with off color comments, particularly to people of the opposite gender. Bantering with someone you have some sort of a "relationship" with (however virtual it may be) is entirely different from making a remark that could potentially be taken offense at who has barely passed two words with you. Do you see what I'm trying to say?
And shame on us for hijacking the eminently flickable Swole's thread