questions for the male populace

[jaded_chick]

just curious:

at what age do you think it's "odd" for a female to still be a virgin?

what is the longest time you'd wait for a girl to "put out"?

 

[Lao Tzu]

26

 

[flexed1]

whatever that person is comfortable with. i respect those who wait for the right time and person. i was 18 and it was with my ex wife. should have waited.

 

[bunnymt]

just curious:

at what age do you think it's "odd" for a female to still be a virgin?

what is the longest time you'd wait for a girl to "put out"?

I am not a boy, but I understand them.
Virginity is something very personal; sex is personal.
IMO, as long as the woman is comfortable with herself, and her virginity, then there is nothing 'odd' about it.

Men will wait until you give in...lol. Women usually don't have to wait for a boy to "put out." LOL

 

[Baoh]

Odd? No age. The right time is the right time.

How long would I wait if I was being made to wait? Until marriage.

However, if she was not a virgin, and wanted to wait, I could theoretically become impatient. I like to wait, but if I care deeply enough, and so does she, it should not be a situation where either of us would deny the other.

 

[spongebob]

just curious:

at what age do you think it's "odd" for a female to still be a virgin?

what is the longest time you'd wait for a girl to "put out"?

tough call. on one hand i have much respect for females or males that do not succumb to peer pressures and are waiting for that special person.

but i also believe sex should be a great learning experience and should not be looked at as something taboo. you should do whatever it is you will enjoy as long as it is legal. and you shouldnt be ashamed of it either. society always has its predetermined concept of what our sexual experiences should be. a person should enjoy thierselves, to me thats what sex is for.

me, i'd wait for about a month. after that i really wouldnt want to invest to much more time into it until i knew how we matched up. its an important part of the relationship.

 

[supersizeme]

while i don't think there's anything wrong with a female being a certain age and still a virgin, there is definitely an age range where upon learning of someone's still-intact virginity, you do raise an eyebrow. for me it would probably start at around 20. if i met a 20 year old female and found out she was still a virgin, my reaction would most likely be, "wow, really?" most girls in this day and age have lost it by the time they are 16. the girls i have dated lost it anywhere from 14-17.

as far as waiting goes, i'm in my late 20s right now so i think the likelihood of dating someone who wants to wait 6 months to have sex is not all that likely. in the past few years, i think the longest i had waited was about a month...maybe a little bit longer. i had no problem at all with that. the girl was a nice catch, and i was glad she wasn't the type that hops in bed with me on the first or second date. sometimes it can be cool to wait a little while and build up some sexual tension. other times it's cool to get right down to it and commence fucking each other senseless with no delay.

 

[p0ink]

who cares?

 

[jaded_chick]

there is definitely an age range where upon learning of someone's still-intact virginity, you do raise an eyebrow.

would you continue to date her? if she were into her 20's and had never had sex?

 

[bunnymt]

who cares?

She does.