questions for the male populace

[supersizeme]

would you continue to date her? if she were into her 20's and had never had sex?

I would probably start berating her publically asking her if she takes baths in tubs filled with dry ice and if she considers holding hands with a boy "third base." I would ask her if when she gets her temperature taken, it reads "absolute zero" or "zero degrees Kelvin."
Seriously, I would have no problem dating a girl who is a virgin if there's some solid chemistry between us. If she's dead set on not having sex until marriage though, I don't think that would pan out too well. Sexual chemistry is a big thing in relationships for someone like myself with an uberlibido. I like to give and receive num nums on a regular basis. As long as she was an open minded virgin, it would most likely not be a problem.

 

[The Whole F/N Show]

Who's to say what's odd? With that said I'd say 24 would be a bit odd. Unless you are someone who's gonna save it until marriage (a dying breed) I'd guess half the population (at least in the US) have sex male or female by the time they graduate high school and the vast majority by the time they graduate college.

The longest I would wait is probably a month. Generally if we're clicking and not having sex by that time she probably has some issues I'd rather not deal with. Once I waited 2-3 months the chick turned out to be psycho.

 

[distanced]

I'm a virgin and hope to find a girl who is also. I'm 22

 

[Baoh]

I'm a virgin and hope to find a girl who is also. I'm 22

Good luck. You will need it.

 

[distanced]

actually no

I know lots of girls that feel the same way I do.

I'm sure if you anyone did some checking that they would find that marriages of two virgins last longer and the couples are happier and more satisfied.

 

[Baoh]

actually no

I know lots of girls that feel the same way I do.

I'm sure if you anyone did some checking that they would find that marriages of two virgins last longer and the couples are happier and more satisfied.

You don't understand what I mean. I mean good luck in finding an actual virgin, and not some girl who simply says she is. I know a girl who has literally fucked over a thousand guys who will tell you she's a virgin. I know plenty like her who have fucked not quite so many people, too.

In my ideal world, sex would not occur before marriage, and divorce would not exist. However, this world is not, and will never be, my ideal one.

 

[distanced]

you go to the wrong church then...........

 

[Baoh]

you go to the wrong church then...........

You are in for one rude awakening, man. I used to believe as you did.

You are going to throw up when it hits you, too. You're going to get hit even worse than I did, and I got hit badly.

 

[natedog]

I agree with those who have said 20 is where it starts to become "odd." By 30, it's downright wierd. Sexuality is part of being human.

The funniest thing to me, though, are the "virgins" who cling to the technical definition of virginity and will do everything but fuck. Masturbation, oral sex, and even sometimes anal sex are ok, but oh no, I draw the line at vaginal penetration!

As for waiting, a month is probably about the max. I've waited about that long with a couple girls, and the first time really was worth the wait, but I don't know if I could hold out much longer. As above, any woman who can wait longer than that either isn't really into me, or has more issues than I'm willing to deal with. I've tried in the past, but you just end up wanting to rid the earth of their entire family.

 

[distanced]

lol, ok