Question for the ladies.

[biteme]

Sorry if it offends. I have a friend that likes to watch his wife have sex with other men. It's a fetish. As a woman, would you enjoy this. Being able to have your cake and eat it too. He let's her pick the man of her choice and he gets off on watching her get pleasured.

 

[velvett]

That's fucked up.
Fetish or no fetish.


I'd divorce him - but that's just me.

 

[Bullit]

'input'

 

[biteme]

That's fucked up.
Fetish or no fetish.


I'd divorce him - but that's just me.

Thanks for the imput. I think it's pretty weird also. But it seems to work for them.

 

[pitbullstl]

Personally if I saw my wife fucking another dude.....that would be one dead dude........but I'm funny that way........

 

[biteme]

'input'

Thanks Mr. Editor. Can always count on you to correct typing errors and language misusage.

 

[alien amp pharm]

I don't think I could even nail someone else's wife with the guy sitting there watching the whole time.

 

[Bullit]

misusage.

I dont even think this is a word.

 

[biteme]

Reminds of an episode of "All in the Family" when Edith answered an ad in a magazine for swing partners. She thought it was dancing. When the couple came over, well to see how Archie reacted was funny as hell.

 

[Bullit]

It is in scrabble. Mr. editor, I challenge you to a game of Scrabble, since you are so smart.

I stand corrected. Ugly word though.




2 entries found for misusage.
mis·us·age ( P ) Pronunciation Key (ms-ysj, -zj)
n.
Abusive treatment.
Improper application, as of words.

 

[biteme]

I dont even think this is a word.

It is in scrabble. Mr. editor, I challenge you to a game of Scrabble, since you are so smart.

 

[nvrbuffenuff_girl]

That's fucked up.
Fetish or no fetish.


I'd divorce him - but that's just me.

I feel this exact same way!

 

[biteme]

I feel this exact same way!

Elaborate. Do you feel that it is disrespectful and that he must not cherish you if he is willing to share you with another man?

 

[nvrbuffenuff_girl]

Elaborate. Do you feel that it is disrespectful and that he must not cherish you if he is willing to share you with another man?

I would find it disturbing, disgusting and disrespectful if a man that I loved and loved me wanted to watch me with other men.

If this was his fetish I would certainly not be able to stay with someone with such views. It's just crazy!

I would not partake in such a fetish.

 

[velvett]

I would find it disturbing, disgusting and disrespectful if a man that I loved and loved me wanted to watch me with other men.

If this was his fetish I would certainly not be able to stay with someone with such views. It's just crazy!

I would not partake in such a fetish.

What Buff said.

 

[biteme]

I would find it disturbing, disgusting and disrespectful if a man that I loved and loved me wanted to watch me with other men.

If this was his fetish I would certainly not be able to stay with someone with such views. It's just crazy!

I would not partake in such a fetish.

Thank you maam. You will make a good wife.

 

[biteme]

What Buff said.

You too someday.

 

[ajtomasi]

i'd tie the husband up and gag him whilest me and my west side homies gang banged his wife and he jerked off.

 

[velvett]

You too someday.

"someday"

 

[vixenbabe]

Sounds like this dude has reached a new level in his laziness!

Or...He's taking notes so he knows how to do it right...Damn slow learner...He'd be history!

 

[zkm]

I've known someone who did shit like that, different strokes for different folks. Not my cup of tea Intimate moments (1 on 1)stay between me and my "future" wife.

 

[big4life]

I think that your friend is a weirdo. I almost feel sorry for the wife, but then, she stays with him and allows it.






Does he feel the same way about watching other guys driving his car?






What type of car does he drive?







Nah, even then I would feel like I needed a plastic seat cover or two.

 

[The Shadow]

lol@car analogy

 

[flexygrl]

One of my husbands fantasies is to be with 2 women at the same time. I was also interested in this and looked into making this happen. Well, all we found were couples who wanted to swap. My husband said, under no circumstances will he allow that. He doesn't want any man to touch what is his.

I don't think a threesome is a good idea anymore, not now anyway. I am way to jealous and I think it would hurt me a great deal to see him getting it on with a chick, even though I will be involved in the "action".

It'll probably forever stay a fantasy.

 

[nvrbuffenuff_girl]

One of my husbands fantasies is to be with 2 women at the same time. I was also interested in this and looked into making this happen. Well, all we found were couples who wanted to swap. My husband said, under no circumstances will he allow that. He doesn't want any man to touch what is his.

I don't think a threesome is a good idea anymore, not now anyway. I am way to jealous and I think it would hurt me a great deal to see him getting it on with a chick, even though I will be involved in the "action".

It'll probably forever stay a fantasy.

Good thing you realized this prior to engaging in the threesome.

Its not for everyone.

 

[lucidblue]

I would find it disturbing, disgusting and disrespectful if a man that I loved and loved me wanted to watch me with other men.

If this was his fetish I would certainly not be able to stay with someone with such views. It's just crazy!

I would not partake in such a fetish.

I totally agree!

 

[vinylgroover]

One of my husbands fantasies is to be with 2 women at the same time. I was also interested in this and looked into making this happen. Well, all we found were couples who wanted to swap. My husband said, under no circumstances will he allow that. He doesn't want any man to touch what is his.

That's hypocritical of him.

 

[Mandinka2]

That's hypocritical of him.

i dont really think so VG , because the situation is not entirely symmetrical - flexy doesnt WANT to fuck other guys , she would like to try girls and would like to include her husband in the mix , which i think is rather caring actually. Personally i wouldnt be too bothered if my girl wanted to be with other girls (even if I wasnt allowed to participate) as long as i trusted her and she gave me good reason to trust.

 

[vinylgroover]

i dont really think so VG , because the situation is not entirely symmetrical - flexy doesnt WANT to fuck other guys , she would like to try girls and would like to include her husband in the mix , which i think is rather caring actually. Personally i wouldnt be too bothered if my girl wanted to be with other girls (even if I wasnt allowed to participate) as long as i trusted her and she gave me good reason to trust.

well she didn't say she didn't want to fuck other guys, but irrespective of whether she did or didn't, i suspect from her post that her husband wouldn't give her the option anyway, which to me is hypocritical.

 

[Mandinka2]

True but she said that originally she wanted to make the fmf happen. She seems to have changed her mind on this tho and maybe it's all for the best (as has been my past experience).

 

[gonelifting]

The man may feel that he is pleasuring his wife more by having her sleep with other men. Sort of "doing her a favor"

He may also be fantasizing that HE is the man in their bedroom with his wife while his wife and the other guy are doing it. To cover up his shortcomings in the bedroom he visualizes himself as the other guy pleasuring his wife.

or
He may like to watch men having sex, wether it`s with his wife or not. His wife could just be a coverup.
or
She could be too sexual for him that he can`t handle her for long periods of time and frequency, thus loaning her out and getting pleasure out of it to boot.

That` all I have for today. Any more and I`m gonna have to start charging $$.lol jk

 

[trailseeker]

Nah, me and my hubby were swingers for a while. It was cool in the beginning, but it gets old quick. Now he just lets me go out with chicks once in a while since being with other women was why I wanted to swing in the first place. And it's cool, cuz he doesn't make me share.