Question for the guys.....

[b fold the truth]

I am not a freaky huge guy...but still...a lot of women do not like how big that I am. They do NOT come up and talk to me for one reason or another. If a woman does not like the way that I look, then I would not want her anyway.

Question: If a guy did not like the way that you looked...would you want to be with him? Then why bother worrying?

I am not a pretty guy at all. When I train and compete...I am dirty, smelly, bloody, and very intense. Heck, I train the same way. A "preppy" woman wouldn't like me either...they wouldn't understand me and my desire to push my body past where anyone thinks that it can go. If they do not understand and appreciate that desire inside of me...I can not understand or appreciate them either.

B True

 

[manny78]

Not attracted at all by the hardcore female BB. I guess their have their own reason to do this (even if I still dunno why). I think its about making a difference between a dude and a gal. The day both look similar means there's a problem....

 

[Debu]

NEW@, I think most men in general prefer that skinny-fat girl look, simply because it is what they are used to. Most mainstream men are not yet accustomed to the fit women of these days. I was always puzzled though, when meeting the girlfriends of guys I met in the gym...they were always the skinny-fat kind. My boyfriend definiately thinks you are a very attractive woman. He commented on how you have great muscularity as well as femininity. (you got it all! ) I remember a specific old pro BB that was TOTALLY fixated on you when I was trying to introduce myself to you at the Arnold...but I was patient since I saw that love struck look in his eyes! I guess it boils down to what is on the inside too. The most beautiful women whether skinnyfat or lean and mean is an ugly turnoff if she is a bitch.

My male friends have told me the same thing after I dieted down before. They told me you look better at this size instead of with more muscle. ????? Little do they know I have to practically kill myself to get down to be a smaller size. So screw them. If they don't like my big ass the way it is when I'm "healthy" then they can get the hell out, this is MY WORLD!

 

[bigpopfd2]

the only way to tell if you have ruined your physique is by posting a picture...

 

[ironbarbarian]

I remember seeing a picture of you when you went to the arnold. You stood besides Nasser and I thought you looked VERY sexy.

Those guys that say you look discusting are full of it. You have the type of body I dream a girlfriend on having. I would slap you all day long you sexy girl.

About cycling yes you can, BUT please, dont do it to the extent were you end up with a deep voice. Thats not attractive and a line must be drawned. I dont care how much you like bodybuilding you have to remember that we want to marry a femenine woman not a man. If you are getting big but still conserve your femenenity, you have nothing to feel ashamed of.

IB

 

[naturally anabolic]

Well, i have not seen you *feel free to email pictures to [email protected]* But my opinion on the subject is you can't please everyone with the way you look nor should you worry about trying to. There are extreme's to every person's perception of what is beautiful and what isn't...i think most men in general would agree that if you look like arnold with boobs, a deep voice and a beard then its too much....

In conclusion, don't worry about it hun, im sure you look beautiful

 

[Arkan]

Like manny78 said, post a pic

 

[NubianBeauty]

She has nothing to prove, so no pics... and STOP ASKING!!!!

 

[dudelift]

I think women with muscle and strength are sexy as hell . Most guys ARE intimidated by it and that's a shame . To me, it adds a sense of mystery not to mention all the sexual fun you could have with a very strong hard woman . Society has this thin and weak deal goin , what a shame there too . I haven't seen pics of you New, but im sure that you look dynamite girl . Stick with what you love and to hell with those weak dick weak minded assholes . ( sorry those were your friends ) didn't mean to bash them in particular, but just guys that think that way .

Thanks

 

[Sapphire]

I'm a woman but think as a general rule (at least in my circle of guy friends), men do not like skinny, bony women. Most of them have said that women should be soft and feminine but that some muscle is a plus. I DO believe there is an intimidation factor. However, it all boils down to preference.

For example, there is a girl at my gym who is certainly NOT super big by any means, but is solid muscule, flat as a board, and appears to have some masculine traits....from what I hear, the guys think she's totally IT! Which proves the point of preference. Some like muscle others like scrawny.....

I wouldn't worry about your male friends comments. Do what makes you happy because there are men out there who appreciate it.