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Question for my boys!

dude you have to get a girl's number first

you have to talk to a girl

then ask us

it's getting old.
 
flexygrl said:
After you get a girls #, how long do you wait to call?

Haven't you seen Swingers, orbette? You call on the 3rd day.
 
LOL

Is there really a rule? Do guys actually follow that formula?
 
LOL! Dial, I just saw part of swingers........

So, if he got my # at 10:00 on Tuesday night, when should I expect a call?

Jersey,


HI!!!! I'm gonna call you tomorrow while I'm at work! Talk to you soon!
 
He's not gonna call, but i'll call tomorrow.
 
No rule. Collecting digits is like collecting stamps or baseball cards. You collect a bunch, then some you use, some you don't.

...at least that what my single friends tell me. :verygood:
 
Funny story (a little funny) OK Just a story!

I met my wife on a Saturday night/morning. She said call her the next day, she gets off work/or gets home at 4:30PM. I called her at 5PM and the first thing she said to me was "You`re late." lol

The first time I dialed the # I got the "DOOOOODEEEEDOOOOOAAAAAARRRCCCKKSSSHHHHH, the number you have dialed..." I thought maybe she gave me the wrong number, but when I dialed it again it rang. whew! Then I got "You`re late" lol

Well, we`re married now.
 
oh shit! Me too. I thought you were the smart virgin boy. Sorry Fl.
 
If he only got your # (making you automatic first choice) then 2 days, if he got several then it depends where you fall and who he's seeing already. You call them in order of looks or scoring potential.
 
Not until I have a chance to search it out on 411.com or some other reverse phone # engines - to check on who I'm calling, where they live, nearest crematorium.....

Then about 5 days....
 
1-2 days.

Flexygrl, if you want to get married though, and don't mind relocated to Texas let me know. LoL Still no luck with finding a good girl, so I'm available.
 
mekannik said:
Not until I have a chance to search it out on 411.com or some other reverse phone # engines - to check on who I'm calling, where they live, nearest crematorium.....

Then about 5 days....
OMG...:lmao:
 
gonelifting said:
oh shit! Me too. I thought you were the smart virgin boy. Sorry Fl.


Bilestew?
 
BileStew said:
Go call someone from EF on the phone you ass-jacket.


If you show up for the NYC get together, I'm going to have you hanged in the coat check room to watch your little legs and arms thrash about futilely
 
2 days is what I wait to call


or at least that's what I would wait if I ever got a number.
 
JerseyArt said:
If you show up for the NYC get together, I'm going to have you hanged in the coat check room to watch your little legs and arms thrash about futilely

When is it? I'll make sure I'm schedule for root canal surgery that day.
 
Bilestew

You have teeth?
 
flexygrl you are like the female version of fxygel. You need to relax and gain some confidence. I'm sure there are book out there you can read.

You got out of a long-term relationship and now you're a little crazy. Don't jump into anything.
 
Lighten up Lumberg

She just asked a question. She didnt ask if you tyhought the guy was going to propose
 
Lumberg said:
You got out of a long-term relationship and now you're a little crazy. Don't jump into anything.

What are you talking about? Girls HAVE TO jump from one relationship to another. It's like a rule for them or something. They can just get out of a 4 year relationship and be out with another guy within hours.

Sluts.
 
Gymgurl said:
How about getting the guys phone number so you can just call him and that is that!!

It makes you look desperate.
 
gonelifting said:
...The first time I dialed the # I got the "DOOOOODEEEEDOOOOOAAAAAARRRCCCKKSSSHHHHH, the number you have dialed..." I thought maybe she gave me the wrong number, but when I dialed it again it rang. whew! Then I got "You`re late" lol

Well, we`re married now.

:lmao:

I can't believe you spelled out the DOOODEEEDOOOARRHHGHG noise.. lol!
 
alien amp pharm said:
What are you talking about? Girls HAVE TO jump from one relationship to another. It's like a rule for them or something. They can just get out of a 4 year relationship and be out with another guy within hours.

Sluts.

First of all, I'm not a slut. I'm just enjoying being single.........I have never been single before..........

Lumberg,

That was mean. I am not acting CRAZY. If I was I would be Iming you as much as you IM me.........so lay off. If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all..........

As far as my self confidence, that's none of your concern. I have a great resource at my hands with the EF guys. I don't have brothers or guy friends. If you have a problem with my threads, don't read them............
 
Seashell is the most photogenic woman on the planet.....that is all.
 
I wait a couple of days, if I don't call within a week then I just don't call anymore.

BTW
ladies, if I go on a "good" date with a chick, is her calling a week later considered a bad move?
 
SoreArms said:
I wait a couple of days, if I don't call within a week then I just don't call anymore.

BTW
ladies, if I go on a "good" date with a chick, is her calling a week later considered a bad move?
So you went on a date and she didn't call until a week later............


Doesn't sound good...........but maybe she was just really, really busy. Did she have a good excuse? Does she want to see you again?
 
no no no

I went out on a date, it was great, but I didn't call her until a week later, she sent me an e-mail the next day to tell me she had fun. From your response above, it doesn't sound like it was a good thing to do though. I don't have a good excuse for it either.
 
SoreArms said:
no no no

I went out on a date, it was great, but I didn't call her until a week later, she sent me an e-mail the next day to tell me she had fun. From your response above, it doesn't sound like it was a good thing to do though. I don't have a good excuse for it either.

Did you atleast reply to her email? No, that was NOT a good thing! What was your reason? Just forgot? I would still call her though. You never know.......
 
you had a good date. a week later and you hadent called her? im sure by now she has lost hope and probably shed a few tears. in like 3 years you should call her and apologize for being such a jerk and causing her pain.

or not. whatever
 
SoreArms said:
no no no

I went out on a date, it was great, but I didn't call her until a week later, she sent me an e-mail the next day to tell me she had fun. From your response above, it doesn't sound like it was a good thing to do though. I don't have a good excuse for it either.

That is a bit long. Wow, I will usually call a day or two after the date if I think she is worth taking on a second date.
 
BodyByFinaplix said:
That is a bit long. Wow, I will usually call a day or two after the date if I think she is worth taking on a second date.
she's definately worth a second date

I just notice that chicks stick around longer when I play the disinterested role.
 
flexygrl said:
First of all, I'm not a slut. I'm just enjoying being single.........I have never been single before..........

Yes, enjoy being single for a while. I hate it when girls just get out of a relationship and first thing they do is call some guy up or go meet a guy and try to start a relationship with him.

The girl is still not ready for it and is still carrying around emotional baggage from the previous relationship which is not fair to the current guy. We have feelings too. *cries*

Women who do this are slutty to me. I wasn't calling you a slut personally. There's nothing wrong with dating and hanging out after a relationship ends, just be fair to the other people involved.

Peace, I'm out.
 
flexygrl said:
Lumberg,

That was mean. I am not acting CRAZY. If I was I would be Iming you as much as you IM me.........so lay off. If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all..........

As far as my self confidence, that's none of your concern. I have a great resource at my hands with the EF guys. I don't have brothers or guy friends. If you have a problem with my threads, don't read them............

Hey ...just saying you seem to be agonizing a lot over your relationships with guys lately...it was meant as constructive criticism...I guess you're still a little sensitive...sorry :(
 
I call when I feel like it...

this is what a girl I am dating told me....
_______
Seriously, I really don't pay attention to the whole 'wait 3 days to call...' bs typically related to dating. To me, it's just another game that I hate playing. It should be, if you had a good time, and want to talk to that person or tell them you had a good time, you should be able to call them whenever you want. Anyway, don't ever feel like you are 'breaking the rules' or whatever because I really don't even pay attention to that. In fact, I thought it was actually very cool that you called and emailed.
___________
 
It's not really a matter of waiting; it's more like whenever I feel like calling her. Could be the next day, could be the next week.
 
If you're sweatin how many days he waits to call you, it says "I don't have any options".....translation: you ain't goin nowhere so he'll call when he feels like it.
 
Dial_tone said:
If you're sweatin how many days he waits to call you, it says "I don't have any options".....translation: you ain't goin nowhere so he'll call when he feels like it.

lol, you are something else..........i have MANY options...........I'm just curious. :)
 
Dial_tone said:
If you're sweatin how many days he waits to call you, it says "I don't have any options".....translation: you ain't goin nowhere so he'll call when he feels like it.

Yeah but he doesn't know that. I remember I had a girl's number once and I just assumed I was her main or only lead, cos she was my main lead. I was real casual about contacting her, and it turned out that in between me getting her contact info and her going out with me she had already been seeing some other dude. It didn't work out.

So it can go both ways.
 
Lestat said:
I call when I feel like it...

this is what a girl I am dating told me....
_______
Seriously, I really don't pay attention to the whole 'wait 3 days to call...' bs typically related to dating. To me, it's just another game that I hate playing. It should be, if you had a good time, and want to talk to that person or tell them you had a good time, you should be able to call them whenever you want. Anyway, don't ever feel like you are 'breaking the rules' or whatever because I really don't even pay attention to that. In fact, I thought it was actually very cool that you called and emailed.
___________

good advice.. i hate playing games. if you want to call- do it. don't wait. if she liked you, she'll be happy you called and if she has a lot of other stuff going on and is annoyed... she wasn't going to workout anyway most likely.
 
becoming's avatar said:
good advice.. i hate playing games. if you want to call- do it. don't wait. if she liked you, she'll be happy you called and if she has a lot of other stuff going on and is annoyed... she wasn't going to workout anyway most likely.


I'll call tonight then. :)
 
BTW, he called!!! LOL! It only took him 3 weeks. When he finally called, a few days ago, I didn't even remember who he was..............not sure if I want to give him the time of day now though..................
 
flexygrl said:
BTW, he called!!! LOL! It only took him 3 weeks. When he finally called, a few days ago, I didn't even remember who he was..............not sure if I want to give him the time of day now though..................
LOL@ 3weeks
 
all depends on how much you like the person and the connection you have with them. i've called the next day, and i've waited as much as 5 days.

you're cute, so i'd call you pretty quick Flexy!
 
Said this before I refuse to play stupid games and rules. I will call when its convenient for me to arrange a date with her. I can see how the same night would be lame. But I wouldnt want that anyway
 
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