Question for MENSA members and other rockets scientists on the board

[2 ton hoss]

BIKINIMOM I AM UNFAMILIAR WITH YOUR STORY. WHAT EXACTLY HAPPENED. I TAKE IT THIS IS A DIVORCE.

2 TON HOSS

 

[Kahn]

It sounds as though I am with party A. I am fair and reasonable most of the time, till you do me wrong. I learned in my divorce that you come out of the gates as hard or harder than the bad guy, you can always back off. My second wife had a thorough PIECE OF SHIT for a first husband that lived off her and fucked her and his own kids in the divorce. Reasonable people look bad in court because htye show with morals and don't lie and cheat. Court is all about presentation of lieing and cheating in the most believeble maner. FUCK THE WHOLE SYSTEM. Friend of the court in a whole other issue. Unchecked and unworthy.

 

[Bikini Mod]

BIKINIMOM I AM UNFAMILIAR WITH YOUR STORY. WHAT EXACTLY HAPPENED. I TAKE IT THIS IS A DIVORCE.

2 TON HOSS

Not my story... just puttin' out some hypotheticals.

Presenting some facts and just trying to get different takes on this situation.

Kahn - I feel you to some degree. YOU ALWAYS gamble when going to court. It isn't always fair... I mean for God's sake, OJ GOT OFF!

But personally, I firmly believe in Karma and the laws of the universe - whatever energy you send out will return to you three-fold. Lying, cheating and purposely trying to fuck somebody from the getco will come back to you FAR WORSE than what you tried to do. For example, the lying, cheating party MAY not have to give up a "fair" amount of money to the other, but the children will see this in the long run and DESPISE THAT PERSON for trying to FUCK THEIR PARENT.... Sad, but true. No court or judge can predict the future. In the end we will only have our children to answer to and thier judgment will be FAR WORSE than what any court or legal document will EVER BE.

 

[Kahn]

Kahn - I feel you to some degree, I firmly believe in Karma and the laws of the universe -

In the end we will only have our children to answer to and thier judgment will be FAR WORSE than what any court or legal document will EVER BE.

Karma is accepted by nice people. I am too vengeful to accept a mild inconvienience as Karma. Karma never adds up to the wrong done to me(in my eyes, anyway). As for the kids, I'm not so sure. I am doing a far better job raising them than he ever could so they will be a lot more congenial to him when the time comes. Sometimes I wonder if I'm making them a better person than they should be. Payback doesn't have to be a bad thing or harsh. Payback should be a learning experience or a teaching tool. It CAN help

 

[Bikini Mod]

Karma is accepted by nice people. I am too vengeful to accept a mild inconvienience as Karma. Karma never adds up to the wrong done to me(in my eyes, anyway). As for the kids, I'm not so sure. I am doing a far better job raising them than he ever could so they will be a lot more congenial to him when the time comes. Sometimes I wonder if I'm making them a better person than they should be. Payback doesn't have to be a bad thing or harsh. Payback should be a learning experience or a teaching tool. It CAN help

I am not talking about "elite karma" hehehehe It is a FACT: if you send out negative energy you will undoubtedly attract negative people and when life gives you lemons you will not be able to make lemonade, but will have papercuts that are now burning because of the acid that is dripping on them....

You are raising another man's child to be MUCH BETTER PERSON. Think about that. This MUST mean that you are spending a fair amount of time with that child. Don't you think that this says A LOT about you? Don't you think that this child KNOWS WHAT IS GOING ON and that when the time comes he/she will with either actions (not wanting to see or be with him) or words let thier biological father know just how far short of the mark they fell? THAT IS KARMA.

You are happily married to his exwife. HE BLEW IT and is STILL probably a miserable individual and unless he changes WILL BE even more so as the years progress and his child will want nothing to do with him except maybe to hit him up for some money - you are HAPPY and that child will love you perhaps MORE than a child that you sired as you did NOT HAVE TO HELP him/her grow into a fine individual. THAT IS KARMA.

Love can never be a bad thing and as more people come into a changing/growing family it is never divided but only multiplied.

THAT IS KARMA.

 

[MrMuscle]

i see only one solution to this problem.

whipped cream and strawberries

 

[Juice Moose]

All problems can be solved with a proper application of high explosives.

 

[Intenceman]

Both parties, for the logical reason that lawyers fleece everyone........

 

[NocturnalEngine]

bubblebutt is a freaking moron.