question for frackal

[Lao Tzu]

aight, keep in mind that i am in no way trying to be offensive by saying this.


You are upset that women are superficial, right? i don't blame you. However, your life revolves around worship of the human body. Isn't that a contradiction? you have a nice personality, but to a stranger who wouldn't know you you'd come across as deeply superficial.


I do the same thing (hold the opposite sex to a higher standard), i don't know if its a sexual thing or what. Like when i watch seinfeld, i would be bugged when Elaine did shit, but wouldn't care if a man did the same thing. Maybe people expect better from the opposite sex or something.

 

[Frackal]

I am pretty superficial and I admit it tends to get worse as you advance in bodybuilding....your critique for inadequacies becomes sharper which further limits your scope of potential mates .... in my case when I focus on something I become extremely perfectionistic about it...meaning unless I am looking my best or close to it, I wont even bother to consider hitting on a girl, which compounded with that I still havent gotten around a large peer group explains why its been about 7 weeks since I last make out with a chick and about 8 since I last had sex. My last problem is that I think I'm just plain not real social, smalltalk makes me tired and so I dont do well in meeting people...

Now after that pointless diatribe, onto your comment, yes I believe women are superficial in a sicker way than a man is....

See physical attraction is generally what men are 'superficial' about ... however physical attraction is a core component of any successful relationship, and it doesnt have to be the classic big breasted blond either, some men are physicaly attracted to fat chicks...but regardless, that must be present in order for the relationship to work....one reason being sex is an integral part of any relationship and is of course a physically based activity.

However women are superficial in their desire for a man to have MONEY and POWER...these are unnecessary factors for a relationship to work, unlike the physical attraction which women want just as much as men...see a man only needs a woman to have a good heart and to be goodlooking to be happy, virtually no man is going to care if shes rich or poor, the relationship could work whether they are on a desert island, a shack or a mansion...because the basic components are there...

However in many a woman's case, she must have that MONEY ...that CASH and that PRESTIGE so she can spend all day like some disgusting cat pampering herself, shopping, floating through life in a eyes-up-and-to-the-left cloud that focuses solely on herself. Even if physical attraction is there, and emotional/mental attraction is there, you can be damned sure many, many women will leave their mates in a second should they fall into financial hardship.

I find that the ultimate in superficiality.

 

[Lao Tzu]

where do you meet these women? most women i know aren't that superficial. Perhaps its just here in indiana, wtf is there to be superficial about in indiana?

Anywho, i noticed that you don't like small talk either. nor do i. how do you get beyond this when you try to talk to women. The idea of bullshitting for 20 minutes doesn't seem appealing to me, but if i must do it, then i must.