yeah
I think alot of chicks dig big muscular guys. I agree most don't like the look of current pros, but the size of yesterdays(60's, 70's) pros is admired.
Now that I "blew up" it seems women are always coming up and feeling on my arms. Not that I was that small before, but now its crazy. Arms are now 19.5(wrist are barely 7inches, I guess small joints make them look bigger) and I thought they would be to big for most women, but that is not the case. I also think they dig the fact that I'm tall to.
Ask yourself this, unless you live in a hot weather area(LA or Miami), how much competition do you have? How many really big muscular guys do you see walking the streets in your area? I dont see that many(even in the gym). I see some people that you can tell workout but they are not near my size. Women notice that to. So big muscular guys are rare, hell some might have only seen someone your size on TV wrestling or some shit.
The ab thing is cool, but I found just having a flat stomach(slightly visible abs or so) with a big powerful chest, shoulders,arms and back will get you more attention than the skinny ab model on the street. Its some primal shit. Makes men move out the way and women want to touch.
Ever notice when your around dudes might be talking amounst themselves and all of a sudden say " I need to start lifting again". LOL I just act like I don't even hear them.