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problems with a friend

wyld1g

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I have been friends with this guy for 10 years. He was a great friend until recently. He started a business and he started making some money. He asked me to help build his house with him so I did. During this time he made all kinds of promises of this or that for me helping him. All of the sudden he says he doesn't need me anymore and denies saying anything about hookin me up for helping him. I worked my ass off for at least eight months. Well over forty hours and alot of weekends. This guy stated abusing his wife, lieing like crazy, shitting on his friends and family. He is making gobs of money! I feel like getting even somehow now.. What to do? Am I wrong? this guy is a major asshole now! comments would be nice.
 
Every time I try to talk to the guy, the conversation gets extremely heated and I want to rip his head off.
 
I learned many years ago that the most unpredictable things on this planet are people. Chaulk it up as a bad experience and move on. Perhaps some day he will realize his folly and repay you in some way, but don't count on it. You are not wrong! He is a selfish chit. What goes around comes around. He will pay in some way, he probably already lost you as a good friend, and they are hard to come by.
Zilla
 
It suck because I don't make too many friends. My wife could tell it really bothers me. I worry about his wife because she is real timid. I guess I have to get used to the feeling of getting fucked. thanks for the comments!
 
kill his children, rape his wife, and then burn down his house. it all seems so clear and simple about what needs to be done doesn't it?
 
get in good with his wife. next time he hits her, have her call you and then you call the cops. you could sue him since you did have an oral contract.
 
You could resort to petty shit, it would probably be pretty satisfying. Or you could rise above that and just hope he will realize what hes done and let it eat away at him.
Or.....Board up his doors and windows while he sleeps and torch his house. You might even get away with it.
 
He's on his own downward spiral. He will not need you to bring him down. Don't go for vengence or revenge or any of that. He's not worth it. If you can't talk to him about it, then don't try. However, try to talk to the wife if she won't stop the abuse herself.
 
Oral contracts are hard to prove. Some people just let power corrupt themselves. Maybe he was always like that and just hasn´t shown it until recently?
 
Hes not wealthy but, he started making about 300K a year. So maybe he can't handle it, I don't know. That doesn't excuse the way he treats his family or his friend.
 
wyld1g said:
Hes not wealthy but, he started making about 300K a year. So maybe he can't handle it, I don't know. That doesn't excuse the way he treats his family or his friend.
A guy married my cousin whos like that started making lots of money he started out as a cool guy to hang around with now due to his snotty attitude i can't stand him...and yep hes starting to crumble also already lost his entire work force its just him & his wife now and things aren't looking so rosy!......so just let your so called friend be ,his day will come but seriously i would have a talk with his wife about that abuse factor-thats not right!


RADAR
 
WHAT TYPE OF BUSINESS DID HE START ALL OF A SUDDEN TO MAKE 300K/YR.




KAYNE
 
Sorry, but he must not have been much of a friend. A friend doesn't use their friends like it sounds like he used you.
 
Money often brings out the worst in people.

His ethics will cause his business to suffer. People who screw others over in the name of business usually think it is necessary in the cold hard world. What they don't realise is that their selfish pursuit of their own interests at the expense of others usually causes more problems than it solves.

He is his own punishment.
 
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