Problem with AS and the wife.

[the_jarhead]

I have been contemplating doing a cycle for a while now. I’ve done a lot of research although I still need to do more. And I even went as far as planning a cycle that I would like. But my wife is totally against them.

Now here is the thing. She is getting implants. My plan is to use that to my advantage. IF she can spend 5 grand and go thru major surgery putting her life in someone else’s hands just get bigger boobs. Then I should be able to spend a fraction of that on something I researched and studied to get a better all around body.

What do you guys think?

 

[THeMaCHinE]

I think that you are doing the right thing in reaching an agreement with your wife before going ahead. I would compare the AS to cosmetic surgery -- both are being used to change appearance.

Also, you will need to educate her that used correctly, AS can be health-increasing drugs -- they're not the same as rec drugs.

Mostly, you just need to dig up some well-thought-out pro-steroid articles that address health concerns and give them to her and tell her that it's important to you that she read them. That for the same reasons she got her implants, you want to increase your appearance...

 

[alien amp pharm]

Machine has some good advice.

You did good in telling her before hand. Why is she against them anyways? Safety concerns, aggression, illegal, etc.?

 

[Zyglamail]

Im on your side since physical augmentation is the goal for both you and her. SHe likely still wont see your point and the only thing she has to her advantage is that her choice is under medical supervision. If thats the case then ask her if you do AAS under medical supervision if she would be more inclined to let you proceed.

 

[the_jarhead]

Why is she against them anyways? Safety concerns, aggression, illegal, etc.?

Yes, Yes, and Yes.

She like most people only here the down side of AS. Most people don't realize that the majority of the AS horror stories are about people who A) abused them and B) were uneducated about them in the first place.
I've talked to her and know that she knows I know what I'm talking about she a bit more open to the idea but she believes that they are bad for you.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Then def. educate her on the pros and cons and the TRUTH of steroids. Heck, let her read some good honest info on this site. Maybe she'll come around.

If she does go along with it, you must continue to show her that you are responsible and can handle them. (ie controlling aggression, getting tested regularly, etc.)

Good luck.

 

[Bozzman]

I was in the same position as you a while back, only difference was she was a girlfriend. The thing you don't want to do is say your getting them so I'm doing these. When you present it to her you have to be like " baby sit down " . "Those are some fine looking breasts". "They make you feel better about yourself" .....
She's getting implants because of the same reason 90% of the other chicks do, she wants to not only look good but feel good about herself. The other 10% need them to be anybody in the porn industry. You want to do AS because of the same reason (not the porn shit, get your mind out of the gutter).

Do your research and present it to her that way. AS have a bad rap because people picture you running around the gym with needles sticking out of you ass bending dumbells. If you show her you have a plan she'll probably tell you to go for it. That and if you tell her the Test will give you a boner for 8 hours won't hurt.

Good luck!!!!

 

[alien amp pharm]

AS have a bad rap because people picture you running around the gym with needles sticking out of you ass bending dumbells.

ROFLMAO!

 

[gilly6993]

My GF is getting implants which are costing $7500 so she wouldn't dare say a word when I told her my contest cycle will cost over $4000....she actually enjoys giving me my injections each morning.....

 

[JKD]

always be honest with her. Don't try to hide it from her. If she gives you any grief argue the implants. Both are for vanity and unessary. Your wife will probably be just as happy with your body(after cycle) as you will be with her implants. Its a win win situation.

My wife was totally against me doing a cycle. She was sure about how safe they are. Now she loves my body - and she would probably put up the money for my next cycle if I asked her for it.

 

[DKH]

When I talked to my wife about AS before, she swore she'd leave me. I met my wife before I was hardcore into diet/training.. etc. So, I told myself I'd remain "Average" the rest of my life before I'd lose her over something like AS. Well, the more magazines I picked up, the more I wanted to look like the dude on the cover. I tried educating my wife on the benefits, and one major thing I told her was ANYTHING can be harmful if abused... but when AS are used in moderation, under proper instruction, they can be very healthy. I found out about a "Case study" being done at a local hospital here involving AS. I signed up, and took my wife to the appointment.. after hearing all the facts from a doctor.. she was convinced. She even mentioned wanting to help me with my next shot... this morning she went and dropped off my GH prescription.

 

[bbkingpin]

You should change your stance on the boob job and say that it is too risky just for her to look better (and FEEL better as a result). She might then see things your way. Otherwise, her stance is hypocritical.

 

[machaveli]

You should change your stance on the boob job and say that it is too risky just for her to look better (and FEEL better as a result). She might then see things your way. Otherwise, her stance is hypocritical.

agreed......my girlfriend wants boobs but shes pissed that i want muscles. hypocritcal. after discussion, well after telling her i dont care, im gonna do it anyways, she dont bother to much about it.

 

[goheavygo]

I suggest you lie to her. After you gain 20 pounds of lean muscle and you don't have any roid rage episoids then tell her. Most people that have no involvment with juice think you are going to take 1 injection and rip someones head off. Once she realizes roid rage is a myth she will be giving you injections. Good luck.

 

[siceone]

how in gods name did you find that case study any tips that would be a dream come tru

 

[ohioguy]

I'm going thru the exact same thing only I don't want my wife to get the implants (Cost reasons) and she is throwing the fact that I want to do a cycle in my face every time the subject is brought up. I mean how do you compair $200-$400 verses $4000-$6000. She uses the "you want to do AS to look good. I want boobs to look good too." argument. She makes a good point, but damn those boob are expensive. How can I get her to let me do a cycle without going bankrupt.

 

[the_jarhead]

Thanks for all the opinions guys.

Ohioguy
There may be know help. Once my wife got it in her head that she wanted them there was no stoping her. She even started clipping cupons save money. Not that I was never really against them.