Porn and guys

[Jade19]

OK....so i was wondering what is the obsession with porn and men? How many of your SO look at it constantly? It just started to bother me recently... but it never did b4 and my bf looks at it less now then b4. I thinks it okay and normal for him, but i think its okay and normal for myself to feel a little wierd sometimes. Whats your opinions?

 

[lil'tangerine]

It is normal for you to feel this way about him looking at porn. As long as it's not some kinda nasty shit or something....I posted a similar thread to this a while back, cuz I was having a hard time with this topic as well.

The others will be along soon to give you their opinions I'm sure. It's nice to have a place that is very supportive to be able to discuss these kind of things!

 

[*MissFit*]

I don't mind porn. And I don't get offended by it.. it can be fun

 

[Sassy69]

Men think about sex every 6 seconds. Watching porn just means they don't have to strain their brains as much as if they had to come up with the images themselves.

 

[starfish]

Men think about sex every 6 seconds. Watching porn just means they don't have to strain their brains as much as if they had to come up with the images themselves.

LMAO!!!!

 

[jenscats5]

Men think about sex every 6 seconds. Watching porn just means they don't have to strain their brains as much as if they had to come up with the images themselves.

LOL!!!

My husband looks at it on TV often..... I don't care much for it myself -- most of the "actors" used are ugly -- men & women -- so I don't see the attraction to watch gross people "do it."

One woman who is an adult star mentioned that her family doesn't understand why she does what she does. She said it was acting like in any other movie, but more physical. She "pretends" to enjoy it, makes noise, etc....The guy is the one who has to keep it up & going....

 

[velvett]

Men think about sex every 6 seconds. Watching porn just means they don't have to strain their brains as much as if they had to come up with the images themselves.

HAHHAHAA

Notable Quatable!


Porn doesn't really bother me - but it depends on the man.
If he's doing it in secret and is obsessed with it - that's just plain wierd so are some of the sicko fetishes.

Occasionally the beau will find a link on line and he'll be like "check this out" which for me is normal behavior. Same thing with some of the HBO sex shows they have one every once and a while we'll watch it together and we'll both be like "OMG, check that out".

 

[mshad]

I just try to put myself in their shoes (the reasonable ones) Right before my period I get so worked up all the time and just can't get enough! I just tell myself that they are like this ALL the time and it makes me feel a little better. Understandably there are some that take it too far but some of us ladies are not quite as into it as they are. But they also have to be kind and try to put themselves in our shoes too. Yah right I forgot that is just a bit much to ask

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

Like I said in Ender's thread on C&C, I don't mind it with certain conditions. My biggest issue is trying to hide it from me. That pisses me off. If you're going to spend that much time jerking off to the damn computer then you might as well be honest about it. I'm smack dab in the middle of a serious dilema right now due to this situation. I've never given a shit about porn, but with the "side effects" brought on by a cycle I'm more then a little pissed about it currently.

Which brings me to this.....nevermind....I'll post it in a new thread.

 

[Sassy69]

Here's my observations about porn:

- lame plots
- the repetoire gets pretty repetitive or else just gets weird
- the guys never look very appetizing & they're usually hairy as shit (gay porn does nothing for me but the guys are always so much more attractive...)

All in all, after about 5 minutes I"m ready to switch over to C-SPAN.

 

[Sweet_Bitch]

THis thread has now been turned into a contest on C&C....

 

[L_Seven]

whatever--
it is ther to make money--
accept it is in my best interest...

 

[Puddles]

Porn is just a visual aid to help guys get off easier. They do not care about the plot or acting at all. If you're a woman and you've done a cycle of test you can understand how they feel, they have much stronger urges than women do (for the most part) and then add in if they are on cycle, it can be insane.

Guys jerk off. Guys watch porn. That's all there is to it. They don't really lust the women in the movies, it's just a visual aid as men are more visually stimulated than women are.

Many of them feel guilty or embarrassed about it so they try to hide it. Sometimes it's just their personal space...which everyone is entitled to. Try not to let it get to ya. His watching porn has nothing to do with your relationship.

 

[dirty~d~]

I don't mind as long as my SO (when I have one) enjoys looking at it WITH me. When he starts to go behind my back to get his peep on is when I tend to get a little upset.

 

[BUBBLES]

I don't mind if my guy watched porn, its visual stimulation for both of us, as long as it does not involve animals...yuck!

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Porn is just a visual aid to help guys get off easier. They do not care about the plot or acting at all. If you're a woman and you've done a cycle of test you can understand how they feel, they have much stronger urges than women do (for the most part) and then add in if they are on cycle, it can be insane.

Guys jerk off. Guys watch porn. That's all there is to it. They don't really lust the women in the movies, it's just a visual aid as men are more visually stimulated than women are.

Many of them feel guilty or embarrassed about it so they try to hide it. Sometimes it's just their personal space...which everyone is entitled to. Try not to let it get to ya. His watching porn has nothing to do with your relationship.

Word...

I don't care where he gets his motor started as long as he parks his car in my garage.

 

[BUBBLES]

Word...

I don't care where he gets his motor started as long as he parks his car in my garage.

haha good one ...

 

[Lady Viking]

Word...

I don't care where he gets his motor started as long as he parks his car in my garage.

what she said

 

[Raina]

I don't mind it...at least not in moderation. If he was watching porn 24-7 every time I got home from school or something, that would probably get old. But until he runs off and nails a porn star, I'm not concerned.

 

[Dakotah]

Men think about sex every 6 seconds. Watching porn just means they don't have to strain their brains as much as if they had to come up with the images themselves.

I love what you said and made it a quote in my sig. hope thats ok.

 

[Sassy69]

LMAO! Of course! It just hit me as funny when I started reading this thread!

 

[courtneybcca]

My boyfriend has more porn that I could count. I recently tried to make a cd on his computer. He had a box of about 200 cd's I looked through about 75 unmarked cd's and there was not one that was empty. Everyone had porn on it. I asked him why he didn't at least label it because how in the heck would he know which is what. He said he never looks at it again. So I asked why would you record it then and waste a cd. His response was "I can." What does that mean.... I am not bothered by porn at all I think this is normal for a guy. And I think sometimes it is funny to watch. I think most girls would agree. But my boyfriend went home for the holidays and I have not seen him for over 10 days. He has choosen to watch porn and beat off instead of having sex with me. So I am now starting to think this is a problem. Time to start looking around.....

 

[jenscats5]

Speaking of porn, I was watching Sexcetera on Playboy. It's an interesting show -- they check out sexual events, clubs, etc thru the country......

Well tonite they had a spot about Women bodybuilders & their sex mag.....the women were fit & muscular & in all sorts of poses.... I can't remember the name now, but they do have a website...... The women were gorgeous!! Nice to see some fit naked girls for a change instead of skinny-coke-head looking ones....

 

[SparkyGirl]

I am having a issue with my husband about porn. Bothers me a lot if he is wacthing alone and hiding from me. We had many fights about it and now he still does but he deletes all the history on his PC. I do feel hurt, I wish i wouldn't feel this way, but I do. I have many of pictures of me on his PC, and I feel hurt because seems that is not enough for him. I know this may sound silly, but I can't help feel this way. Today he was in porn sites awhile I was out for a class. We didn't fight about it this time, but I am feeling really hurt, I just wish that was a way I would accept and not get hurt

 

[Gymgurl]

My husband looks at it and it dosen't bother me at all. But it is not a constant thing with him. We will watch it together to get things heated up sometimes but to often. I think a couple can use it as a visual/aid but sounds like a few of you might have some addicts.

 

[*MissFit*]

I don't mind porn.. i think looking at it together is even more of a turn on.

 

[Dakotah]

i used to get really bothered by it when dev. watched it but lately i could care less. He apparently hasnt looked at it in so long it just doesnt bug me anymore - maybe cause i trust him with all my heart or else i just know he loves me and its just a movie or picture whatever. Its not like he is having sex with them.

 

[Jade19]

I am having a issue with my husband about porn. Bothers me a lot if he is wacthing alone and hiding from me. We had many fights about it and now he still does but he deletes all the history on his PC. I do feel hurt, I wish i wouldn't feel this way, but I do. I have many of pictures of me on his PC, and I feel hurt because seems that is not enough for him. I know this may sound silly, but I can't help feel this way. Today he was in porn sites awhile I was out for a class. We didn't fight about it this time, but I am feeling really hurt, I just wish that was a way I would accept and not get hurt

I have caught some wierd porn shit on my PC. Which sometimes he deletes. After confronting him..... he was trying to give me an explanation which i still dont understand. (chicks with dicks type shit, WTF?! said some guy from the message boards got him to look at it, he was curious and found it wierd....) I kinda think your opinion on porn depends on how it was introduced to your relationship. Honesty, Mutual interest in it, or found out thru comp history etc.
What would your reactions be to that girls? I'm so lost I try not to think about it much........whoaaaaaaaaaa

By the way Sparky your not being silly. I understand the feeling of being hurt by this. Don't know if it's jealousy, insecurity or ?? But I wish I could be more comfortable......guess i should have a porn movie marathon one day maybe I'll be more comfortable then