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Poll for the women:

How long should you wait before you have sex with someone you're dating?

  • 1st date

    Votes: 4 22.2%
  • 3rd date

    Votes: 7 38.9%
  • at least a month

    Votes: 4 22.2%
  • 3 months

    Votes: 2 11.1%
  • engagement

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • marriage

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    18
i think its a good question actually

im betting most dont wait too long. maybe they are worried the guy will lose interest,who knows, but sex is pretty easy to get if you want it.

I however dont mind waiting,if the girl is worth being with you dont need sex right off
 
I make them wait at least a month. I like to get to know someone better before I decide to sleep with them or not. If they don't want to wait. Then I will dump their ass, because that means that they don't respect me at all. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Some man will respect me enough and my wishes to wait. Good things come to those who wait.
 
Angel said:
i say about a month. Maybe longer if it were a complete stranger.

My wife made me wait 6 weeks (her story). . .seemed like 6 friggin years to me. . .looking back, I really got to know her real well first which was pretty cool. However, at the time I think I remember being pretty miserable (to everyone but her :) ).
 
Im a grown woman so if I decide to sleep with someone on the "first date" (first date could mean a lot of things especially if you already knew the person before said date) it should not be a big deal IMO. I make decisions, I act, and I deal with the consequences, if any, of my actions. We all make mistakes. Who is to say when the exact right time would be? It's basically up to the two parties involved. That's about it. You cant make a hard and fast rule about it. I dated one guy for a year and a half, never had sex. Dated another guy for approx 3 weeks, then had sex. Met my husband on the internet, got to know him online, telephone, etc for a good 6 months before we met in person, had sex on the first night. No biggie.
 
3rd date to one month.

Of course it's all relative to how "often" you date.

I don't care what ANY guy says - you fuck him on the first date he'll think you fucked every other "first date".

you say otherwise - I say you're full of shit.
 
depends if we go to burger king or mcdonalds:)
 
velvett said:
3rd date to one month.

Of course it's all relative to how "often" you date.

I don't care what ANY guy says - you fuck him on the first date he'll think you fucked every other "first date".


you say otherwise - I say you're full of shit.


Definitely true which is why I'm still a...
 
jack_schitt said:
Then that must mean that carryout at Applebee's would be an all nighter...interesting...I will experiment with this.

The girl at our local Applebee's is super hot....I might have to get fatter this Summer
 
gotmilk said:
The girl at our local Applebee's is super hot....I might have to get fatter this Summer

Got a TGI Fridays near you? Lots of hotties every time I hit one up. This could also be part of the experiment...this is giving me ideas...
 
jack_schitt said:
Got a TGI Fridays near you? Lots of hotties every time I hit one up. This could also be part of the experiment...this is giving me ideas...

Yeah..the kind with a TGIF bar on the side....and that's a good observation.
 
Smurfy said:
Im a grown woman so if I decide to sleep with someone on the "first date" (first date could mean a lot of things especially if you already knew the person before said date) it should not be a big deal IMO. I make decisions, I act, and I deal with the consequences, if any, of my actions. We all make mistakes. Who is to say when the exact right time would be? It's basically up to the two parties involved. That's about it. You cant make a hard and fast rule about it. I dated one guy for a year and a half, never had sex. Dated another guy for approx 3 weeks, then had sex. Met my husband on the internet, got to know him online, telephone, etc for a good 6 months before we met in person, had sex on the first night. No biggie.

that's a good post right there.
 
give you a dude's point of view. If you are feelin him. wait about 1 second. If you are iffy, dont do it. It is a big time turn on when a woman wants you and cant resist it.
 
I don't even make them buy me dinner...lol. Have sex before the first date! Just kidding!
 
Most guys think your a slut if you sleep with them the first date so you got to trick them and wait at least until the 2nd or 3rd. If they don't make it past the first date then you know they were just in it for the sex anyway and thank god you didn't give it to them :artist: .
 
few of the girls were right, it depends on the connection and level of attraction. I have had a lot of boyfriends that I never had sex with them just because I thought that as soon as I give it up, they will move along to the next girl.

So, I am guessing, waiting in between 1-3 months. But then, all this was happening 7 + years ago and in another country...so....maybe girls are different now
 
velvett said:
3rd date to one month.

Of course it's all relative to how "often" you date.

I don't care what ANY guy says - you fuck him on the first date he'll think you fucked every other "first date".

you say otherwise - I say you're full of shit.

I could care less what a girls past is. If I am attracted to that is all that matters.
We all have our pasts and I would rather not share mine or find out about anyone elses. I don't really see the point unless you are trying to value yourself through another person.
 
Smurfy said:


yup

depends alot on chemisty etc... My first bf had to wait almost near a year.. not sure the exact amt of mts. My X had to wait a few weeks.... Its all about how you connect with some IMO.
 
Smurfy said:
Im a grown woman so if I decide to sleep with someone on the "first date" (first date could mean a lot of things especially if you already knew the person before said date) it should not be a big deal IMO. I make decisions, I act, and I deal with the consequences, if any, of my actions. We all make mistakes. Who is to say when the exact right time would be? It's basically up to the two parties involved. That's about it. You cant make a hard and fast rule about it. I dated one guy for a year and a half, never had sex. Dated another guy for approx 3 weeks, then had sex. Met my husband on the internet, got to know him online, telephone, etc for a good 6 months before we met in person, had sex on the first night. No biggie.


smurfey,
is that Mario VanPeebles in your avi?
 
slat1 said:
I could care less what a girls past is. If I am attracted to that is all that matters.
We all have our pasts and I would rather not share mine or find out about anyone elses. I don't really see the point unless you are trying to value yourself through another person.


I think that's the thought process of most people until they face a "past" they can not handle. And being that you'd rather not share your past aren't you questioning what sort of value that other person may place on you? It's the same thing.

I think Smurfy is right - but at the same time most guys will hold that against a woman as soon as the relationship sours.

Trust me.
 
Ah, I'm taken hotzie. But I think you upskirted me for your sig...lol.
 
if a woman sleeps with me on the first date then i don't think she is a slut, but if she sleeps with another guy on the first date then she is a slut. I have skills and I don't expect any woman to resist what they truely want, which is me of course. When it comes to other guys, that's different. I know no chump has any fistfullofsteel skills and therefore it is an inexcusable act on her part.
 
fistfullofsteel said:
if a woman sleeps with me on the first date then i don't think she is a slut, but if she sleeps with another guy on the first date then she is a slut. I have skills and I don't expect any woman to resist what they truely want, which is me of course. When it comes to other guys, that's different. I know no chump has any fistfullofsteel skills and therefore it is an inexcusable act on her part.


lol.....that was amuzing read :lmao:
 
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