It's not the size, it's how you use it. I was always the one who couldn't get laid in high school, and my buddy got any chick he wanted, any time. And I'm twice his size (in all aspects; I wear a size 14 boot). Any time a serious conversation comes up with a woman who has had both large and smaller men, it seems like the woman really doesn't care how big you are, but she cares a whole lot if you know how to use what you have!!!
As far as the suspensory ligament, I thought about looking into that because mine stays straight tight against my stomach, and hurts if it's bent too far down (like if my wife's on top). The problem with that operation is, it's all or nothing. Once they cut the ligament, your junk just dangles by gravity, and you'll look like you aren't even hard when you are. I don't want to have it done if it might make my junk loose and floppy. I wish they had a procedure to lengthen the suspensory ligament so you could hang lower but not be disconnected altogether. On the good side, I heard it's not painful, and the incision is tiny and is done in the crease between the shaft and the groin. Quick healing and not much of any pain. More reading needed!
Charles