Pay attention to the small things...

[b fold the truth]

In past relationships and in life I forgot to pay attention to the small details. There were little things that used to bother me or that I thought I was too macho for.

Sometimes, when that special person is gone, all you remember are the little things. How they smell, how they walk, how they say your name (even if it is incorrect a little), how they hug or kiss you, etc...

Sometimes you just remember how it felt to give them a little hug...or what it was like to spend time together with your friends and just wish that you could get away for a few minutes for a little kiss and a big private hug and an 'I love you'.

Remember, take that extra minute to say how much you care, give them that extra hug, and spend an extra minute each day taking the time to show how much they really mean to you...

B True

 

[big_bad_buff]

right on man, I know exactly what you're talking about, and I stand guilty of te crime in previous realationships. I guess once you get use to them being around and having that person and love always there, you start to take it for granted, and stop seeing all the small things that you once did when you first met, then start focusing on all the little bad things.

what happen bro? last thing I heard you two were going strong.

 

[revexrevex]

You wear glasses?

 

[b fold the truth]

what happen bro? last thing I heard you two were going strong.

We are...she is just at her home right now. Calls 2x a day just so that we can talk some while she is away.

revexrevex: Yes, I wear glasses when I read, watch tv, drive, etc... Makes me look smarter when I am around Nefi...

B True

 

[revexrevex]

Lol are they prescription or just show off?

And bro wtf happened. you use to give me a lot of training advice..... and now nothing? I feel abandoned

 

[big_bad_buff]

OIC, And i was hoping you broke up and would give me her number just kidding.....you guys look good together, you almost look like bro and sis. are you greek? hehe

We are...she is just at her home right now. Calls 2x a day just so that we can talk some while she is away.

 

[Rex]

B Fold: May I ask how she pronounces your name? Not trying to be a smart ass. I'm serious.

 

[Dougly]

Damn Tiny, where's the smile in those first two pics?

 

[endpoint]

all the things i miss

 

[Hannibal]

Sometimes, when that special person is gone, all you remember are the little things. How they smell, how they walk, how they say your name (even if it is incorrect a little), how they hug or kiss you, etc...

Remember, take that extra minute to say how much you care, give them that extra hug, and spend an extra minute each day taking the time to show how much they really mean to you...

The simple things are the most important...tomorrow is not promised...appreciate every second....and make sure they know it.

 

[WODIN]

Everything is small around you ya damn ape!

 

[Y_lifter]

The old saying "You don't know what you've got till its gone"
is way too true..

When I'm away on business, I'm miserable missing my girls..

Hang in there Mr. Huggy Bear..

 

[TC2]

In past relationships and in life I forgot to pay attention to the small details. There were little things that used to bother me or that I thought I was too macho for.

Sometimes, when that special person is gone, all you remember are the little things. How they smell, how they walk, how they say your name (even if it is incorrect a little), how they hug or kiss you, etc...

Sometimes you just remember how it felt to give them a little hug...or what it was like to spend time together with your friends and just wish that you could get away for a few minutes for a little kiss and a big private hug and an 'I love you'.

Remember, take that extra minute to say how much you care, give them that extra hug, and spend an extra minute each day taking the time to show how much they really mean to you...

B True



Sounds good in therory, but when it comes down to it it really doesnt mater what you do.

Women are so fickle and unstable minded that nothing you do is always going to be the right thing.

You have a big heart man and I feel for you cause your going to evently become jaded like me(I used to be just like you) and stop caring about all that shit.

Sad but true 99% of women are completly worthless now a days, hope you found a good one.

 

[from zero]

Reminds me of The Crow, when he is talking to Ernie Hudson.

"Nothing is insignificant." (or something close to that)

 

[vixenbabe]

Amen to those words Iron man!

I lost a close friend and mentor this past Thursday to cancer.

I'm glad I was able to tell him just how much I loved him before he left this earth.

I'm going to be lost without him in my life!

 

[lucidblue]

Great post B Fold.... everything you said is very true.

 

[from zero]

"Nothing is trivial"

I rule

Boo yeah!

 

[TC2]

Reminds me of The Crow, when he is talking to Ernie Hudson.

"Nothing is insignificant." (or something close to that)

"Nothing is trivial"

I rule

 

[Machiavellian Muscle]

Yeah, I agee we tend to dwell on the good times and beat ourselves up about why they are gone and what could have been. The bottom line is someone had less interest in the other person and we should look at why the relationship fell apart instead of feeling like a hopeless romantic. Take things as a learning experience and giving a little more effection probably won't save the relationship. This is how you feel now, but it is the bigger things that make relationships go sour.

 

[slickdadd]

Has anyone told you that you look EXACTLY like Joey Fatone from N'Sync. I think he might be a little bigger than you, but otherwise....dead ringer.

 

[NoDaddyNo]

I thought this was a thread about my penis.

 

[NoDaddyNo]

He said small...NOT teeeeeny tiny!

truer words have never been typed before

 

[vixenbabe]

I thought this was a thread about my penis.

He said small...NOT teeeeeny tiny!

 

[vixenbabe]

truer words have never been typed before

You at least have a quick wit and are cute.....

 

[gorilla_girl]

B- when you speak to Nefi next send her a big kiss for me..


I love the pics- you two are amazing together.. Im so glad I was able to meet you both...

xoxooxoxoxoxoxoox

 

[TheProject]

B- when you speak to Nefi next send her a big kiss for me..


I love the pics- you two are amazing together.. Im so glad I was able to meet you both...

xoxooxoxoxoxoxoox

Hi monkey woman!

 

[velvett]

Reminds me of The Crow, when he is talking to Ernie Hudson.

"Nothing is insignificant." (or something close to that)

I love that movie.

 

[Robert Jan]

Shit. Watch out if you share a bed with that woman, you dont accidentally roll over and make a Nefi pancake

 

[out_at_sea]

The big , gentle bear has spoken....Too much of a nice guy...

 

[gorilla_girl]

Hi monkey woman!

Hey you sexy stud!

 

[b fold the truth]

B Fold: May I ask how she pronounces your name? Not trying to be a smart ass. I'm serious.

They pronounce their "I's" like we do our "E's". So, instead of saying Clint...she says Cleent. It is pretty cute...lol.

Gorilla girl...I will do. She asks about you on a regular basis.

B True

 

[pitbullstl]

I love that movie.

Me too.......damn Lee family curse

 

[from zero]

I love that movie.

Damn. First you make the greatest sticky ever possible, and then you go ahead and love the same movies as me.

I love you.

 

[Bullit]

"Pay attention to the small things..."

Thats exactly what I say to the ladies when trying to get a BJ.

 

[cutiegirl]

You are one of the smart ones ( B fold the truth) who actually realizes this now, before it is to late. Most men ( all of the ones I've known) has regreted they way they have treated me once I've left but it was way to late then. And I even have ask them to be better to me and they would'nt and wont.

Here's a quote I heard once from a friend
" you are beautiful, smart, sexy and sweet, you deserve a man that will worship the ground you walk on, and if he does'nt then its his loss"

 

[cutiegirl]

You are one of the smart ones ( B fold the truth) who actually realizes this now, before it is to late. Most men ( all of the ones I've known) has regreted they way they have treated me once I've left but it was way to late then. And I even have ask them to be better to me and they would'nt and wont.

Here's a quote I heard once from a friend
" you are beautiful, smart, sexy and sweet, you deserve a man that will worship the ground you walk on, and if he does'nt then its his loss"

To bad I'm still looking for that man!

 

[theoak01]

I always look forward to your posts bro, your a fountain of wisdom,but it is a shame that a kind soul such as you has to learn about these things in life. stay strong though my friend,it will all workout in the end

 

[b fold the truth]

I always look forward to your posts bro, your a fountain of wisdom,but it is a shame that a kind soul such as you has to learn about these things in life. stay strong though my friend,it will all workout in the end

I try to learn something every single day. I am far from being perfect, just ask the women that I've dated in the past. I have made mistakes and would love to be able to go back and change them. Proudly, though, I can say that I have changed a lot and learned from the way that I have 'given' to my girl friends. My biggest mistakes have always been the same thing...not paying the most attention to the little things in every day life in a relationship.

cutiegirl: That quote sounds familliar. I think that I posted something VERY similar to one of my ex's on another forum not long ago when she was talking about a new guy that she was seeing.

B True

 

[Testosterone boy]

I'm thinking you could take her.

 

[b fold the truth]

I'm thinking you could take her.

She has told me before that it scares her what I could to do her, or someone else, if I got mad at them...especially after seeing me do events. Strange though...I REALLY don't EVER want to see her mad at me for ANY reason. Something about that Greek attitude and sharp knives that scares me.

B True

 

[theoak01]

I like that outlook on life, I feel we all should try to learn something new and keep our minds sharp. most people let their mind die once they get into a profession and routine.

 

[cutiegirl]

I like that outlook on life, I feel we all should try to learn something new and keep our minds sharp. most people let their mind die once they get into a profession and routine.

Its sad but true!

 

[cutiegirl]

I thought this was a thread about my penis.

Did someone say penis?

 

[b fold the truth]

Has anyone told you that you look EXACTLY like Joey Fatone from N'Sync. I think he might be a little bigger than you, but otherwise....dead ringer.

Yes...I've been told that SEVERAL times before.

B True