Online dating

[antares]

Let's say u're on a dating website and u' re contacted by an ugly chick
(ugly guy for u ladies)

Would u reply or ignore her (him)?

If u reply,
do u say u re not interested
or pretend to be?

 

[nycgirl]

If the person was unattractive or did not appeal to me for some other reason, I didn't reply. They probably sent the same message to other chicks. I think by not replying they will get the message that chick #1234 isn't interested.

 

[Basic_wonder]

how do you tell if the girl online is ugly or is even a girl, she might be this super hot girl that wants a guy for her mind and not body, or maybe she is a everquest playing male that lives with his parents ....

 

[foreigngirl]

how do you tell if the girl online is ugly or is even a girl, she might be this super hot girl that wants a guy for her mind and not body, or maybe she is a everquest playing male that lives with his parents ....

thats what I am saying too

 

[antares]

Basic_wonder,
u know if she's ugly by looking at her pic

 

[antares]

If the person was unattractive or did not appeal to me for some other reason, I didn't reply. They probably sent the same message to other chicks. I think by not replying they will get the message that chick #1234 isn't interested.

Do u imply that because he's ugly he must be hitting every female around?

 

[nycgirl]

Do u imply that because he's ugly he must be hitting every female around?

That's not what I meant. But likely, I'm not the only woman on the site he may have sent a message to that day. That's what I meant. My ex-boyfriend (we were together for 2 years) replied to 2 other girls the same day he replied to my post.

I'm very blunt. So my profile and specifications were beyond to the point. I didn't reply to people that were attractive if they were not what I was looking for.

If I wasn't interested for whatever reason, I didn't reply.

 

[PBR]

bro, most of them lie!!! for starters...if they post an ugly pic, dont even respond- you'll never hear the end of it....make them shoot you a "current" pic or web-cam...you would not believe the shit ive been thru...if they are "WAY HOTTIES"- their "hookin" or looking for you to pay to see a website....bottom line be very very careful and take your time and be thorough...

 

[antares]

That's not what I meant. But likely, I'm not the only woman on the site he may have sent a message to that day. That's what I meant. My ex-boyfriend (we were together for 2 years) replied to 2 other girls the same day he replied to my post.

I'm very blunt. So my profile and specifications were beyond to the point. I didn't reply to people that were attractive if they were not what I was looking for.

If I wasn't interested for whatever reason, I didn't reply.

that makes sense

on the other hand u never knows who hides behind a 10 lines description
even photos can be misleading

 

[nycgirl]

that makes sense

on the other hand u never knows who hides behind a 10 lines description
even photos can be misleading

After they reply, you then weed them out with the right questioning and use of common sense. If my gut tells me something isn't right, whether I met the person in real life or on a site, I listen to it. Even people you meet in real life can be misleading. That's the gamble you take.