OMFG... I'm all freaked out now!

[ChefWide]

Frisky - i would be a little worried, but at the same time he might not know any better if he's that young. just a couple of years ago he was probably following girls around the mall and pretending to be shopping at girl's clothing stores for his sister just to get closer.

anyways, be careful just in case.

hmmmm... did that work, coverguy?

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Frisky - i would be a little worried, but at the same time he might not know any better if he's that young. just a couple of years ago he was probably following girls around the mall and pretending to be shopping at girl's clothing stores for his sister just to get closer.

anyways, be careful just in case.

true.. LOL

So thats what that guy was doing following me around Victorias Secret . He kept coming up to me asking me if I minded trying things on for him cause I was the exact size of his sister and he wanted to buy a few thing for her. I thought he was genuine, DAMN..


In one sense I commend the guy for having balls, but showing up at my work.. now thats overboard.

I'm gonna be very cautious indeed.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

ok frisky you can send me your stories anytime

i wouldnt worry about it personally. when you live in a city you cant rely on circumstance to help put you near the people you want to get to know, and have to be a little more proactive...if hes young, hes probably still testing the boundaries of what he can/cant/should/shouldnt do.

i wouldnt worry personally, jerseyart never came across as being violent, so...

 

[coverguy]

hmmmm... did that work, coverguy?

i'm more of the upfront type. however, one of my very good friends was known to do this quite often, and our crew would punk him a little bit when we were all together. he did get girls by doing this, but if you don anything enough it will work out sometimes!

 

[Dial_tone]

He's definitely stalker material.

 

[javaguru]

I've reached one conclusion I've reached after years of hearing these types of stories from female friends. The difference between a "stalker", "weirdo", or "freak" and an "amazing romantic guy" is whether or not the woman finds the man attractive.

Imagine how different this story would be told if frisky had lost his number but found the guy very attractive. A couple months later he "runs" into her by accident, sounds like a scene from a chick flick to me. I wouldn't worry about a guy putting in a little leg work to make sure you didn't lose his number or were too chicken to call him. Now if it continues then start labeling him a weirdo or stalker. Women need to step back and imagine what it would be like if they had to do all the pursuing and maybe they would cut guys a break.

 

[velvett]

I make it a point of asking stalkers if they'd like to go to the shooting range with me for a bit because I have a new 9 mil rifle I'd like to break in.

Oh and always ask with a smile.

 

[In10se]

I attended a seminar about two months ago for a software that I use at work. Right before I leave a young guy apporaches me, makes small talk etc etc.. gives me his number and says to call him sometimes. Well... I never called or emailed him.. actually completely forgot about the whole incident.

So this morning, I drive in to work... pull in the parking garage and who pulls in behind me? OMFG... I didn't tell him where I worked. And even If I did the building I work in is in a awkard place thats in the valley of our main office.. so I get out my car.. and It this guy. HOLY FUCK! He's like I know this is crazy huh.. I was dropping my friend off down the road and I saw you pass...

So Im like wtf you followed me here . And he's wanting my number... etc etc.

Now I'm all weired out... This type of thing just isn't normal. Am I over reacting or should I be really cautious?

It should have been clear to him you were saying no. If he showes up again nuke his ass. Unless he sends a $3,000,000 limo full of diamonds to pick you up ...

No matter what keep his info in case you do need to go proactive on him. I am new to this site and don't know you, but you might have some EF friends in your area that would be happey to "re-educate" the fellow on proper care and treatmernt of the American female. I am sure we have some law enforcement personell as members here that would be happy to inform this guy stalking is not an acceptable way to for dorks to treat our women.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

I make it a point of asking stalkers if they'd like to go to the shooting range with me for a bit because I have a new 9 mil rifle I'd like to break in.

Oh and always ask with a smile.

... I like that idea.

 

[velvett]

... I like that idea.

TEEHEHE

print him a photo of "your baby" - BAHAHHAHAH