You mean to tell me that you don't know ANY eligible bachelors who are fairly successfull, not too bad on the eyes and whom aren't married? Well it goes both ways.
No one said the site is brimming over with "winners" (male OR female). Matter of fact it took quite a bit of effort to find someone who was not only real (meaning they were who they said they were) but someone that I was compatible with, which was no different than our experiences with any other of the more "traditional" dating sites.
So I don't understand what is so hard to believe.