Man...we can tell you what we "think" all day long but in the end it's your decision. Everyone can tell you "well if I were you..." till they are blue in the face. But they arent you and thy dont know the whole story, they dont know her and they dont know you. So the best advice I could ever give you is do whatever your heart tells you and make your own decisions. I wouldn't waste my time or my boyfriend's if I didnt feel like I could be with him in the long run...think about that. I hope that helps.