Ok..someone explain this female to me...

[JuiceLeeNinja]

Ok so we broke up because I did somthing I shouldnt have and esentially lost her trust (not cheating). We then continued hooking up for the last 2 months, kissing, holding hands, talking nightly, etc (everything but sex). This all despite the fact she no longer felt anything "romantic" for me. Weird thing is we never did ANYTHING while going out yet she's suddenly all nice and open after we're done.

Now I'm not one to comlain about getting play from someone especially when the girl is my best friend but she get horribly jealous when I talk about any other female, keeps telling me she wants to "just be friends" yet will kiss me, hold hands and be clingy the next fucking day.

Oh yeah..She pissed me off yesterday and I tell her I need 24 hours to think. So she shows up at my house in tears on my fucking doorstep with a bag-full of homemade gifts and beggs me to forgive her...

For someone who doesnt feel anything she is acting very suspect, I'm thinking she still feels things but violating her trust fucked me over and she's not willing to act on feelings anymore

Opinions?

 

[dy5]

umm yeah , its quite clear she likes you alot, but im sure she feels that it would be hard for her to trust you again , so maybe that is what is holding her back, but i think she wants to be with you, you have to either show her you want to be with her, and that she can trust you again or nothing at all.

 

[flex123]

She's a woman therfore she is crazy and doen't know what she wants. She is probbly using this not together but act like it situation to try and control you. Cheat on her now before she cheats on you.

This advice is coming from a bitter man, so don't take it to heart.

 

[dy5]

yeah that is probably some of the worse advice anyone could have ever given, but i know how he feels

flex123? lets become blood brothers and make a pact with the blood of our hands and kill women like that guy from that movie with sylvestor stallone, called cobra.
SWEET i get to wear used panty hoes on my head.
so you up for it?

 

[queena_82]

Here's the deal.....She WANTS to be with you and wants to trust you. But thse things take time, I know. If you really want to be with her, stay faithful and just wait for her to decide where she stands. She's really confused I'm sure but if she's still coming arround like that and still gets jealous then she still has feelings. She's obviously just hurt and doesn't want to right now. When you don't want to feel for someone and still do theres nothing you can do about it and the feelings of wanting to be with that person usually wins in the end. Just give her time

 

[b fold the truth]

1) You are trying to find reason in a woman. Why?

2) Been through something VERY similar...let her go!!! Once they start acting like this, they will do everything that they can to make you THINK that this is your fault...and they actually might do it. They are not worth it...especially when they start acting like this...it shows VOLUMES about their character and how they will treat you in the future.

3) See number 1.

B True

 

[p0ink]

So she shows up at my house in tears on my fucking doorstep with a bag-full of homemade gifts and beggs me to forgive her...

does she have blonde hair and does her name start with a 'k'?

i think you may be dating my ex.

 

[Tiervexx]

1) You are trying to find reason in a woman. Why?

2) Been through something VERY similar...let her go!!! Once they start acting like this, they will do everything that they can to make you THINK that this is your fault...and they actually might do it. They are not worth it...especially when they start acting like this...it shows VOLUMES about their character and how they will treat you in the future.

3) See number 1.

B True

What he said.

 

[The Red Dragon]

Sounds like a headcase. Ditch! Ditch! Ditch!

 

[lucidblue]

umm yeah , its quite clear she likes you alot, but im sure she feels that it would be hard for her to trust you again , so maybe that is what is holding her back, but i think she wants to be with you, you have to either show her you want to be with her, and that she can trust you again or nothing at all.

This might be true... but she is sending you mixed signals and that's not fair either. You did something to make her not trust you, but her actions are making you not be able to trust what she's says. Tell her in a nice way that she's being a hypocrite.